racism does have a lot to do with the dating situation in america. and i would even say that it will have and effect on you even with foreign women.in america women mostly want a white guy with a lot of money or the bad boy thug.usually the white guy with a lot of money.zboy1 wrote:Falcon, a lot of Asian American women are hard-core feminists and hate Asian men. Many are extremely self-hating about their heritage. Can you blame them, though, being brought up in a white dominated society that often looks down on Asian men? So many of our sisters go whoring for white guys, while not giving us the time of day. Racism is a big factor in all of this.
Kinda of reminds me of the tension between black men and black women I hear all the time from blacks on this site and from black friends. Self-internalized racism affects all minority groups the most!
i my humble opinion most women in america only date men of they're own ethnic group because white men don't find them attractive this holds true to many black women,or i usually see the fresh off the boat foreign women tend to stay with men in they're own culture those are the only two times i don't see a women in america with a white man. most women want a white guy even if the dude is not rich.
another thing i also see is how foreigners come to the states and kiss white peoples asses like there is no tomorrow while looking down on blacks who fought alone for the civil rights they are benefiting from today.
i was in a brasilian bar a week ago and normally i am the only black american there but i saw a black dude there trying to talk to women and he was getting turned down one after the other and these girls were treating him like shit as if he wasn't even worthy of being respected at all. but the brasilian and hispanic men there were respected by the women whether they were somebody they wanted to hook up with or not they were respected.
and while the chicks where dissing this guy they would speak in portugese and i'm just siting there looking at them i can understand every thing they say but the poor dude could not and i'm just thinking who the f**k are these women to try to make an american person feel uncomfortable in his own country when they are the foreigners.one even called him a grigo when they are the ones who are the gringas.
plus i see a lot afro brasilian and mixed brasilian women come to the states to jump on a white dudes dick at the drop of a hat.
and don't even get me started on the asian women and white men,which is why i don't even bother with asian women most of them are not looking to be with a black man nor an asian man they stay stuck up a white guys asses.