Anyone else also into single moms?

[Cornfed]

So should she have stayed with a cheating husband?

Again, yes she should.

A lot cheating men went out and screwed easy women and prostitutes and brought back VD to their wife. Are you ok with that too?

Stuff like that is part of life. My mother was a schoolteacher and as a result used to pick up lots of colds and flu that my father contracted. Should he have divorced her?

[Cornfed]

She is not middle age, she is 38 that's not considered middle age.

38 in a female is post-wall hag downie baby territory.

[Splicelo]

So should she have stayed with a cheating husband?

Again, yes she should.

A lot cheating men went out and screwed easy women and prostitutes and brought back VD to their wife. Are you ok with that too?

Stuff like that is part of life. My mother was a schoolteacher and as a result used to pick up lots of colds and flu that my father contracted. Should he have divorced her?

Are you really comparing VD to flu and cold?What you are saying is a silly comparison. Most people's immune system can ward off a cold or flu. Most people's immune system aint gonna ward off syphilis, gonorrhea, genital warts on its own and certain things is permanent and can screw up your health forever. And since that's a part of life according to you. Would you want your wife to have to face herpes for rest of her life because you wanted to screw around on her?Maybe some women don't wanna stay with a man who is wilding around out there who will come back home with something that will rot away half of her cochie.

[Cornfed]

Are you really comparing VD to flu and cold?What you are saying is a silly comparison. Most people's immune system can ward off a cold or flu. Most people's immune system aint gonna ward off syphilis, gonorrhea, genital warts on its own and certain things is permanent and can screw up your health forever.

Generally STDs are treatable, but in any case they, much like car accidents, death in childbirth and such are part of life. If a female is not prepared to accept the risk she should remain virginal and become a nun or something.

[Splicelo]

Are you really comparing VD to flu and cold?What you are saying is a silly comparison. Most people's immune system can ward off a cold or flu. Most people's immune system aint gonna ward off syphilis, gonorrhea, genital warts on its own and certain things is permanent and can screw up your health forever.

Generally STDs are treatable, but in any case they, much like car accidents, death in childbirth and such are part of life. If a female is not prepared to accept the risk she should remain virginal and become a nun or something.

So you are gonna be having unprotected sex with random women? Poor wife

[Cornfed]

So you are gonna be having unprotected sex with random women? Poor wife

Generally you should take precautions such as only having sex with regularly checked prostitutes in well-run brothels rather than, say, disease-ridden sluts such as the average Western female, just as you would want to take precautions against car accidents by not driving drunk. However, car accidents and STDs are at some level are a part of live and their possibility doesn't require us to dig up the roads or only have sex with one female forever.

[Splicelo]

She is not middle age, she is 38 that's not considered middle age.

Sorry to burst your bubble there, but in a country like the Philippines where most women will become grandmothers in their early thirties, a 38 year old woman absolutely is middle aged. In fact she's already at an age that even if she did want to have a child by you, chances are she couldn't even conceive anymore or the child would be born with birth defects.

A thirty-eight year old woman in the West is already well past her prime, but in a conservative third world country such as the Philippines, she's positively ancient and men and women alike will privately roll their eyes at you, a highly paid airline pilot one year her junior, being with such a woman. Those are just the cold hard facts, no offense.

I understand what you saying but it really don't matter to me if people roll their eyes at me. Im happy with my girlfriend.

[pitbull]

She is not middle age, she is 38 that's not considered middle age.

Sorry to burst your bubble there, but in a country like the Philippines where most women will become grandmothers in their early thirties, a 38 year old woman absolutely is middle aged. In fact she's already at an age that even if she did want to have a child by you, chances are she couldn't even conceive anymore or the child would be born with birth defects.

A thirty-eight year old woman in the West is already well past her prime, but in a conservative third world country such as the Philippines, she's positively ancient and men and women alike will privately roll their eyes at you, a highly paid airline pilot one year her junior, being with such a woman. Those are just the cold hard facts, no offense.

I understand what you saying but it really don't matter to me if people roll their eyes at me. Im happy with my girlfriend.

Here's all you need to know about these guys http://culturewhiz.org/forum/topic/what ... manosphere

[SteveUKR]

What picture is that you are using in your avatar? From 20 years ago? You're fat & pudgy now.

[Splicelo]

I understand what you saying but it really don't matter to me if people roll their eyes at me. Im happy with my girlfriend.

Sometimes it's wise to try and look at it through the lense of a local, if you intend to stay and live in the Philippines. In the Philippines just about the most foolish and unmasculine thing for any man to do, is:

A: To be with a man who married before and has a child or children by someone else and,

B: To be with a woman who is older than you, even if it's only by a year

This is just how people will perceive you. If that's okay by you, more power to you, but people will have their opinion. A woman at 38 in the Philippines is very much society's leftovers, she's done for, romantically and sexually over the hill. Beauty and youth are what men are after. If she has a brain and mind that entices you, I'm glad for you, but mind you that's old. You do not have this perspective because you are her age, and do not like to think of yourself as old. A Western man at 37 is not seen as old back home, so you assume a woman around your age isn't either, but that's where you're wrong. A woman at 38 is old. You could get a great girl who is, say, twenty-five and childless and who could give you everything this woman gives you, and then some. I would hate for you to realize ten years down the line that you could have been with a younger woman and gotten more joy and mileage out of her before the inevitable corruption of the flesh sets in. You are literally in a country where the sort of income and background you have could get you the cream of the crop and you're going for spoiled milk.

Just how long are you planning to hold off on that baby when menopause knocks on your girlfriends' door as her 38 year old body continues to age and the quality of her middle aged eggs continues to deteriorate? Serious question for you to consider.

Thank you for your advice and i will seriously think about what you are saying. My friend told me something similar, after i told him that my girlfriend said "when she was younger she would not have dated me but now she have a child and is old and guys were not trying to date her... when she was single." My friend says if she was single and childless and younger, i would not be her first option because she probably prefer date a filipino guy.

Also are you familar with the adultry laws in the Philippines. Do you think by any chance my girlfriend's lawyer would tell her that she can go ahead and have the baby before the annulment is completed as my girlfriend claim her lawyer told her or is that most likely a lie?


You asked how long are we gonna hold off having a baby but is it good idea to have a child with her now? as the annulment is not completed and legally she is still married. My friend say i might run into legal trouble if i get her pregnant because then there will be proof of adultry if her estrange husband wanted to be difficult. What do you think?

[Splicelo]

She is not middle age, she is 38 that's not

Here's all you need to know about these guys http://culturewhiz.org/forum/topic/what ... manosphere

I'm actually fit, i go to the gym and work out. I'm 6'2, not balding and a lot of girls say i have the bad boy type look and a lot of girls are attracted to me but i guess i have a certain type. One of my female friend who use to like me (we never dated) tells me i always pick the worst women to date, she say i like chaos. She claims this relationship will fail like all my other relationships because i have poor taste in women.

[Zambales]

I understand what you saying but my girlfriend really love me and i'm so in love with her, i'm going to marry her. I'm just scared i lose her, but she says no other man wanted to date her a single mom, she says most men want younger childless women.

If you're happy to be with her f**k what anyone else thinks, although you shouldn't get married based on your fear of losing her.

[Splicelo]

Thinking you "love" some whore is a ridiculous reason to throw your life away. The OP should just pull himself together, stop being a retard and find a young unattached faithful female to make healthy babies with instead of trying to make downie babies with withered used and damaged goods.

When i first got with her, i was not at all interested in ever having children. She is the one who got me interested in marrying her and having a family. I wanted to marry her yes but not have any children, now i decide i want ONLY 1 child. I don't want to have a whole bunch of children. The whole point is to be with her, children or no children i'm going to marry her. So even if she can't have children that won't let me lose my interest one bit. You seem to be surrounding a woman being a good mate soley based on being able to have children.

[Neo]

When I was in my early 30s, I had an online friend, and I told him I was looking for a younger woman. Younger as in very close to 18. He said to me that because I am in my thirties, that I should be looking for a woman in my thirties. I never changed my mind on that issue though, and it was hard to even believe that some men think that way. I'd even prefer a virgin, a woman untouched by man. That would be the best for me.

(And I seriously don't understand why dating is restricted to age groups. If I were to participate in some dating groups, I would be limited to older women, when younger women are what I prefer.)

I'd also say that now, being a little older, I'd do my best to avoid single mothers, married women, separated women, divorced women, women over a certain age, and women that have had a long string of "boyfriends." (There are lots of women who've had twenty or more boyfriends by the time they are 20 years old, for example.) This is also another reason why younger is better. Theoretically at least, fewer men have touched her.

I want a woman who is as innocent and as pure as they come. For some reason though, many people are against men who desire purity in women.

[Splicelo]

When I was in my early 30s, I had an online friend, and I told him I was looking for a younger woman. Younger as in very close to 18. He said to me that because I am in my thirties, that I should be looking for a woman in my thirties. I never changed my mind on that issue though, and it was hard to even believe that some men think that way. I'd even prefer a virgin, a woman untouched by man. That would be the best for me.

(And I seriously don't understand why dating is restricted to age groups. If I were to participate in some dating groups, I would be limited to older women, when younger women are what I prefer.)

I'd also say that now, being a little older, I'd do my best to avoid single mothers, married women, separated women, divorced women, women over a certain age, and women that have had a long string of "boyfriends." (There are lots of women who've had twenty or more boyfriends by the time they are 20 years old, for example.) This is also another reason why younger is better. Theoretically at least, fewer men have touched her.

I want a woman who is as innocent and as pure as they come. For some reason though, many people are against men who desire purity in women.

Most 18 year old women don't want to date a man his 30's, they prefer men their own age. How do you think that will go down with her parents especially her father? Just because you prefer something don't mean you are entitled to it. If that was the case all men would just date women under 25. There is nothing wrong with wanting purity. But most women who are about purity are most likely religious and most likely want a man who have the same standards as them and so is gonna find a man who is equally pure which you are not. A lot of men on here brag about banging prostitutes, hell even i banged prostitutes but women who kept themself pure will be turned off by men like us.


The only time older men can really get women 18-25 year old is if he is really good looking and has money even so she will probably take your money and spend on her young stallion who she secretly see on the side and whom she really loves. The other time when older man can get younger woman is if she is living in absolute poverty and is desperate, she really could care less about his looks, as long as she feels security and is provided for then she is good.

If you date and marry typical none religious 18 year old woman, most likely that relationship won't last and she will eventually cheat on you with a younger guy. Times have changed and it's a different culture now. Doesn't matter whether in philippines or the west. An 18 year old woman is too immature for marriage. And a 30 year old man and an 18 year old women don't have much in common. There are women who are even 26-28 year age group who haven't slept around & maybe been with the most 1 or two guys who might be perfect for the man in his early 30's but instead he wants a trophy wife so he misses out. And there can be slutty 18 year olds who started having wex since they were 14. And women do lie about virginity and how many guys they been with so they won't come across as a slut. I


I feel most younger women say in their early 20's find men in their 40's to be really creepy.