Quotations of a Strong Chinese Mistress

[momopi]

http://bbs.huanqiu.com/viewthread.php?tid=183796

中国强悍"二奶"的惊天语录!
1、咱文化程度不高，就是长得不怎么寒碜，那些男人不都是说，年轻就是财富吗？所以年轻就值钱。你要睡咱们，你就得付出，这谁也不亏欠谁。我们卖的就是年轻。男人不给钱，你想白睡也没门。如果你长得帅，我们可以考虑，但至少也得和刘什么华的差不多。
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2、我们可不是那些做“鸡â€�的，一晚上100元还可以打对折。今天搞个100的，明天又搞个50的，嫌烦不嫌烦，和卖麻花的差不多。没人要的时候，一晚上20都行，本都弄不回来。我们当二奶的，怎么说也是高档货，虽是批发价，但不愁销路。

3、当“二奶â€�也是自身资源开发，按那些读书人的说法就是绿色经济,按牛处长的**就是"无烟工业"。做个漂亮女人，你不给别人当“二奶â€�，除非就找个条件相当好的，那样也太不自由，但那些人，看重的哪是我们这些人。找个公务员或是什么教授之类的，只是好听一些，还不要受穷，教授那几个钱，自己买书都不够，还够我们放开手脚花？现在这个社会，哪个不是只认钱，只是我们有资本，认大钱。等我们没人要了，还会有谁愿意为一个年老色衰的女人掏钱。

4、曾经在老家时，开群众会，妇女主任说做女人要自挣（尊）、自强、自信、自立，我们当二奶的“鸡â€�本上都做到了。钱虽然是老板给的，但也得付出劳动，“ 鸡â€�本上是自挣。自强吗，找得到钱就强，找不到就不强。自信吗，就是对自己有信心，开始当“二奶â€�不敢向老板多要钱，多当几次，就自信了，一出口，至少也得喊个十万二十万的。至于自立，这是对男人的要求，说女人要自立，那不可笑吗？男人连“自立â€�都不行了，找个二奶天天看相呀？

5、我能够把别人的老婆给“干掉â€�了，这说明在当今社会，喜欢有钱有权的男人的女人都容易成功。这是我干了五年“二奶â€�总结出的唯一的有水平的话。如果你不成功，是你没有傍到真正有钱有权的男人。男人因为极度好色才让我们拥有了露头的机会。

6、以前读书那阵子，那些迂得不行的老师给我们讲，兵哥哥是最可爱的人，还说教书的也可爱，真是笑死人了。其实，那些人再好，跟我们什么相干。在我们眼中好色的有钱人、有权人就是天底下最可爱的人。有钱就是俺爹，有权就是俺爷。没钱就是当儿子当孙子都没人要。



7、这社会找个男人图什么，所谓的结婚生子都是借口，还不是图找个男人有靠，那些不是这么想的女人，肯定也长不了，那些想独立的女人，说得倒好听，最后都独立成一个人了，做女人的就是要靠着男人。男人关键是要有钱，那些所谓正经的男人，都是有色心没色胆的。不怕男人不好色，就怕男人没钱，没色胆，可以培养，没钱，就没有前途了，那我们只能是无缘对面不相识了，有钱我们才能千里来相会。

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8、我曾经有个同行姐妹问我，是找有权的还是有钱的男人好？我对她说，我的个憨妹妹，当然是有权的呀。你想，有钱的人为什么也要傍有权的人呀，就说明权比钱好，有了权也就有了钱。傍个有权的，肯定要好过一般有钱的男人，有权能办成花钱不能办的事。再说，有钱者能给你的钱，都是有价的，这有权者，虽然不能直接给你钱，但却可以带给你更多的好处。虽然来得好像间接一点，但有权的人怕要挟，关系靠得住，那些有权又馋女人的，哪个不是犯有一屁股事的，只要你多点心计，他就不敢甩你。有钱无权者，没法要挟。最多给你点好处，但要你滚蛋。

[momopi]

Translation of above article posted at http://www.chinahush.com/2009/04/09/chi ... /#more-544

1. We are not very educated, but we are good looking, don’t those men say, youth is wealth? That’s why being young is being valuable. If you want to sleep with us, you must pay, so no one owes anyone.

We are selling our youth, if men don’t give us money, there is no way we will sleep with you for nothing. If you are good looking, we might consider, but at least you have to look like “Andy Lau� or something.

2. We are not those “chicken� (hooker, prostitute), one night for 100 Yuan and also can go on sale. Today 100, tomorrow 50. Isn’t that annoying, it’s like selling fried dough twist. When no one wants, one night for 20 will do too, can’t even make back the investment. We are “second wives� (mistresses), no matter what, we are high-end stuff, even when goes for wholesale prices, we don’t have to worry about not having buyers.

3. Being mistress is self-resources development, like those educated people say, this is “green� economy, according to Director Nu it is “smoke-free industry�. Being a beautiful woman, not being a mistress, unless finds someone very rich, but then there is no freedom. Also those people will never want our kind. Find a civil servant or some professor? only sounds good, you are still going to be poor, how much money can a professor make? Can’t even make enough to by books for himself, how can they afford to let us to spend? In today’s society, who doesn’t only recognize money, we have the capital, recognize big money. Wait till no one wants us anymore, who will willing to spend money on an old and lifeless woman?

4. Once in my home town, in a general meeting, women’s director says being a woman must earn (respect), and self-improvement, self-confidence and self-reliance. Being mistresses we have done all of that. Even though money comes from our boss, but we must work for it. Most of the money is earned by ourselves. Self-improvement? You are strong if you can find money, not strong if cannot find money. Self-confidence? Is being confident with-in ourselves. In the beginning mistresses do not dare to ask our boss for more money. After couple of times, we have gained more self-confidence, when asking for money, at least asking for 100,000-200,000. About self-reliance, this should be the demand for men. Asking women to be self-reliance, isn’t this ridiculous? If men cannot even be self-reliance, what are they doing with a mistress? Read the fortune every day?

5. I can “eliminate� someone’s wife this means in today’s society, women who like men with money and power can easily succeed. I have been a mistress for 5 years now, and only summarized to this. If you are not successful, because you have not met the real men with money and power. Because men are extremely horny and love women’s beauty, we finally have the opportunity to rise up.

6. Before when I was in school, Those literal-minded teachers have told us, “兵哥哥â€�(a novel by Song Zuying) is a very adorable person, also says teaching is adorable and lovable, this is so ridiculous. In fact no matter how good those people are it has nothing to do with us. In our eyes lecherous people with money and power are the most adorable people in the world. Man who has money is my daddy, who has power is my daddy. Man with no money, can’t even to be my son or grandson.

7. In this society looking for a man for what? To get married, have kids, these are all executes. The only reason is to depend on them. Those women who do not think like that will never grow up. Those women who want to be independent, sounds so good, but in the end, they end up alone. Being women must depend on men. The most important thing for men is having money. Those so called “decent� men all are men who have lust but have no balls. It is ok for men not to be lustful, but it is not ok for them to be poor. Don’t have balls, it can be trained, if they have no money they will have no future. Then we can only be apart even facing each other. With money we can be together even when we are thousand miles apart.

8. A sister with the same occupation once asked me: which is better, men with power or men with money? I told her, you are so stupid, of course men with power. Think about it why is even rich people wants to be close to people with power? That means men with power is better, having power is having money. Being close to power, must be better than being with men with money. Having power can achieve things money cannot buy. Also, rich men give you money but those all can be put on a price. With a powerful man, even he cannot give you money directly he can give you even better things although those things are very indirect. Powerful men are scared of being threatened so your relationship with him is more reliable. Those powerful and lustful men, who doesn’t have scandals? If you are more calculating, he does not dare to break up with you. With men with money but no power, you cannot threaten them. They at most give you some money and then ask you to get lost.

[The_Adventurer]

I like this girl... but Andy Lau is considered good looking?

Also, the best quote ever: "It is ok for men not to be lustful, but it is not ok for them to be poor."

[Repatriate]

Yeah these mistresses are basically high priced prostitutes that you have to sponsor and they are always constantly looking to "move up" which means they really aren't worth the time or effort. I guess it's ok to play if you are one of those super handsome guys who can bullshit them into them taking care of you like a sugar momma and flipping the script . There are some super rich lonely guys in China who are willing to play this game. Actually it's just not China but in Asia this sort of thing isn't unusual. I do think it's particularly bad in countries where the gender ratio favors attractive women though.

Her mindset is what i've said that a lot of Chinese women have on the mainland. This is why I have maintained that a lot of them are actually terrible choices to have relationships with. Of course it's a nation with 1.3 billion people so not all women are the same but it's also 1.3 billion people living in highly unequal income stratified situations where tensions and materialism can run into extremes. It naturally warps some people.

[Winston]

Who wrote that? Is it from a real mistress or a satire? It confirms what I said about their mentality being totally materialistic and non-spiritual and non-soulful. People like that and I never relate and are on totally different wavelengths.

So much for the wise teachings of Lao Tzu and Buddhism.

[Repatriate]

Who wrote that? Is it from a real mistress or a satire? It confirms what I said about their mentality being totally materialistic and non-spiritual and non-soulful. People like that and I never relate and are on totally different wavelengths.

I've met women who think 100% like this in Thailand and it's definitely real.

So much for the wise teachings of Lao Tzu and Buddhism.

Chinese spiritualism and philosophical idealism was already dying in the 19th century and pretty much died completely after the cultural revolution. What you have now are a lot of Chinese people "pretending" to be in touch but really just basking in the new age of excess.