S_Parc update

[Shemp]

The issue is not Mel, since women's issues are completely different from men's (unnaturally high speed stimulation from a vibrator is where women get messed up). The issue is that teenage boy Jim. Because he is just starting out, the physical stimulation he receives now will strongly affect his nervous system. So I would advise setting that RealDoll vagina to as loose as possible, assuming it's adjustable like the Fleshlight, and also remind him to use as loose a grip as possible when using his hands. If a man can get hard and stay hard with very light (=loose) stimulation, similar to the stimulation of a loose vagina, then no problems with the real thing. Death grip with hands is much too tight, while humping the bed sheets is completely different from the real thing, which is why both these methods are dangerous.

[S_Parc]

The issue is that teenage boy Jim. Because he is just starting out, the physical stimulation he receives now will strongly affect his nervous system. So I would advise setting that RealDoll vagina to as loose as possible, assuming it's adjustable like the Fleshlight, and also remind him to use as loose a grip as possible when using his hands. If a man can get hard and stay hard with very light (=loose) stimulation, similar to the stimulation of a loose vagina, then no problems with the real thing. Death grip with hands is much too tight, while humping the bed sheets is completely different from the real thing, which is why both these methods are dangerous.

Unfortunately, it's not adjustable like that.

It's basically like a young, tight woman in her early 20s who didn't have too many guys, a.k.a the top 70%+

So perhaps it may set his standard a bit higher than a lot of other guys but I'm not too worried.

In the end, men do want to cuddle and have some conversations with women. It's not all about a tight fit.

[S_Parc]

And more for thing for the pricks/trolls around here ... when Jim's dad died, I also lost a close friend, my third major loss in the past decade and half.

So yes, Jim isn't the only one who's grieving. And what's a friend suppose to do for the other ... oh yeah, let the surviving grandfather or the foster care system, raise his orphan boy?

F.uck you.

[HappyGuy]

And what's a friend suppose to do for the other ... oh yeah, let the surviving grandfather or the foster care system, raise his orphan boy?

Couldn't you just take him to Brazil from the start? What's the logic in waiting around for years until his pornographic and American ways are cemented, you're not doing him any favors by making him wait. It's not like it's easier to land a good girlfriend at 18 than at 13 especially for a foreigner. Are you not allowed to leave the country under the terms of your guardianship? You said he's homeschooled so why wait, volunteer him for something or get yourself a job in Brazil and sign him up in a public school or find a foster family to take him in temporarily until he finds a steady girlfriend to live with. What's the point of staying in America where apparently he can't find a girlfriend and forcing him to stay at home and take Portuguese classes online and f**k a sexdoll when he could learn all that from staying in Brazil for a summer?

[gsjackson]

And what's a friend suppose to do for the other ... oh yeah, let the surviving grandfather or the foster care system, raise his orphan boy?

Couldn't you just take him to Brazil from the start? What's the logic in waiting around for years until his pornographic perversions and American ways are cemented, are you not allowed to leave the country under the terms of your guardianship? You said he's homeschooled so why wait, get him a job in Brazil or get yourself a job there and sign him up for school or find a foster family to take him in temporarily. What's the point of staying in America where apparently he can't find a girlfriend and forcing him to stay at home and take Portuguese classes online and f**k a sexdoll when he could learn all that from staying in Brazil for a summer?

I just glossed over the doll part as an S Parc eccentricity. I never looked at those threads. But yeah, at best it's a very sub-optimal form of masturbation, at worst part of a diabolical and perhaps deliberate effort to destroy relations between males and females. The attraction adolescent males and females have for each other is one of the great gifts of life, so get in there and work with it, frustrations and all. By all means take the kid to Brazil, and say 'knock yourself out.' When he comes back he'll be brimming with confidence and having his way with American teenyboppers.

But this non-traditional family (to say the least) is definitely doing some good things for the kid. Learning a trade and a foreign language, steering away from a toxic youth culture -- that's gold.

[S_Parc]

And what's a friend suppose to do for the other ... oh yeah, let the surviving grandfather or the foster care system, raise his orphan boy?

Couldn't you just take him to Brazil from the start? What's the logic in waiting around for years until his pornographic perversions and American ways are cemented, are you not allowed to leave the country under the terms of your guardianship? You said he's homeschooled so why wait, get him a job in Brazil or get yourself a job there and sign him up for school or find a foster family to take him in. What's the point of staying in a country where apparently he can't find a girlfriend and forcing him to stay at home and take Portuguese classes online and f**k a sexdoll when he could learn all that from staying in Brazil for a summer?

I work in the Boston area. That's where my base of operations is at. As for Brazilians, he's meeting 'em even locally, however, he's only 14.

As a US national, he can't just 'work in Brazil'. His local working papers kick in at 16 and then, he can start his apprenticeship to become an electrician.

After then, he'll be able to travel without permission from both parents/guardians and start to look at the world from that perspective. Between now and then, he's doing rather well and no, he's not into porn as the RealDoll actually assuages those needs. BTW, a similar thing happened to both Mel and I, after we got ours. In the beginning, it was all doll stuff and soon, I out grew it and it was only Mel and myself.

Plus, since he's not at an American high school, he's avoiding the worst of the indoctrination processes.

Like me, I suspect that when he arrives in Brazil and actually meets friendly women, his perspective of the ivory tower of American life will go away. But for now, avoid the worst and stick to the plan of action. Plus, I can tell that his Brazilian Portuguese Skype tutor is actually rather cute

I'm not worried about the future. It's dealing with the present which is a bigger concern.

[S_Parc]

I just glossed over the doll part as an S Parc eccentricity. I never looked at those threads. But yeah, at best it's a very sub-optimal form of masturbation, at worst part of a diabolical and perhaps deliberate effort to destroy relations between males and females.

Actually, feminism was the coup de grace for that. RealDolls can't compete against that force.

The attraction adolescent males and females have for each other is one of the great gifts of life, so get in there and work with it, frustrations and all.

Felt more delusional to me, if I recall those days. I'd never want to go back to being a teenager ever again.

But this non-traditional family (to say the least) is definitely doing some good things for the kid. Learning a trade and a foreign language, steering away from a toxic youth culture -- that's gold.

Yes, and when his Portuguese is fluent, trust me, he'll have plenty of women wanting to marry him over there.

[HappyGuy]

he's only 14.

As a US national, he can't just 'work in Brazil'. His local working papers kick in at 16 and then, he can start his apprenticeship to become an electrician.

After then, he'll be able to travel without permission from both parents/guardians and start to look at the world from that perspective.

I thought age 14 was the green light to work?

Can't you volunteer him for something unpaid in Brazil? Maybe there's an international youth camp in South America you could sign him up to, there are probably a lot of options when you're prepared to spend $6-7000 just on a doll. A summer camp can't be more than that. Unless they're in America like those "Residential Treatment" programs for delinquent teens.

[S_Parc]

Yes, he'll be doing one of those soccer camps in the summer, however, as for a host family for the 'academic year', if I don't already know 'em, I won't take a chance as trafficking of youths is still an issue.

This time period isn't too long, 14 to 16 goes rather fast. Who knows? He may even find a Brazilian GF in Boston, provided that she's only been in town for 2-3 weeks.

[HappyGuy]

14 to 16 goes rather fast.

Okay but just for fun before he goes off on his own sign him up for one of those troubled teen rehab programs for well-to-do families.

[yick]

I have no dog into this fight, it seems pretty positive though - the boy learning Portuguese, I think a good idea though is when he is 18 is to send him to a Brazilian university where he can makes friends, meet loads and loads of cute, educated, middle class girls and develop social circles because in Brazil like everywhere else in Latin America - it is all about who you know, not what you know. The people he meets and makes friends with at university are the people who will help him out on the ladder of life if he decides to settle in Brazil permenantly.

[Cornfed]

Well, well, it looks like I've made some fellas very angry here.
If I recall, Cornfed was balling his eyes out on this forum when his dad died.

I did not ball my eyes out, either here or anywhere when my father died. It seems you are a soulless monster., as well as being a useless cuck.

[S_Parc]

I have no dog into this fight, it seems pretty positive though - the boy learning Portuguese, I think a good idea though is when he is 18 is to send him to a Brazilian university where he can makes friends, meet loads and loads of cute, educated, middle class girls and develop social circles because in Brazil like everywhere else in Latin America - it is all about who you know, not what you know. The people he meets and makes friends with at university are the people who will help him out on the ladder of life if he decides to settle in Brazil permenantly.

That part, completing a degree or let's say postgrad certificate, in Brazil, is up to him.

I do want to keep the Penn State online (PSU) thing, going, as let's say the final arbitrator of the BS/BA certificate, but that's because wherever you go in the world, a US or UK degree does tend to be more international in terms of recognition.

Still, if one can live/study in Brazil and do PSU online, the more power to that person. After all, the graduation in central PA is really for photo shoots with the family than anything else, though I've heard there are some great Pennsylvania Dutch restaurants in the area.

[S_Parc]

Well, well, it looks like I've made some fellas very angry here.
If I recall, Cornfed was balling his eyes out on this forum when his dad died.

I did not ball my eyes out, either here or anywhere when my father died. It seems you are a soulless mobster., as well as being a useless cuck.

Actually, you did.

And if you had my father, you would have committed suicide by the age of 17. You would never have reached my current age.

So as far as souls go, I'm not worried.

Let this be our last communication. I don't give a f.uck about you or your path in life or afterlife.

[Cornfed]

Learning a trade and a foreign language, steering away from a toxic youth culture -- that's gold.

Yeah because we can only aspire to be useful as the help now. No institutional power or influence for us. Thanks boomers.