7 Reasons why Filipinas like foreigners

Post by **Winston** » February 16th, 2009, 6:12 am

Ladislav, did you write this before? Someone forwarded it to me.

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Now as far as them not liking their guys, keep in mind
that:

1) Most Filipino guys have no money. The ones that do,
want young Catholic virgins to be their wives/gf so
that they could bring them home to mom and the whole
family ( consisting of some 100 people) would approve
of her. If any girl has been anywhere around the bars
be she a bar girl or anything of the sorts, even a
friend of bar girls, the rejection is spectacular and
humiliating. Hence, they do not want to deal with
Filipino guys, period.

2) The area where you are is a former US base and is a
well known place in the Philippines where those girls
who are sick of Filipinos flock to look for a kind
foreigner.

3) Once a Filipina has a foreigner, she cannot go back
to a Filipino with ease or at all. A foreigner has
more money, true but not only that. You treat them
like queens because you 're still in the scarcity
mentality of back home. Plus, as a westerner you have
been trained to be nice to the bitches back home.

Once they have been around such gentlemen, there is no
going back. It would be as hard for them to go back to
them as for you to go back to American women.

4) Handsomeness is not only in the looks. It is also
in being charismatic. Filipinas pick up on the
kindness of the person, the vibes and all. The
STYLE!!! It all confluences into handsomeness. Hence,
Filipino guys do not have the same charisma. Not to
these girls.

5) A well-built blue collar guy is attractive in the
white trash culture of US but not there. These like to
look for an aristocrat. They got it from the Spanish.
Blue collar-type manliness is seen as a sign that they
guy is a low paid laborer or a peasant.

6) Many lower class Filipinas are taught by their
mothers and fathers to go and find a "porener" and
that has been hammered into them since a very early
age. In that they are unique among all the Asians
around them. It is hard for a geweilo, gwai-tzu,
farang, gaijin, etc . to find a girl out there. Not
with these Filipinas.

7)But that's not all. There are also some reasons that
even I can never get an insight into. You are in the
land of never solvable mysteries. Enjoy it.

And again. let's concentrate on what's rather than
why's. Some why's can never be answered.

God Bless The Philippines

ladislav · Post by **ladislav** » February 16th, 2009, 9:16 am

Need it be asked at all? Who but not me would write something like this?

James G · Post by **James G** » February 22nd, 2009, 1:10 pm

Lol, so poverty is the reason why the Flip Ladies like foreigners

ladislav · Post by **ladislav** » February 23rd, 2009, 8:35 am

James G wrote:Lol, so poverty is the reason why the Flip Ladies like foreigners

Precisely! Plus there are just not enough men there.

If you want to go at things differently though, you will need to "stop"being a foreigner and learn the local language and then court them on their terms. Usually, if you act like a Filipino and talk like one, you would have few problems dating gils but you would need to do it on their terms, not yours.

Shy and patient courtship spanning at least two years, headgames, capriciousness, family involvment, oh my!

ladislav · Post by **ladislav** » February 23rd, 2009, 8:38 am

James G wrote:Lol, so poverty is the reason why the Flip Ladies like foreigners

One American guy in his 60ies uttered this immortal phrase while showing me pictures of his several 18-19 year old girlfriends:

POOR = EASY TO LAY

Post by **Winston** » February 26th, 2009, 7:57 am

So according to the traditional two year courtship rule in the Philippines, the guy is supposed to not have sex for two years? Is that realistic?

Raja · Post by **Raja** » February 28th, 2009, 6:00 am

WWu777 wrote:So according to the traditional two year courtship rule in the Philippines, the guy is supposed to not have sex for two years? Is that realistic?

That's more like the "don't ask, don't tell" period. After which family will assume that a couple are doing it and are mentally prepared to pull out the shotgun should the girl get pregnant.

ladislav · Post by **ladislav** » February 28th, 2009, 6:35 am

WWu777 wrote:So according to the traditional two year courtship rule in the Philippines, the guy is supposed to not have sex for two years? Is that realistic?

The guys will have sex but not with her. He will be going to karaoke bars and picking up pros there.

gmm567 · Post by **gmm567** » March 8th, 2009, 2:55 pm

That site called Tagged is amazing. I am like a woman with a nice body. I have so many, many choices. They just keep coming at me. In three days, I have a half dozen sexy babes who are talking to me.There are scammers though so you 've got to figure them out. I can't get american women to even talk to me.

God Bless the Philipines. Jet black hair, red lipstick, rocking bodies. S--get your ass over there to tagged. There are all kinds of educated women there. I talked with one last night for 3 hours. Jet black hair, packing a pair of perky B's. 32 years old, and intelligent. She says on her profile she's looking for a cool intellectual guy. Where can you find such a thing here in the States? She does have two kids, and the immediate family is like 12 people. She's been divorced for 4 years She's attracted to guys who have blue eyes and white skin. She works in a call center.

f**k Germany. It's just too easy in the Philipines. I mean why spend more effort than you have to? It is so easy over there.

God Bless the Philipines

Raja · Post by **Raja** » March 8th, 2009, 5:17 pm

gmm567 wrote:God Bless the Philipines. Jet black hair, red lipstick, rocking bodies. S--get your ass over there to tagged. There are all kinds of educated women there. I talked with one last night for 3 hours. Jet black hair, packing a pair of perky B's. 32 years old, and intelligent. She says on her profile she's looking for a cool intellectual guy. Where can you find such a thing here in the States? She does have two kids, and the immediate family is like 12 people. She's been divorced for 4 years She's attracted to guys who have blue eyes and white skin. She works in a call center.

God Bless the Philipines

You do realize that if she is a Filipina there is about a 99% chance that she is merly seperated and is waiting on you to fund an annulment don't you? Unless she married a Muslim or a foriegner who divorced her( not her divorcing him) in his country, verified by the Philippines Consulate, she is not divorced.

gmm567 · Post by **gmm567** » March 8th, 2009, 6:03 pm

really....I am laughing. I was thinking it would be a good thing since...she can't get married..I don't have to marry either. I mean you have to be crazy to get married and bring her to the states. Getting married here in the Us is just like putting a noose around your head.

I'd have to know here for 3-4years anyway.

So how much does it cost to get an annulment? Yes she is separated. I am laughing. SO this is what you get yourself into.

Mr S · Post by **Mr S** » March 9th, 2009, 5:03 am

I wouldn't trust a Filipina who is over 30 and never been married...the question that needs to be asked is why? They usually have something they are hiding, most likely a kid or something.

If you get married in Philippines there is no divorce and getting an annulment is extremely difficult and takes a long time to complete. Most couples just separate and live their own lives than try to go through the hassle of annulment, at least the poor and middle class do that.

Post by **Winston** » March 9th, 2009, 8:07 am

Mr S wrote:I wouldn't trust a Filipina who is over 30 and never been married...the question that needs to be asked is why? They usually have something they are hiding, most likely a kid or something.

If you get married in Philippines there is no divorce and getting an annulment is extremely difficult and takes a long time to complete. Most couples just separate and live their own lives than try to go through the hassle of annulment, at least the poor and middle class do that.

W: I read a law that said that if the husband is a foreigner, he can divorce a Filipina in HIS country, and then she can do the same in the Philippines.

Raja · Post by **Raja** » March 9th, 2009, 8:26 am

WWu777 wrote:
Mr S wrote:I wouldn't trust a Filipina who is over 30 and never been married...the question that needs to be asked is why? They usually have something they are hiding, most likely a kid or something.

If you get married in Philippines there is no divorce and getting an annulment is extremely difficult and takes a long time to complete. Most couples just separate and live their own lives than try to go through the hassle of annulment, at least the poor and middle class do that.
W: I read a law that said that if the husband is a foreigner, he can divorce a Filipina in HIS country, and then she can do the same in the Philippines.

Almost. First there is the Muslim exception. If a woman marries a Muslim man under Sharia law (a Muslim woman can't marry a non Muslim under Sharia by the way) then he can divorce. Second if a foriegn partner initiates the divorce in the foriegn country. The Philippines citizen can't sue for divorce, except the Sharia exception. The local Philippine consul has to verify that the foriegn partner asked for the divorce. The Filipina then may remarry.

I think the expese is overblown. It can be done for about $2000 USD. However if you want in done in less then a year then you have to choose a lawyer with the proper contacts and bribe your way past the court clerk onto the judges calender.

There are two basic strategies. First if seperate for more then 7 years have the ex presummed to be dead. Second if uncontested the other partner doesn't show up in court and the doctor you hired proclaims that he was not able to make thew informed consent to marry in the first place. If the ex fights or sees a payday like when that Brit was jailed for adultery last year then you are screwed. You have to bribe the ex to go away, if he doesn't the court must take the legal prejudice that the marriage can be saved and it doesn't matter what the doctors say.

gmm567 · Post by **gmm567** » March 9th, 2009, 8:55 am

There are two basic strategies?

After 7 years, one of the partners is presumed dead.So, legally there is no divorce in this situation. One partner is dead.

The second strategy I don't understand:

"if uncontested the other partner doesn't show up in court and the doctor you hired proclaims that he was not able to make thew informed consent to marry in the first place."

can you rephrase that.