I did it, I am engaged!

[Outcast9428]

I finally did it y'all! I proposed to my girlfriend today and she said yes!

@MarcosZeitola I know it took a long time lol but it finally happened.

Today was one of, if not the happiest day of my entire life. I can't remember a time I have ever felt this way. I'm still processing what just happened. My (now) fiance broke down crying when I asked her to marry me. I've never seen her glow so brightly as I did today. It was truly amazing.

[MarcosZeitola]

Today was one of, if not the happiest day of my entire life. I can't remember a time I have ever felt this way. I'm still processing what just happened. My (now) fiance broke down crying when I asked her to marry me. I've never seen her glow so brightly as I did today. It was truly amazing.

Dude, I'm super happy for you and I hope this is the beginning of something truly great! I'm glad you stopped hesitating and worrying so much about what your family or hers might say... it's time for you to be the "man of the house", your own house, head of your own family. This is what all those traditionalist views of yours all culminated in. And this is merely the first chapter in a book of many pages.

Take care, be well, and I wish you and your bride-to-be the best time! I hope you'll make your dreams come true, raise the big traditional family you've always dreamed of and raise little anti-woke hellraisers that shake up the status quo and will be as based as can be. Good luck, mate!

[publicduende]

@Outcast9428

I don't have much data about your romantic life, but congratulations none the less!! Here's a big cheers to a man who believes in love, believes in commitment and is ready to prove it to the woman he loves!

[gsjackson]

Congrats and best of luck. Taking up permanent residence in Virginia?

[MrMan]

I finally did it y'all! I proposed to my girlfriend today and she said yes!

@MarcosZeitola I know it took a long time lol but it finally happened.

Today was one of, if not the happiest day of my entire life. I can't remember a time I have ever felt this way. I'm still processing what just happened. My (now) fiance broke down crying when I asked her to marry me. I've never seen her glow so brightly as I did today. It was truly amazing.

Did she cry till her eyes got puffy? Was there snot? It's pretty common for girls to get so overwhelmed that they cry when being engaged to. It has a lot to do with culture, emotional temperament and personality, but if a man has been dating a girl and she doesn't cry or get a little emotional, he may have cause for concern. If it's an arranged marriage situation and they just met a few times and he proposes, and she doesn't cry, that may be okay.

My wife cried, her eyes got puffy. She could hardly talk and she was saying, "That's wonderful" and I had to ask her a few times if that meant yes. I needed the clarity. They didn't do the down on one knee thing over there, so she was commenting on how beautiful what I'd done was. Engagement there means you go to her parents, sometimes with your family. I'd told her to dress up for my birthday. She dressed fancy. I'd worn a suit. I took her to a nice fancy restaurant.

How did you pop the question? Have you talked to her dad or other relatives and gotten permission and their blessing yet? The father giving her away is important, Biblically, but also for having her family's support behind the marriage and peace between relatives.

Tell us about your fiancee.

[WilliamSmith]

I finally did it y'all! I proposed to my girlfriend today and she said yes!

@MarcosZeitola I know it took a long time lol but it finally happened.

Today was one of, if not the happiest day of my entire life. I can't remember a time I have ever felt this way. I'm still processing what just happened. My (now) fiance broke down crying when I asked her to marry me. I've never seen her glow so brightly as I did today. It was truly amazing.

@Outcast9428
All right! Way to go!

This makes me happy both for your success (most importantly), but also because I was hoping you hadn't quit the forum, LOL.

[Outcast9428]

Glad to see all the positive posts...

@Pixel--Dude I took her to a park where I live that has a lake and a restaurant and asked my sister to take pictures of us while we were getting engaged. I got there around the time the sun was setting and I was getting into the position that my sister asked us to get in, but she saw my sister and was starting to figure things out so I had to begin my speech. I told her how she's made all my dreams come true and how much I love her and how I want to be with her forever, then got down on one knee and asked her to marry me. My sister did manage to get a lot of good pictures during the proposal and afterward.

@MarcosZeitola Well its interesting because her parents did want me to wait, but what my friend and I said was that if I asked her dad for permission before I asked her that he'd probably just ask me to wait and then proposing anyway would end up being rude. My friend told me that if I just went ahead and did it that they would probably just accept it. And that is what ended up happening. I didn't ask her parents for permission prior to proposing to her, but when we came back and announced our engagement. I did say to her dad "I know its a little late but I would really appreciate having your blessing to marry your daughter." And he told me that I was a gentleman who had always treated her very well and that he would be happy to welcome me to the family.

Now that it has happened it seems like they are happy with it. Its almost like all the months prior, having the uncertainty over what decision we were going to make was what was really bothering them. We told them that we want to wait two years before having our wedding so we can save enough money to get a down payment and afford a house. Basically have a long engagement period but have our commitment to one another sealed in stone. I don't think this is their ideal scenario but it seems to be more acceptable then what they thought we were gonna do.

Now that that uncertainty is gone though, they seem happy. I think seeing our engagement photos made them happy too. So I do think proposing when I did ended up being a good decision for everybody.

@publicduende Appreciate man, I definitely hope that my life can be an inspiration to people that you can still find long term happiness and a traditional life in the 21st century... Whether its with an American woman or a foreign woman.

@gsjackson Yup, it seems that my hometown is the best place for me after-all. I think God sent my fiance right next door to me as a message that my destiny is to stay in Virginia.

@MrMan She did cry! It was incredibly cute. She was beaming with happiness the entire rest of the day.

@WilliamSmith Appreciate the congratulations. Yeah I haven't been on the forum much lately. I've been on Patriots.win more lately because I felt like my interest hasn't really been about "going abroad" for awhile now. Rather that my interest is more in discussing strategies for how to reform the US and make our country great again.

Unlike Winston, I actually do believe that there is hope for the US and that the war over the US culture may determine the future of the entire world. The US is so powerful on a world stage that it influences every country on Earth and I feel like if I leave and the left no longer has any significant opposition at home that it will be free to spread poison to the entire world. There may be no country on Earth left that can withstand the woke globalist agenda if US conservatives can't win the culture war.

[Natural_Born_Cynic]

@Outcast9428

Hey dude, Sorry I'm kind of late to the party

Congratulations on your engagement with your girlfriend. I hope your marriage goes well.

[willymonfrete]

Congragulations,I am very happy for you and I mean that.

Having a sweet wife that cares for you,is all a man needs to be happy,other things like wealth,status etc are only a means to get that.

[Outcast9428]

@Natural_Born_Cynic and @willymonfrete No worries, I appreciate the sentiments

[komei888]

@Outcast9428 is dumb. Conservatives right wing are feminst too. Tradcucks are feminist. Marriage destroys men. Hate this right wing narrative. Idiots.

[MrMan]

@Outcast9428 is dumb. Conservatives right wing are feminst too. Tradcucks are feminist. Marriage destroys men. Hate this right wing narrative. Idiots.

Why would you want to poop on another man's happiness? Have you been brainwashed with toxic Incel or MGTOW ideology?

[Emili]

Congrats and best of luck

[komei888]

@Outcast9428 is dumb. Conservatives right wing are feminst too. Tradcucks are feminist. Marriage destroys men. Hate this right wing narrative. Idiots.

Why would you want to poop on another man's happiness? Have you been brainwashed with toxic Incel or MGTOW ideology?

No idea how retards think marrying is still a good idea. I guess being high on chemicals does numbers on you that you lose every bit on instinctual rationality you previously had. Honey moon phase as they call it. A few years from now if they are still married, they will be miserable as all other married couples.

[MrMan]

@Outcast9428 is dumb. Conservatives right wing are feminst too. Tradcucks are feminist. Marriage destroys men. Hate this right wing narrative. Idiots.

Why would you want to poop on another man's happiness? Have you been brainwashed with toxic Incel or MGTOW ideology?

No idea how retards think marrying is still a good idea. I guess being high on chemicals does numbers on you that you lose every bit on instinctual rationality you previously had. Honey moon phase as they call it. A few years from now if they are still married, they will be miserable as all other married couples.

I've been married over 20 years. If I had it to do over again, I would. It is good to have a companion to share life with, not to mention a supply of affection and sex year after year.