Exactly! Everyone puts on a mask when they meet someone for the first time. That's why I think befriending a girl first and getting to know her as a friend works better as you get to know the person before you even start dating. Then you have an idea who the person is and whether you're compatible.publicduende wrote: ↑May 14th, 2023, 3:18 amWhat @Pixel--Dude says is true, though. "Virginity" is not something solely associated to never having had penetrative sex: it's a very strong statement about the girl's modesty, innocence and sweetness.
Like I said on another post, it's extremely common in Turkey for teenage girls to have anal sex with their boyfriends, so they can remain virgin for a bit longer and have their parents off their cases. Would a girl like that, still technically a virgin yet into the same kinds of degeneracy as their counterparts in Italy, the UK or the US, be considered "a virgin"?
Technical virginity, with all the mental and spiritual toxic baggage from the world we live in, really doesn't mean much anymore.
I am way past the age where I could even remotely hope to get a young girl (I already won the lottery once! ). Even if I did, though, virginity would not be the main criterion I would be looking for. There are even more important traits than virginity alone, and unfortunately those traits are only discovered after months, perhaps years, or meeting and getting to know the girl...
Even virgin girls will be influenced by the society and culture they live in. If they are a western girl who has shitty values it won't matter if she's a virgin, because she'll likely turn out to be a solipsistic cunt like most women are in the west anyway.
It's like I said this is why @Winston promotes the Happierabroad lifestyle. Because women from different cultures have better values. This is also something @Lucas88 and many others on this forum have experienced as well. Including myself to a degree...