Why do most people consider it bad to want sex and women?

[Winston]

Swincor,
You seem to think that you and Chemist are infallible and that your faulty memory are facts. It is YOU who needs to pay attention.

Some corrections.

Dianne's mom got in and took the baby crib not because I gave her the keys. Dianne gave them to her. Can you explain why I had to tell that to Chemist multiple times? Do you and him have memory problems? If so, you're wasting my time. I only talk to sane people.

I got the keys back so no more problem with that.

Who the hell told you that I showed Dianne's aunt my site? She HATED this site and hated me BEFORE she ever met me. So how could have shown her this site? You aren't making any f***ing sense. And if you were a decent man, you'd at least apologize for your blunders. So why are you demanding that I apologize when I did nothing wrong?

Dianne is the one who showed her my site. Duh. Everyone knew that. Why didn't you? Do you have mental problems? Seriously.

She told the aunt about my site, then the aunt googled my name to find this site, and didn't like what she saw.

Like I said, I don't care if she didn't like me, or if I was the root of the problem. That's a matter of opinion.

One can also say that HER INTERPRETATION or PERCEPTION of me is the root of the problem too. So why didn't you say that?

You said her anger was understandable. Well then why isn't my defense and standing up for my principles understandable as well?

So she attacks me and you consider it reasonable, but when I defend you don't? Explain your double standard and turn the other cheek mentality here.

Why do I feel like I'm arguing with a f***ing child?

FYI, when I met her in person, I WAS tactful and diplomatic. But it wasn't enough. She still hated this site and what I stood for. And the fact that I wasn't rich.

You definitely are not seeing the big picture.

I did not create her hostility. She did. I didn't do anything wrong. And I stand by that 100 percent.

You are more deluded than the Salem Witch Trials.

Why do you feel that I owed her anything?

Why do you act as though your twisted dumb opinions are hard objective facts, when they are coming out of your ass only?

Dude, there is no evidence that this aunt ever saw that letter. She never mentioned it.

Again, you are assuming things without proof. Only Chemist does that. Normal intelligent people don't.

Chemist also believes that a person cannot tell when someone truly like them vs. when they're just being polite. Everyone else I know can tell that. Even a dog can. So why can't he?

Can you explain his logic behind that? Is it sound?

Is the earth flat?

I did not send her that letter. I had no way of sending it to her. It was posted on my website for a while. There was no evidence that she read it.

I'll get a job when I'm ready and willing, not when weirdos like you tell me to. No one tells me what to do.

Even if I'm always nice to the aunt, she still doesn't like me. Some people are like oil and water. She is everything I'm not.

FYI, I do not have to get along with her. She is not part of my life or relationship at all. She has given up trying to force a break up.

As of now, the deal is that I don't go to the house except on holidays, and she doesn't bother me either. We stay out of each other's lives. And that's it. There is no need to be nice to her since I have no contact with her and she lives abroad.

Plus I heard that she doesn't support Dianne's family anymore anyway.

As to where her family gets their money for food and school tuition, I don't know. Dianne claims that their friends loan them money. But I don't see how they can keep doing that every month.

You also gotta understand that even my best advisors can be wrong.

When Dianne refused to give me back the baby stroller, everyone on my list said she sold it and isn't telling me and so it was gone. But it turned out that everyone was wrong, when it was returned to me.

Why is it that out of everyone here, only you are taking this aunt's side? What does that tell you?

[gmm567]

Well, winston, at least it looks like you got the problem resolved. The aunt is not trying to force a breakup anymore. So that's good.

Have you noticed that swincor exhibits very inflexible, moralistic thinking patterns?I wonder that this guy hasn't been raised in a strict religious background. The dogma is gone but the implacbility is still there.

Obviously you've got money in the bank, Winston, and it's is very cheap to live there. $100 a month for 2 bed apartment; food half price of here.... and on an on. So you're taking care of things for the time being, and that's what most people here in the states are doing. Can we say "month to month."

So who is swincor to critize you for not having a job...when you don't need one!!!! Who the f**k is he?



Thanks for the info S...... nice to hear of the tight pussies. Um, I am in my 40's but I get told I look 35. I could loose 5-10 lbs, and I do have some thining of my hair, but I am not bald. I think the place you've got to look women is in the Universities. There is supposedly 2.5 million in colleges. The bars are for "butterflying." NOT LONG TERM RELATIONSHIPS.

We've got to meet up. I'll buy you some p***y.

[Winston]

Swincor,
A few questions for you:

1. Why do you log on from a different IP every time? Are you using some IP cloaking software or proxy that fakes IP's?

2. How did you get a hold of that letter to Dianne's aunt? My "friends" do not hold a copy of it. Only my bashers do. That means you got it from one of them. Are you part of wooweasel? Which of the bashers are you in contact with?

3. Let me see if you're a person with real life experience with people and basic social skills, and not just some guy who's lived in a garage all his life. Here's a test for you to answer:

How can you tell the difference between someone who really likes you and someone who's just polite? Can you point some signs, clues, red flags or indicative behaviors?

[Winston]

Gmm567,
I don't know who swincor is, but I suspect that he is one of Chemist's aliases. He has the same writing style, uses similar arguments, and talks down on me in the same way. He could also be Stefan in disguise.

But either way, I do not consider a guy credible who does not show himself, does not show his picture, doesn't say his real name, and won't even divulge his public website (Chemist that is).

This swincor fella, if he was honest and open, he would ASK me questions instead of acting like an all knowing God.

For instance, instead of telling me that it was a mistake for me to show Dianne's aunt my website (which I didn't), he should ask me:

"Winston, did you show this aunt your website, or did Dianne show her?"

And instead of telling me that I did not speak to her tactfully and nicely when I met her in person (which I did), he should have asked me:

"Winston, when you met Dianne's aunt in person, were you nice to her or did you argue? What happened?"

I would have answered honestly.

That's what a NORMAL person does, is ask questions when they don't know something or are trying to find out something. A person who acts like an all knowing God and already has all the answers about what happened in other people's lives, obviously has issues.

BTW, do you mean you want to look for women in US colleges, or foreign colleges?

[gmm567]

yeah , it definitely seems like chemist. Moralistic, rigid, inflexible thinking. I am thinking he's lost some of the strictness of the "scriptures," and is out banging hookers. But he's still got the very same mindset from the strict religous upbringing. Give him another 10 years maybe he'll loosen up some more, and be able to think better. But now, he's a waist of your time.

[Winston]

I wouldn't call Chemist moralistic, maybe in his own way. Moralistic people usually do not have double standards. When something immoral is done against me, he tries to defend it, for instance. Since he is a basher, anything bad that anyone does to him, is seen as "right" in his eyes, whether it's the unfair no win situation from Stefan, his hacking into my yahoo account, or whether an aunt terrorizes an innocent family, Chemist always tries to make me out to be wrong in the most twisted way, and BSing his way through it.

He also will not admit anything in my favor, not even when it comes to basic math. He won't admit that $20 is greater than $2, because doing so would be an admission that I spent more money on Stefan's birthday than his own fiancee did. What kind of a man would do that? Not a normal, decent or sane one.

[Winston]

Swincor, you are not living in reality.

Dianne and I aren't married, so the mother's family has first rule over the child. Those are the usual customs in most countries.

Dianne is with me almost 24/7 and I'm on the internet a lot. It's not possible to not let her know about my website. Duh.

I told you before, the aunt has a right to hate me. I have a right to hate her too. And a right to hate you. But would I have the right to terrorize some innocent third party just because I hated you?

Again, why aren't you being humble and asking questions rather than acting like a God and dictating how things are?

Wise people do not tell others what to do with their lives. Ignorant people do that.

Why do you assume that Dianne's family showed my letter to the aunt? Logically, they wouldn't because they do not want to escalate a conflict any further, so it's more probable that they humored me by making me think that they would send it to the aunt, when they really didn't. Anyone who knows anything about families knows this. You obviously do not have real people skills or judgment, but are only speaking from your shallow understanding of life.

You are also technically false in stating YOUR OPINIONS as though they were scientific fact. They are NOT.

I got Dianne pregnant, cause I wanted a baby, not to cause trouble to their family. If they don't want the trouble of another family member, they could always give me the baby and I'd be fine with that too. My mom would gladly help raise him in Taiwan.

Most people in my situation wouldn't have done any different. You can't change who you are to please others. And if you tried, it wouldn't work.

I'm not the type of guy this aunt wants, and I can't become it even if I wanted. Nor do I care. This aunt is not my queen. And like I said, I don't give a f**k what she thinks. Only you do swincor. Why don't you go please her if that's what you want? You arguing about this with me is a f***ing waste of my time and pisses me off.

I'm not changing who I am and what I want to do, for you or this aunt or anyone.

That's REAL TOUGHNESS, to do what you want and not give a shit what others think. Weakness is if I bow down to your stupid words and this stranger aunt. Strong people with courage and conviction don't bow down to people they don't give a shit about.

But why the f**k are you hung up on this? The aunt never talks about me anymore and I have nothing to do with her. I have far more interesting people to focus on now. So why the f**k are you hung up on her?

She's out of the picture. And you're out of your f***ing mind.

Get a life!

[gmm567]

yes,winston and I'd just like add that you put in a tremendous amount of time and energy into this website which is your love. And it really may take off...you may make money at it.

So since you have money in the bank and the cost of living is very low there,and you work very hard at developing this web site, who is he to condemn you morally. Who is he? A moralistic, nosy, inflexible douche.

[Winston]

Look swincor, I'm not even going to read your last post in this thread on the subject of dianne's aunt. I already told you, and I'm going to tell you one last time, I DON'T GIVE A F ABOUT THIS TOPIC. It's over and the only reason you're fixated on it must be because you are looking for an excuse to bash me and cause trouble, or you are addicted to drama and stupid conflicts and very unhappy so you try to infect it upon me. Well I won't have any of that!

The bottom line is that I am like a mirror. If someone is nice to me, I'm nice to them. If someone is good to me, I'm good to them. If someone is mean, rude or an asshole to me, then I'm the same way back to them. I think most people are like that. So what's wrong with that?

Have I ever unjustly persecuted or attacked an innocent person who did me no wrong? NO! So in the eyes of most people, that makes me normal and good.

Case closed.

[TRADER1972]

I don't know exactly what I stated but I probably said that I was having the time of my life and being able to date and bang hot, feminine women that aren't generally like the fat slobs and bitches American woman tend to be. Then they don't reply, ha ha. Maybe their wives of Gf's read their email! I wouldn't be surprised as American men are generally pussies now and let women walk all over them.

I left the states for one reason or another and one of those was to be able to bang hot Asian woman. And like you said it would be difficult to accomplish that in the states, so why don't I just go to the source? I'm not going to sit on my ass in some rat race job in the states wishing when I'm 50 that I went overseas and banged every hot piece of ass I could get my hands on. Most guys I talk to admit that getting married was a mistake and I should stay single as long as possible. Also that I should f**k as many girls as I can before I die. So that's what I have been doing for the most part. Maybe when my limbedo slows down as i get older I'll feel more inclined to get into a long term relationship. But why now when I am still young ad in the prime of my life? Humans now a days live well over 70's years unlike in the past where 30 years old was considered a long life and getting married in your teens or 20's was the norm. Well not anymore so I'm using it to my advantage. I've probably had sex with well over 500 women now, but I know not 1000 yet. Somewhere in between. I stopped counting a long time ago.

Imagine how frustrating and depressing it must be to come how to a typical AW bitch and meanwhile read about others who are married to a hot Asian or who are single and banging many hot Asian girls. Enough to make you kill yourself!

I know marriage is not for everyone here, but I have always maintained this viewpoint about smart, successful and rich American men:

No matter how rich
No matter how famous
No matter how powerful
No matter how educated
No matter how healthy
No matter how physically gifted


If he was dumb enough to marry an american women....

He is not smarter than me
He is not happier than me
And all his gifts are going to waste

I get extreme delight in this if the above person is a prick.

Serves him right.

This is a generalization of course, but are any of them really happy with their wifes?


For the average man,if he becomes acquainted with me, I do everything I can to open his eyes to the world waiting for him.

I try to help them avoid that pit of hell known as American women.

[well-informed]

Absolutely fantastic post, i'll be sending you a private message with a couple of questions. You seem like you know you're stuff

[All_That_Is_Man]

I live in the American midwest, so talk about being seen as a "bad person" for A) being single, B) also being young, yet C) being generally attracted to younger women, and D) being sex positive and physically functional. Everyday I fear that I may have said something "not PC" and the cops may storm in and arrest me for no reason. This is partially why I stopped talking to AW on a large scale. A lot of times I get the urge to set up a date or a hook up with one, but as soon as I mention meeting in person (sexual or blatantly platonic), I'm still labelled some sort of "heathen or "sex tourist". American women in the midwest are THAT f***ing dumb. I couldn't tell you why this is. I am very tall, handsome, nice, healthy, and friendly, but all that is overlooked the very instant that I want sex. I just don't get it. Here's hoping that in whatever foreign country I end up in, the women actually enjoy the company of men.

[Billy]

I love this thread, Mr S talking of nice pussies and 500 notches and Winston going mad about swincor. So entertaining

[xsplat]

There is a caste of males whose sexual strategy is lifetime monogamy. They have this strategy because they are the beta class who are not at the top of the male pyramid hierarchy, and can not attract multiple mates and lovers. So they band together and enforce society wide rules limiting all men to one vagina for life. This gives each man a much better chance of getting at least one partner. It's an egalitarian socialist setup.

That sexual strategy is biological and innate - people are born with those predispositions. As well, it is cultural. People with these innate predispositions will tend to gravitate to the cultural institutions that foster them. So you will have brothers in the same household where one becomes a religious nut, and the other a libertine.

As for why women get pissed off at men getting young poon, it's because women's sexual strategy includes getting a provider trapped into lifetime monogamy. They benefit from the system that betas propose.

The only problem with the betas position is that it does not account for hypergamy or women's dual sexual strategies. Women when given the chance will share an alpha or cheat on a beta to be with an alpha. The beta system is unable to stop the alpha cads or stop females from stepping out. The beta system used to work when women were financially constrained to make life decisions that gave them a provider, but now that this is not the case, women's other sexual nature of being hypergamous and not necessarily monogamous is more active.

The other point to make is that women rely on the beta class of men to be providers. They can't treat all men as alphas, giving free p***y, or men will stop marrying. Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? So team vagina has as it's innate biologically driven strategy the instinct to treat most men as unworty of their sex, to keep them starving, so that they will trade resources for sex. One way they do this is to team up and gossip about and deny the lowly average men the right to consider themselves as having any high status or any access to pretty poon.

[jamesbond]

As for why women get pissed off at men getting young poon, it's because women's sexual strategy includes getting a provider trapped into lifetime monogamy. They benefit from the system that betas propose.

The only problem with the betas position is that it does not account for hypergamy or women's dual sexual strategies. Women when given the chance will share an alpha or cheat on a beta to be with an alpha. The beta system is unable to stop the alpha cads or stop females from stepping out. The beta system used to work when women were financially constrained to make life decisions that gave them a provider, but now that this is not the case, women's other sexual nature of being hypergamous and not necessarily monogamous is more active.

The other point to make is that women rely on the beta class of men to be providers. They can't treat all men as alphas, giving free p***y, or men will stop marrying. Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? So team v****a has as it's innate biologically driven strategy the instinct to treat most men as unworty of their sex, to keep them starving, so that they will trade resources for sex. One way they do this is to team up and gossip about and deny the lowly average men the right to consider themselves as having any high status or any access to pretty poon.

Yes, this explains why a lot of women hate the idea of men having lot's of options when it comes to sex. Studies have shown that in countries where prostitution is legal, the woman are friendlier and easier to meet than in countries where prostitution is illegal.

All women desire the alpha male and will marry a beta male and cheat on him with an alpha male. For women, power is the ultimate afrodisiac. Women crave men who are in postions of power (professional athlete, politiican, actor, entertainer, her boss).

The US does have a puritanical belief when it comes to sex. It sees women as being without fault and men as being evil and sex perverts. All english speaking countries have this "puritanical" belief system.