
I've been reconnecting with some old friends, many of them white guys i've known from way back in high school or college. I come to find out over HALF are divorced now. I wasn't even around when a couple of them got married so they got married and divorced within a 5-6 year period that I was primarily living abroad.
One guy used to be a pretty big ladies man and now he's paying steep alimony in CA. From what he told me there's no possibility of him ever getting out from under his debt unless he finds a 6 figure job. He makes a decent salary but not enough for CA after having his accumulated assets split. His wife basically got bored one day and decided she wanted to be "independent" and divorced him. Married to a white American woman.
Another guy was married 10 years and built up a business. Now his wife gets half ownership and he's basically being forced to sell. He's pretty screwed since this is his livelihood and now he has to take out loans and rebuild or find a job. Again, married to a white American woman.
Out of all the stories only two split up amicably without the court involved.
Now I took a look at my asian male friends and they fared far better in this regard. Most are still married or single. Out of 8 I still talk with 1 is married to a white American woman but it still seems to be going well after 2 kids and 8 years. The majority are dating non-white non American women or single.
So none of my asian male friends have been raked over the coals yet but half of my white male friends have and guess who they married..
