lavezzi wrote:Dark_Sol wrote:
I have to disagree on being an morally upright and humble gentleman. I've been one for my whole life and it does not attract anyone. I can see it working in a forgien country, but not in america. They all want that impossible man.
if you posess a clear mind with no desires especially ones mascerading themselves as "needs" which cause you to become impatient and seek after women who are wrong for you, then its just a matter of flowing wherever life naturally takes you, anticipating but not craving the day you meet that special woman perfect for you in every way with whom you will spend the rest of your life with, and that day will come sooner or later.
however, if you possess a confused mind filled with desires especially ones mascerading themselves as "needs" which cause you to become impatient and seek after women who are wrong for you, then it is a matter of resisting where life naturally takes you life, anticipating and craving the day you meet that special woman perfect for you in every way with whom you will spend the rest of your life with, and that day will likely never come.
i hope you now understand fully.
That sounds like a buddy and his wife telling me that I should stop looking and a woman would appear, it just not my time to date. In all, advice like yours is what people say to a guy nicely that he should be alone, not good enough for love and should quit. Should I just stay here in America and let my life be void of love? Or should I take matters into my own hands and find a woman overseas, since I ain't catching anything here. Only insane people try to attempt to solve a problem repeatedly and get the same results.
Anyways, I go for the nice girl who is suppose to be the girl next door. The type that is pure, but no, they are all the same. They go for the thug, the model, the rich guy, the douche. I ain't going for the wrong girls, it's just that I realized they are no different than the sluts. So f**k em, I look at women 19-30s as trash. I will say again, I agree with what you say, but only in a foriegn country