Winston wrote:This post by "The Hero of Men" that OTB showed me was brilliant and spot on!
"You know, us good men are like mirrors, and when We talk to American women, it's like being around us forces them to look at themselves, AND THEY DON'T LIKE WHAT THEY SEE. That's a possible reason why Western women avoid good men-- good men are like mirrors, forcing them to see themselves as they really are, AND THEY DON'T LIKE IT ONE BIT. That's why they turn tail and run when a good man comes around, and why they aren't "afraid" of real criminals and choose them. Criminals and the bad boys won't force them to look at themselves honestly. Another reason they choose the bad boy is to have an excuse to blame the failure of the relationship on either him or all men in general. Another possible reason is that American women have an inferiority complex, and they want someone less than them so they can feel superior, and with a lot of good men, it would nullify her "superior" train of thought."
Yes, I wholeheartedly agree with this.
Due to their insecurity, they need a man they feel is inferior to them in some way. The woman always has to be better than the man for the sake of their egos. If the man is better than the woman (except for financially and height), it will threaten her ego beyond the breaking point, and it will be a non-starter.
Each woman knows exactly where she falls relative to other people they interact with. It's almost intuitive with them. And basically they mentally measure and weigh themselves against others. It truly is a competition. It will never be a cooperative unit with a feminist woman.
And it is quite ironic that these women will all their rights, privileges and freedoms are the most insecure people on the face of the earth.
A good man is above pettiness. He is better than that.