It's so f***ing unfair

[tradcom]

That I was raised in the shitty West instead of the CIS with its most beautiful (and very accessible) women in the world.

In particular, every single one of have2fly's (who clearly understands this more than others here) posts causes a sharp pang in my heart due to this fact. Also, I myself have come to the exact same conclusions as have2fly by simply observing immigrant girls right here in Canada!

This shit is making more depressed, by far, than anything else related to not having a girlfriend.

[Think Different]

I don't know how old you are, but beyond 20 years ago, the CIS was not exactly a great place to be, society-wise or opportunity-wise, despite the girls. NOW is your golden opportunity, not 20 years ago. The cards are now all in YOUR hands.

[tradcom]

I don't know how old you are, but beyond 20 years ago, the CIS was not exactly a great place to be, society-wise or opportunity-wise, despite the girls. NOW is your golden opportunity, not 20 years ago. The cards are now all in YOUR hands.

Looks like you haven't heard my views on the Soviet Union (though due to my age, I wouldn't have been around to see much of it anyways).

Nor have you heard my views on immigration - if you didn't grow up in a society, you'll never truly feel at home there. Plus, I feel like I've wasted the best years of my life.

[ladislav]

Why not go there?

[tradcom]

Why not go there?

Did you even read my post, the one that's right above yours?

[odbo]

Looks like you haven't heard my views on the Soviet Union (though due to my age, I wouldn't have been around to see much of it anyways).

Nor have you heard my views on immigration - if you didn't grow up in a society, you'll never truly feel at home there. Plus, I feel like I've wasted the best years of my life.

that's some the dumbest shit i've heard in my life. and you managed it in only a few lines!

Nor have you heard my views on immigration - if you didn't grow up in a society, you'll never truly feel at home there.

The statistics prove expats are happier than people who live in their home country! I never felt home in America, that's a bummer right, because according to your theory I'll never have a home. Bro wake up, all knowledge comes from experience. Making theories (in this case, uneducated guesses) is fine but don't believe your own propaganda! Go abroad, start a family, and you'll feel at home. Maybe it's not possible in a big city, and you'll always feel like a fish out of water, but you could say the same for any big city here in the states. Live around nature (a human environment) not among the midtown madness and you'll feel at home regardless of what "nation" you are in.

Plus, I feel like I've wasted the best years of my life.

We all wish we moved abroad when we turned 18. But letting regret overcome you is a waste of time. Look forward, all that exists is now!

Looks like you haven't heard my views on the Soviet Union (though due to my age, I wouldn't have been around to see much of it anyways).

We're all victims of the times, saying others are so lucky compared to you is totally self-centered and is negating the fact that virtually everyone on the globe got f***ed over by globalist bankersters one way or another the last 50 years, Russia especially.. Compared to the 1990s, the USSR was the good ol' days, which it most certainly wasn't! It was the most evil regime in the history of the world, and was only temporarily taken down to maneuver towards a revamped socialist empire this time spanning the entire globe.

All I can say is enjoy your freedom while it lasts. It'll be better to be dead than to live in a "brave new world". Stop bitching, stop thinking like a slave, get out there and make a life for yourself. A free man should have no patriotic allegiances and other mind parasites. You're an adult, come to terms with the fact that America is dead. No different from those African countries like Rwanda. I'm sure it's citizens reminisce about the good old days, but nothing lasts forever including societies. America didn't die because of genocide, it died gradually, so gradual that most didn't bother to notice. You could claim the real America died when the Federal Reserve Act was passed. You could say it died during WWII when it became an imperialistic military superpower. Who really cares when it died?

What is left of American "culture"? The tv. And we all know there's nothing American about it. The Zionist/Jesuit/FreeMason run entertainment industry which has a global reach, does two things really well. It destroys indigenous culture, and dumbs down society. Seeing as how Hollywood is in America, it doesn't take a genius to figure out why this place is so f***ed up. What exactly are you leaving behind here!? American Idol, Family Guy, and the rest of the retard youth-culture?! Their own documents explain that nothing on tv should be above a 6th grade level, because if you talk to adults like a child, they will respond in like. There are no rich experiences to be gained here among the iHop pancakes, Fox News, Gestapo-cops and oversized pick-up trucks. How long can one poke a dead carcass before realizing, hey, this thing is dead!

[tradcom]

Before I respond to your individual points, I will say this: none of what you said really made a difference to my main argument - the wasted years as well as where I grew up.

Looks like you haven't heard my views on the Soviet Union (though due to my age, I wouldn't have been around to see much of it anyways).

Nor have you heard my views on immigration - if you didn't grow up in a society, you'll never truly feel at home there. Plus, I feel like I've wasted the best years of my life.

that's some the dumbest shit i've heard in my life. and you managed it in only a few lines!

Hello to you too.

Nor have you heard my views on immigration - if you didn't grow up in a society, you'll never truly feel at home there.

The statistics prove expats are happier than people who live in their home country! I never felt home in America, that's a bummer right, because according to your theory I'll never have a home. Bro wake up, all knowledge comes from experience. Making theories (in this case, uneducated guesses) is fine but don't believe your own propaganda! Go abroad, start a family, and you'll feel at home. Maybe it's not possible in a big city, and you'll always feel like a fish out of water, but you could say the same for any big city here in the states. Live around nature (a human environment) not among the midtown madness and you'll feel at home regardless of what "nation" you are in.

"There are three kinds of lies: lies, damned lies, and statistics."

Plus, I feel like I've wasted the best years of my life.

We all wish we moved abroad when we turned 18. But letting regret overcome you is a waste of time. Look forward, all that exists is now!

I'm barely an adult, for your information.

Looks like you haven't heard my views on the Soviet Union (though due to my age, I wouldn't have been around to see much of it anyways).

We're all victims of the times, saying others are so lucky compared to you is totally self-centered and is negating the fact that virtually everyone on the globe got f***ed over by globalist bankersters one way or another the last 50 years, Russia especially.. Compared to the 1990s, the USSR was the good ol' days, which it most certainly wasn't! It was the most evil regime in the history of the world, and was only temporarily taken down to maneuver towards a revamped socialist empire this time spanning the entire globe.

Wow, you're the first person I've heard to say the USSR was worse than Nazi Germany. In any case, life in the post-Stalin USSR wasn't that great in large part because it had to defend itself from what was, and still is, the REAL evil empire - the USA. Communist Yugoslavia, for example, which didn't have to do this thanks in large part to the USSR itself, was a near-paradise!

All I can say is enjoy your freedom while it lasts. It'll be better to be dead than to live in a "brave new world". Stop bitching, stop thinking like a slave, get out there and make a life for yourself. A free man should have no patriotic allegiances and other mind parasites. You're an adult, come to terms with the fact that America is dead. No different from those African countries like Rwanda. I'm sure it's citizens reminisce about the good old days, but nothing lasts forever including societies. America didn't die because of genocide, it died gradually, so gradual that most didn't bother to notice. You could claim the real America died when the Federal Reserve Act was passed. You could say it died during WWII when it became an imperialistic military superpower. Who really cares when it died?

What is left of American "culture"? The tv. And we all know there's nothing American about it. The Zionist/Jesuit/FreeMason run entertainment industry which has a global reach, does two things really well. It destroys indigenous culture, and dumbs down society. Seeing as how Hollywood is in America, it doesn't take a genius to figure out why this place is so f***ed up. What exactly are you leaving behind here!? iHop pancakes, Fox News, Gestapo-cops and oversized pick-up trucks? Get real! How long can one poke a dead carcass before realizing, hey, this thing is dead!

Now this I agree with. I will say, though, that America actually died on December 31, 1991, the day the Soviet Union ceased to exist. Pretty much every major American technological advancement in the latter half of the 20th century was created by massive amounts of government funding (not to mention government-induced brain drains from other countries, which made them poorer) for projects to beat the Soviet Union. Even the Internet exists solely because the USSR existed.

[odbo]

What is left of American "culture"? The tv. And we all know there's nothing American about it. The Zionist/Jesuit/FreeMason run entertainment industry which has a global reach, does two things really well. It destroys indigenous culture, and dumbs down society. Seeing as how Hollywood is in America, it doesn't take a genius to figure out why this place is so f***ed up. What exactly are you leaving behind here!? iHop pancakes, Fox News, Gestapo-cops and oversized pick-up trucks? Get real! How long can one poke a dead carcass before realizing, hey, this thing is dead!

Now this I agree with. I will say, though, that America actually died on December 31, 1991, the day the Soviet Union ceased to exist. Pretty much every major American technological advancement in the latter half of the 20th century was created by massive amounts of government funding (not to mention government-induced brain drains from other countries, which made them poorer) for projects to beat the Soviet Union. Even the Internet exists solely because the USSR existed.

I edited that last paragraph slightly to make it less vague. America, as a place to live, have rich life experiences and generally be a place where you can feel free and be treated like a human, was destroyed over several decades. For other criteria you can better pinpoint a date.

Before I respond to your individual points, I will say this: none of what you said really made a difference to my main argument - the wasted years as well as where I grew up.

It wasn't supposed to. Your original rant was understandable, but the reasons for not improving your life are ridiculous. My post was a wake up call that you don't have to waste the remaining years of your life living the same way that made you so miserable. Who says the next 5 years won't be the best of your life? Believe me, I know what you're talking about. Childhood is special and I wish I had a better one as well. But you're not the only one who had your life ruined by circumstances you can't control. You think the children of Eastern Europe had a good life in the 90s? That's just one example of MANY.


Get mad at the people who did this to you. (Research the new world order). Don't get defeatist. Look at prison inmates. Many are innocent and still have years of their life WASTED living in a cell. When they get out, they appreciate the simple things that much more. Do they say "Oh, I was in jail from 18 to 38, my best years are wasted. Let me go hang myself." ?? NO. It's your life, you only get one shot. Don't be a weakling, or the social engineers will have defeated you. Don't you get it, life's a marathon.

So you're 18 or 19 now? It might seem like your teenage years are all that there will ever be but that's not true. When you're in your mid-20s you'll look back on this perspective and laugh. Moreover you'll really regret not having done something back then, the same way you now regret spending your childhood here.

[ladislav]

Well, the babes were great but they all got married and are middle aged ladies now. The architecture was great, too, but after seeing it every day, you are no longer in awe.
You are lucky you have a US passport which affords you visa free entry about anywhere, you are a native English speaker and can be a teacher of English and make a living there.
As a man your age does not matter when it comes to love as long as you are outside the West so you have many years ahead of you to make up for all the deprivations of your youth.
If you do what I do, one day you will get to the point when you can get laid and /or go on a date every day, but you would rather stay home alone and read a book.

[momopi]

Looks like you haven't heard my views on the Soviet Union (though due to my age, I wouldn't have been around to see much of it anyways).
Nor have you heard my views on immigration - if you didn't grow up in a society, you'll never truly feel at home there. Plus, I feel like I've wasted the best years of my life.

Look, if you set conditions for yourself that prevents you from going somewhere, you'll stay exactly where you are.

[Adama]

I agreed with the first post. The subsequent posts just indicate that you are self-defeatist / self-saboteur. That's much worse than whining.

[have2fly]

Oh wow. I am certainly glad I showed the other side of the fence because what I write are my true experiences. Of course when I was coming to the U.S. I expected life here to be even better, that it will be filled with Hollywood-type fun parties and friendly open American friends. Well, that did not happen You still have time to enjoy, you are very young. I reveal my experience because my friends who went to high schools in the U.S. told me "how it was" for them and that made me so happy that I never went to high school in the U.S. It would've been a nightmare!

Odbo:

Nah, total lie. USSR was not Heaven, it was not really "free" when you live there... BUT... it had normal "FREE" healthcare (not fancy, but you got help when needed), great "FREE" higher education, it had virtually "NO" homeless people, it had virtually "NO" drug addicts and "NO" HIV/AIDS due to closed borders, it also had cheap and affordable public transportation, also people had a "FREE" vacation in Crimea resorts during the summer (similar to California), those trips were provided by the factories and places where people worked. Also USSR had stability - there was no sharp increases in prices, prices would stay the same for 10 years easily. It was not easy to buy a car, it was not allowed to sell anything commercially - everything was state owned and provided, it was tough to get a separate apartment - so kids, parents and grandparents would often live together, sometimes cramped, but I was lucky to always have my own room and great educated family around.

Now in response to your video about homeless kids I will post this true story, the video will be hosted at Russian main state channel - channel One. It tells a story about 2 sisters - one had moved to the U.S. because she found a stepmother. Another one stayed in Russia. The video is about 5 minutes long. It talks about hardship of getting visa to come to the States and how American woman wants to take that girl from Russia and bring her to the States. NOW: pay attention to the girl in Russia. She claims to survive on 19 dollars a month if I got it right. But LOOK how Americanized and FAT (did I say FAT???) her sister who lived in America for many years looks and how her sister looks by living in Russia. Pay attention to make up, clothes and attitude. Also pay attention to the picture on the wall where 2 sisters are together many years ago back in Russia - how sweet and pretty both of them looked! NOW that's what happens to children... It is ALL about the country you grow up! Living in America makes you fat and makes you dress like a pig. So she has an American mother and a great house in Boston, it is all great. But she became a freaking pig! HOW SAD!
http://www.1tv.ru/news/world/151577

[The_Adventurer]

I am perfectly happy with where I grew up. I am even happy with my adult years in America. The reason is because I would never be able to appreciate all that I have out here in Asia without my previous experience. IF I grew up in Japan, I would probably not be so in love with Japan as I am now. If I grew up in CHina, the food, girls and cool cities would probably not be anything special to me as they are now. If I grew up in Korea, the futuristic cites (granted they weren't there at the time) cell phones, gadgets and 100 Mbits internet would not be the godsend I see them as today.

Sure, I struggled with weight in the US. I used to have to work out like mad just to not be obese. When I left America permanently, the weight melted off without effort. I never had to think about it. I never had to try to lose weight. I just joined in the fat free society around me, ate the natural healthy food everyone else ate, and the weight was gone. My muscle, luckily, did not go with it.

Yes, I struggled with outrageous living costs, even when I made big money, because I was programmed to spend it unwisely. I had the expensive apartment, an awesome car and all the toys, PS2, Xbox and so on, which kept me broke. Granted I was better off than my friends who married, bought a house and two cars. When the video game industry crash hit, I just floated on, but they all lost big. Still, as soon as I left America, I could live well on my meager website income at the time, which was less than the cost of my rent alone in California.

I am glad to have had all those experiences. It lets me really appreciate and enjoy the life that I have now. I never had a girl that could hold a candle to my current gf, or my previous Korean and Philippines girls. Not once (except when I dated Japanese exchange students in college) did I find a sweet girl I could consider marrying. Now Most girls I interact with might fit into that category.

Even being broke is so much easier in a place like the Philippines than in the US. WHen my website wasn't doing well, I lived very local style, eating on a few cents per day. Your "ramen money" in the US goes so much further in Asia.

[tradcom]

Oh wow. I am certainly glad I showed the other side of the fence because what I write are my true experiences. Of course when I was coming to the U.S. I expected life here to be even better, that it will be filled with Hollywood-type fun parties and friendly open American friends. Well, that did not happen You still have time to enjoy, you are very young. I reveal my experience because my friends who went to high schools in the U.S. told me "how it was" for them and that made me so happy that I never went to high school in the U.S. It would've been a nightmare!

Yeah well, it makes me depressed that I'll never get to have those high school experiences you talked about in other posts. What's even worse, though, is that to truly feel at home in a society, especially like those of the CIS where connections are so important, you need to have grown up there. Most importantly, I don't think that the psychological trauma that this society puts one through ever fully goes away, making it hard to connect with people.

Odbo:

Nah, total lie. USSR was not Heaven, it was not really "free" when you live there... BUT... it had normal "FREE" healthcare (not fancy, but you got help when needed), great "FREE" higher education, it had virtually "NO" homeless people, it had virtually "NO" drug addicts and "NO" HIV/AIDS due to closed borders, it also had cheap and affordable public transportation, also people had a "FREE" vacation in Crimea resorts during the summer (similar to California), those trips were provided by the factories and places where people worked. Also USSR had stability - there was no sharp increases in prices, prices would stay the same for 10 years easily. It was not easy to buy a car, it was not allowed to sell anything commercially - everything was state owned and provided, it was tough to get a separate apartment - so kids, parents and grandparents would often live together, sometimes cramped, but I was lucky to always have my own room and great educated family around.

Point by point, this is identical to what I have heard about the USSR myself. The only thing, though, is that "great" education is a massive understatement - it was THE best in the world (nothing even came or comes close), and it was the MOST important aspect of the greatness of the society itself.

Now in response to your video about homeless kids I will post this true story, the video will be hosted at Russian main state channel - channel One. It tells a story about 2 sisters - one had moved to the U.S. because she found a stepmother. Another one stayed in Russia. The video is about 5 minutes long. It talks about hardship of getting visa to come to the States and how American woman wants to take that girl from Russia and bring her to the States. NOW: pay attention to the girl in Russia. She claims to survive on 19 dollars a month if I got it right. But LOOK how Americanized and FAT (did I say FAT???) her sister who lived in America for many years looks and how her sister looks by living in Russia. Pay attention to make up, clothes and attitude. Also pay attention to the picture on the wall where 2 sisters are together many years ago back in Russia - how sweet and pretty both of them looked! NOW that's what happens to children... It is ALL about the country you grow up! Living in America makes you fat and makes you dress like a pig. So she has an American mother and a great house in Boston, it is all great. But she became a freaking pig! HOW SAD!
http://www.1tv.ru/news/world/151577

Argh! Again, it's so f***ing unfair, having to deal with these spoiled, entitled bitches who KNOW they can get any guy they want and thus won't give you the time of day. How the f**k am I supposed to even talk to normal women after having grown up in this environment?

[odbo]

Argh! Again, it's so f***ing unfair, having to deal with these spoiled, entitled bitches who KNOW they can get any guy they want and thus won't give you the time of day. How the f**k am I supposed to even talk to normal women after having grown up in this environment?

Ranting is justified, being pessimistic and doubting your ability to adapt is not. The world doesn't care about your minuscule problems (an identity crisis!?). You want to appeal to foreign girls? For starters lose that American sense of entitlement and all your other baggage.