Being a "Nice Guy" Actually Does Work...

[Outcast9428]

Just not on all girls...

Sure, if you are trying to sleep with lots of different women, then being gentlemanly and nice is not going to work. You could even argue that as a long term strategy it doesn't work on the majority of girls. But there are definitely a decently large minority of girls out there who are genuinely attracted to nice guys and gentlemen. As long as you are a passionate nice guy that is. People keep trying to argue that "nice guys are boring." Nice guys are only boring if it goes along with a lack of passion and romance. If he's nice but only cares about work or his hobbies, then yes he probably isn't a very interesting romantic partner. But I take my cues from Shakespeare characters... I don't act quite as cheesy as they do but I have adopted their general mindset. I let the girl know how much I love her, I let myself fall for her without holding back, I compliment her all the time, I kiss her, hug her, and show a lot of physical affection every opportunity I get.

My girlfriend texts me all the time saying the reasons why she loves me so much... And the biggest reasons I keep hearing is how nice I am to her, how caring I am, how I try to take care of my friends as best as I can, how gentlemanly I was with her. This isn't an emotional only kind of relationship either... She is extremely sexually attracted to me. Even moreso then I am to her. Our sex life, I suspect, is much more active and of a much higher quality then most couples'. My ex-girlfriend also liked how nice I was to her, it was the biggest reason why she dated me... Ultimately I think the money mattered to her more then my personality/kindness did, but my niceness certainly was not hurting my relationship with her like PUAs claim it does.

With these same girls, I have found that aggressively hating degeneracy also makes them like you. Good women trust men more when they can tell he truly hates evil and hates degeneracy... Not just a guy who superficially opposes it. And if you're one of those guys who has extremely high standards for women but acts like its normal or natural for men to be degenerates then no, good women are not going to like you. Because you are a hypocrite, you clearly don't actually believe its immoral if you're going to impose different standards on men and women for the same behavior. You just want a woman who's going to be loyal to you but is too weak to put up resistance to you when you start being a degenerate asshole. A guy whom they can tell truly hates degeneracy, will quickly earn the trust of good women.

This will not work on all girls, I am not pretending that it will... But it does work at filtering out bad wives. Women who are really attracted to the bad boy swagger and behavior are terrible long term partners and will betray you or ditch you as soon as they get bored or you get yourself in trouble. They want excitement without accountability or responsibility... They are spoiled brats in adult bodies.

Location might also matter... Being a nice guy didn't seem to work at my college at all... And this isn't because college students are young... My girlfriend is very young herself, only being 19 years old she's in that exact same age range but she is very attracted to nice guys. I knew some girls back in college who were very religious, rejected the mainstream culture of my college, and they were all dating typical nerdy nice guys.

I am making this thread because the evil people in our society are trying to convince everybody that if you are a good man, no woman will ever want you. In order to make this more of a reality, the elites flood our country and the world with disgusting, violent pornography which brainwashes women into seeking out violent, abusive partners. Before the elites flooded the world with all of this sick pornography, it was much easier to find women who were attracted to good, gentlemanly type men. Fortunately, not all hope is lost and if you look for them, you can still find good women who are not attracted to bad boy behaviors. The elites have fooled a lot of good men into believing that all women are repulsed by nice guys, but this isn't true. There are a decent number of women out there who like nice guys, and they're not all 30+ year old women trying to lock down a provider. Some of them are teenage girls too.

Keep in mind that most men in the 1950s were "nice guys." Most of them got wives, had good relationships, families, as well as plenty of sex. It is definitely harder now, but to act like all women, every single one of them 100% wants a bad boy is ridiculous.

You have to be real about it though. You need to purge yourself of all degenerate desires... No more desire to sleep with multiple women, no weird fetishes, and you need to actually follow through on being a gentleman without worrying about whether the girl will like it or not. Purify your heart and stick to your principles and you will find yourself a good woman. I did, and I believe anyone can replicate my results if they honestly try to listen to and follow my advice.

[fschmidt]

This is probably the worst post that I have seen on Happier Abroad.

[Outcast9428]

This is probably the worst post that I have seen on Happier Abroad.

Why? Because I'm not going along with the doom and gloom negativity that everybody else seems to have on this forum? Let me ask this, not just of you but the entire doomer crowd on this forum... What the f**k do men have to gain from being blackpilled? The Blackpill is literally just "give up, its all hopeless." What the hell do men have to gain from accepting a message like that? Mercer accuses me of "spreading bluepilled propaganda" as if somehow the woke/feminist elites want men to believe they still have a chance? Why the f**k would they want that? If I was in the reverse situation and I was trying to psychologically manipulate the liberal opposition... I would want them to be Blackpilled and believe it was impossible for liberalism to ever win. I would want them to give up hope and essentially surrender and stop trying.

I know this because I spend a lot of f***ing time thinking about how to completely defeat liberalism... Blackpilling your opposition is the easiest way to defeat them.

[Outcast9428]

@MarcosZeitola

When I was in high school I did fall for a lot of the liberal propaganda and basically wanted to be like that Dan Bilzerian guy in your meme. I also thought the ideal lifestyle was basically being a playboy in a mansion surrounded by hot girls in bikinis and lamborghinis and all that. Its because of the entertainment industry. Rap music and sitcoms made those guys look like the ones who got beautiful women. It even gives you the impression that, you have to be like those guys to get beautiful women.

But going to strip clubs made me realize that I can't do casual sex because I kept getting infatuated with my favorite dancers. I would lose all interest in getting dances with anyone other then my favorite dancer and I felt an emotional attachment to her. I realized that casual sex was a lie, because getting dances with girls I wasn't emotionally connected to wasn't anywhere near as enjoyable as getting dances with dancers I did feel a connection to.

By the age of 21, I had pretty much figured out that liberalism was a deception and that, like your image shows, the bottom image is a flex, not the top image.

I don't think I'm really a pushover, I do set standards for people and insist on them following those standards and take punitive actions if the people around me don't follow my moral standards. Part of those moral standards is that they have to treat me well or I won't be their friend and with girls they have to treat me well or I won't be their boyfriend.

[Outcast9428]

I think some ideals can be combined. Like a man can look rugged and masculine and still be a "good dude" at the end of the day, as @Lucas88 has advocated in past posts. There's no need to be a degenerate rapper full of gold chains with a whole entire harem of hot sluts at his beck and call... but there's ways to combine the "nice guy" vibes with a certain look that girls tend to go for. An air of manliness, dominance (not in a BDSM sort of way but in a "man of the house/strong patriarch" sort of way).

For certain... Sure. I'm watching the Original Series of Star Trek right now, and plenty of characters from that show, such as Kirk himself, would fall into that category. Like I said, most men from the 1950s were "nice guys" so to speak. Being gentlemanly and chivalrous was the expectation back then, not an exception.

[fschmidt]

Why? Because I'm not going along with the doom and gloom negativity that everybody else seems to have on this forum? Let me ask this, not just of you but the entire doomer crowd on this forum... What the f**k do men have to gain from being blackpilled? The Blackpill is literally just "give up, its all hopeless." What the hell do men have to gain from accepting a message like that? Mercer accuses me of "spreading bluepilled propaganda" as if somehow the woke/feminist elites want men to believe they still have a chance? Why the f**k would they want that? If I was in the reverse situation and I was trying to psychologically manipulate the liberal opposition... I would want them to be Blackpilled and believe it was impossible for liberalism to ever win. I would want them to give up hope and essentially surrender and stop trying.

I know this because I spend a lot of f***ing time thinking about how to completely defeat liberalism... Blackpilling your opposition is the easiest way to defeat them.

Don't look for tropical fruit in the arctic. Don't look for icebergs in the Sahara. And don't look for women in the West.

[Outcast9428]

@MarcosZeitola I think the Blackpill propaganda is especially strong right now on 4chan because its the elites last hope. They know we're winning and they're scared shitless. They've lost control of the narrative, nobody trusts the media anymore, every woke corporation's profits are plummeting, diversity departments are experiencing major layoffs at all of the major corporations including Google, they've also become so stupid and crazy that people are not nearly as worried about criticizing them anymore... Meanwhile, they've lost control of the Republican party and Republicans are not falling for the typical controlled opposition narratives that used to keep them compliant. The whole "no we're conservatives so we have to be pro-big business!" Is not working anymore, the "we're conservatives so we need to be aggressive/interventionist on foreign policy" is not working anymore. Even the "limited government" argument isn't working as well as it used to.

One of the people who has announced his candidacy for president in 2024 has pointed out that the only reason why affirmative action is enforced is because of an executive order signed all the way back in the 1960s. We've had Ronald Reagan, two Bush presidents, and Trump in office... All Republicans, and not a single one of them thought to reverse this executive order? That just goes to show how pathetically weak the Republican party has been for the last 50-60 years. The woke elites are scared now because Republican voters are demanding that politicians actually fight the culture war with the intention of winning. And we're seeing results from it...

The states colored in black are where abortion has been completely banned, states colored in red ban abortion after 6 weeks, and states that are grey have no abortion clincs operating in the state anymore. None of the other colors really matter...



This is a map of states that are trying to ban transgender surgeries...



The Republicans have introduced over 300 bills targeting LGBT ideology just this year...

https://www.them.us/story/anti-lgbtq-bi ... r-300-2023

Included in the 300 bills are 91 targeting tranny surgeries, 27 bans on drag performances, there are also bans on changing your sex in your birth certificate, and "forced misgendering" bills. Some bills require teachers to tell parents if their kid wants to be transgender, and other bills completely prohibit men from wearing women's clothing when out in public.

Lots of school and state governments are also banning the rainbow flag from being used on their premises...

https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nat ... 325450002/

Arkansas is in the middle of banning affirmative action (affirmative action is the policy that gives hiring preferences to women and minorities at companies and government jobs as well as preferences to women and minorities for college admissions) right now...

https://arktimes.com/arkansas-blog/2023 ... -committee

The supreme court is also expected to ban affirmative action for the entire country as far as college admissions go in the spring time.

https://www.axios.com/2023/02/24/affirm ... -diversity

Fox news is even making articles about young people's dating problems... https://www.foxnews.com/media/more-than ... dating.amp

All of this, yet so many people seem to be more blackpilled then ever? Why the f**k? How could anybody be blackpilled right now? The mainstream right-wing finally became the party we've wanted them to become for decades... The 2022-2023 mainstream right-wing has completely restored my faith in their competence. No longer is the mainstream right this passive conservative force that advocates conservatism but never employs any muscle to back it up. The Republican party has become a force to be reckoned with in red states now and are going full speed ahead trying to beat liberalism.

[Outcast9428]

Why? Because I'm not going along with the doom and gloom negativity that everybody else seems to have on this forum? Let me ask this, not just of you but the entire doomer crowd on this forum... What the f**k do men have to gain from being blackpilled? The Blackpill is literally just "give up, its all hopeless." What the hell do men have to gain from accepting a message like that? Mercer accuses me of "spreading bluepilled propaganda" as if somehow the woke/feminist elites want men to believe they still have a chance? Why the f**k would they want that? If I was in the reverse situation and I was trying to psychologically manipulate the liberal opposition... I would want them to be Blackpilled and believe it was impossible for liberalism to ever win. I would want them to give up hope and essentially surrender and stop trying.

I know this because I spend a lot of f***ing time thinking about how to completely defeat liberalism... Blackpilling your opposition is the easiest way to defeat them.

Don't look for tropical fruit in the arctic. Don't look for icebergs in the Sahara. And don't look for women in the West.

Well I found a girl in the west and she's wonderful... Going abroad can certainly be a good solution and make life easier, but even going abroad you need to know what your audience is.

[fschmidt]

The conservatives on this forum helped blackpill me. They are degenerate retards who are wrong on most issues. They have convinced me that Islam is probably the best hope.

[Outcast9428]

The conservatives on this forum helped blackpill me. They are degenerate retards who are wrong on most issues.

I actually agree with you on that... That being said, its worth keeping in mind... I don't know anybody in real life who behaves the way some of the "conservatives" on this forum behave. In real life, all conservatives are anti-degeneracy. There is disagreement on women's roles, but even on that front, I'm seeing more mainstream conservatives becoming increasingly direct and assertive in saying that women need to stop prioritizing their careers over family and that women who remain childless and unmarried are basically just selfish narcissists. Look at Fox News for example with Tucker and Jesse Kelly mocking this liberal woman without any fear of being called "sexist"...

https://www.mediamatters.org/fox-news/t ... -and-happy

At this point, the mainstream right-wing is basically behaving the same way as the far right in 2019 did.

[fschmidt]

I actually agree with you on that... That being said, its worth keeping in mind... I don't know anybody in real life who behaves the way some of the "conservatives" on this forum behave. In real life, all conservatives are anti-degeneracy. There is disagreement on women's roles, but even on that front, I'm seeing more mainstream conservatives becoming increasingly direct and assertive in saying that women need to stop prioritizing their careers over family and that women who remain childless and unmarried are basically just selfish narcissists. Look at Fox News for example with Tucker and Jesse Kelly mocking this liberal woman without any fear of being called "sexist"...

https://www.mediamatters.org/fox-news/t ... -and-happy

At this point, the mainstream right-wing is basically behaving the same way as the far right in 2019 did.

No, you totally miss the point. This made my blood boil so much that I got out of bed to respond.

I am much more in agreement with the woke left than with you on most policy questions. I support abortion. Kill the unborn modern scum. I support trans operations. Castrate modern scum. Cut off their f***ing breasts. I support LGBT ideology because it stops modern scum from reproducing.

f**k Tucker Carlson, E Michael Jones, Gonzalo Lira, Alex Jones, and all the rest of the conservative scum for not addressing any real issues that I faced in life. Legalize prostitution so that men like I was when single can have sex. Force women to dress modestly so that they can't abuse their sexual power. Get the government out of divorce law so that women can't be such selfish bitches. Limit the electorate to responsible men to have a reasonable government. What conservatives are calling for these things? None.

Of course I am married now and have other issues. Modern scum hate quality, so all the available software tools are shit. And I can't possibly make money by selling anything good. No one even talks about this issue because they are all modern scum, and they too hate quality. I love the train disaster in East Palestine and I hope it kills many people. I don't care that these people are "conservative". They are still complete scum to me. None of their women are interested in men like me. None of them value quality. The train disaster itself was caused by the poor quality of the trains, so for me this is just poetic justice. I look forward to many more Americans dying from disasters caused by the poor quality shit that Americans prefer.

[Cornfed]

@Cornfed & @Tsar
Thoughts on OP? I reckon you have something... spicy to say about it.

I am skeptical as to whether it makes sense to take anything written by Outcast too seriously. Just running with it, the only time I have found this to be true is with post-wall hags who want a relationship but don't have much choice. It could also be the case with females who don't have the opportunity to avail themselves of the skankdom offered by the system due to a medical condition or whatever. Applied to most young Western females, it is just silly.

[WanderingProtagonist]

@Cornfed & @Tsar
Thoughts on OP? I reckon you have something... spicy to say about it.

I am skeptical as to whether it makes sense to take anything written by Outcast too seriously. Just running with it, the only time I have found this to be true is with post-wall hags who want a relationship but don't have much choice. It could also be the case with females who don't have the opportunity to avail themselves of the skankdom offered by the system due to a medical condition or whatever. Applied to most young Western females, it is just silly.

Gotta agree with you Cornfed, because being a nice guy in the West definitely don't work. I can't speak up how it is elsewhere in the world but as far as America goes and countries that are way to damn similar like America. Being nice will get you nowhere with these females.

[Outcast9428]

I actually agree with you on that... That being said, its worth keeping in mind... I don't know anybody in real life who behaves the way some of the "conservatives" on this forum behave. In real life, all conservatives are anti-degeneracy. There is disagreement on women's roles, but even on that front, I'm seeing more mainstream conservatives becoming increasingly direct and assertive in saying that women need to stop prioritizing their careers over family and that women who remain childless and unmarried are basically just selfish narcissists. Look at Fox News for example with Tucker and Jesse Kelly mocking this liberal woman without any fear of being called "sexist"...

https://www.mediamatters.org/fox-news/t ... -and-happy

At this point, the mainstream right-wing is basically behaving the same way as the far right in 2019 did.

No, you totally miss the point. This made my blood boil so much that I got out of bed to respond.

I am much more in agreement with the woke left than with you on most policy questions. I support abortion. Kill the unborn modern scum. I support trans operations. Castrate modern scum. Cut off their f***ing breasts. I support LGBT ideology because it stops modern scum from reproducing.

f**k Tucker Carlson, E Michael Jones, Gonzalo Lira, Alex Jones, and all the rest of the conservative scum for not addressing any real issues that I faced in life. Legalize prostitution so that men like I was when single can have sex. Force women to dress modestly so that they can't abuse their sexual power. Get the government out of divorce law so that women can't be such selfish bitches. Limit the electorate to responsible men to have a reasonable government. What conservatives are calling for these things? None.

Of course I am married now and have other issues. Modern scum hate quality, so all the available software tools are shit. And I can't possibly make money by selling anything good. No one even talks about this issue because they are all modern scum, and they too hate quality. I love the train disaster in East Palestine and I hope it kills many people. I don't care that these people are "conservative". They are still complete scum to me. None of their women are interested in men like me. None of them value quality. The train disaster itself was caused by the poor quality of the trains, so for me this is just poetic justice. I look forward to many more Americans dying from disasters caused by the poor quality shit that Americans prefer.

Of course nobody is advocating for what you want when what you want is basically just “kill everyone.”

Prostitution basically is legal, in strip clubs. You can legally go to strip clubs, get intimate lap dances that are quite similar to sex itself. It’s not really necessary to legalize penetrative intercourse when strip clubs take care of the same need.

Forcing women to dress modestly is stupid, nobody wants that. Not even people like Tsar and I want that.

I agree that divorce law needs to be fixed.

Limiting the electorate to men only is too radical to get away with at this moment. Tucker Carlson if he pushed for that would be taken off the air. It may be possible someday but the Overton window would need to shift much more significantly to the right before we can attempt that.

[Cornfed]

Forcing women to dress modestly is stupid, nobody wants that.

Confirmed leftist/Satanist. We can now proceed on that basis.