I am going to Thailand tomorrow.

[Hero]

One night in Bangkok makes a hard man humble
Not much between despair and ecstasy
One night in Bangkok and the tough guys tumble
Can't be too careful with your company
I can feel the Devil walking next to me

Bangkok, Oriental setting
And the city don't know what the city is getting
The creme de la creme of the chess world
In a show with everything but Yul Brynner

Time flies, doesn't seem a minute
Since the Tirolean Spa had the chess boys in it
All change, don't you know that when you
Play at this level, there's no ordinary venue

It's Iceland or the Philippines
Or Hastings or, or this place

One night in Bangkok and the world's your oyster
The bars are temples but the pearls ain't free
You'll find a God in every golden cloister
And if you're lucky then the God's a she
I can feel an angel sliding up to me

One town's very like another
When your head's down over your pieces, Brother

It's a drag, it's a bore, it's really such a pity
To be looking at the board, not looking at the city

Whaddya mean?
Ya seen one crowded, polluted, stinking town

Tea girls, warm and sweet, warm, sweet
Some are set up in the Somerset Maugham Suite

"Get Thai'd", you're talking to a tourist
Whose every move's among the purest
I get my kicks above the waistline, sunshine

One night in Bangkok makes a hard man humble
Not much between despair and ecstasy
One night in Bangkok and the tough guys tumble
Can't be too careful with your company
I can feel the Devil walking next to me

Siam's gonna be the witness
To the ultimate test of cerebral fitness
This grips me more than would
A muddy old river or Reclining Buddha

But thank God, I'm only watching the game, controlling it

I don't see you guys rating
The kind of mate I'm contemplating
I'd let you watch, I would invite you
But the queens we use would not excite you

So you better go back to your bars, your temples
Your massage parlors

One night in Bangkok and the world's your oyster
The bars are temples but the pearls ain't free
You'll find a God in every golden cloister
A little flesh, a little history
I can feel an angel slidin' up to me

One night in Bangkok makes a hard man humble
Not much between despair and ecstasy
One night in Bangkok and the tough guys tumble
Can't be too careful with your company
I can feel the Devil walking next to me

[tamdrin12]

but how good of a lay?

It was good mate... It was a little hard at the end because I drank a lot.... She licked my ***hole.. too.... Unfortunately.. I don't really have the money to spend on this kind of shit.... I might end up flat out broke in Thailand which wouldn't be good.. I'm thinking I should just get out of here and fly back to the states.. There is so much f***ing temptation here.. Honestly I am surprised at how many hot bar girls there are in Thailand. I thought they would be way worse looking... And I really don't like drinking a lot... Once you start drinking its hard to resist the girls..


I met a guy from England at the bar last night.. He was just going through a divorce where his wife was trying to take 70% of his business. He had sworn off western women and was planning to find a Thai to marry... I gave him the low down on finding a good girl and definitely staying away from emotional involvement with bar girls..

[newlifeinphilippines]

but how good of a lay?

It was good mate... It was a little hard at the end because I drank a lot.... She licked my ***hole.. too.... Unfortunately.. I don't really have the money to spend on this kind of shit.... I might end up flat out broke in Thailand which wouldn't be good.. I'm thinking I should just get out of here and fly back to the states.. There is so much f***ing temptation here.. Honestly I am surprised at how many hot bar girls there are in Thailand. I thought they would be way worse looking... And I really don't like drinking a lot... Once you start drinking its hard to resist the girls..


I met a guy from England at the bar last night.. He was just going through a divorce where his wife was trying to take 70% of his business. He had sworn off western women and was planning to find a Thai to marry... I gave him the low down on finding a good girl and definitely staying away from emotional involvement with bar girls..

thai bar girls are supposed to be hotter than filipina ones. There are some hot filipina bar girls but most are just cute or borderline or ugly.

there is alot of bad temptation and influences in teh bar though if you can find a good girl outside the bar you click with thats the btter way to go. but its hard to find a very attractive girl that you can click with on all levels that isn't a prostitute if you are in a rush to find someone cause you have so many choices and are spending money to stay there on vacation not to be alone.


you can burn through thousands in even a couple months if you barfine everyday. what i did was take a girl out of the bar and it wound up being very cheap even cheaper than my current live in gf that i had my last trip. Just pay them a steady low month rate or weekly rate and youll get more bang for your buck. but youll still be spending alot overall even with that. also one other thing is you wind up falling in love with a bargirl which is not a good thing at all. you can try to resist but it wont be easy. i have to admit i wish to go back to my bargirl i had before but the 2 cons are lots of fighting and drama and she was a bitch just using me (but she was amazing in other ways lol) and the 2nd reason is i need to save my money and focus on my work which is risky. you can enjoy asia more when your retired or a little closer to retirement.

[tamdrin12]

Barfine everyday? There is no way I'm doing that. When I say I'm broke I'm really broke. I have been travelling around without work for 5 months now. This was like a one time deal for me... And I was lucky because she was superhot.. so it was worth it....

Yes Thai bar girls are pretty f***ing hot in my opinion... At least a large portion of the ones I have seen are... The English guy I met had a girl that was way less hot than mine.. He said he had been staying with her for 8 days.. I warned him about getting emotionally involved...

I guess our personalities are different. I don't want to work my ass off and save up for retirement.. There is too much life to live now.. and we never know if we will even make it till old age. Shouldn't we enjoy our youth instead of just banking on having a lot of money down the line.. This doesn't mean that I think I or anyone should fritter their life away in the bars or anything.. But I think you need to find a balance... to find a place that you enjoy living.. Where your expenses can be minimal but still allow for a good quality of life.. simultaneously saving for the future..

[newlifeinphilippines]

Barfine everyday? There is no way I'm doing that. When I say I'm broke I'm really broke. I have been travelling around without work for 5 months now. This was like a one time deal for me... And I was lucky because she was superhot.. so it was worth it....

Yes Thai bar girls are pretty f***ing hot in my opinion... At least a large portion of the ones I have seen are... The English guy I met had a girl that was way less hot than mine.. He said he had been staying with her for 8 days.. I warned him about getting emotionally involved...

I guess our personalities are different. I don't want to work my a** off and save up for retirement.. There is too much life to live now.. and we never know if we will even make it till old age. Shouldn't we enjoy our youth instead of just banking on having a lot of money down the line.. This doesn't mean that I think I or anyone should fritter their life away in the bars or anything.. But I think you need to find a balance... to find a place that you enjoy living.. Where your expenses can be minimal but still allow for a good quality of life.. simultaneously saving for the future..

that guy is gonna get hoodwinked, 8 days? Although my barhoe i think spent some time with some guy in uk recently and he went back so not all guys will fall for these girls even if they stay for awhile with them. im the only guy in all those months or years of her working the bar that fell for her like i did. there was one guy before me but she had just started out he was old and rich and kind of stupid thinking of marrying her too but he was sort of a player too. t hose guys are hopeless though just give them advice but dont expect them to really take it lol i was there once myself. thats why its better to stay away from hoes cause its easy to fall in love. its hard finding a good girl you can fall in love with though like a hoe

i want to enjoy my life too and ive been to asia 4 times already even when my income wasn't great and i had no savings but then i realized my income is risky and may not be around in the next few years and with no backup plan i deided i better take at least a year off. im making good money right now so maybei can sleep better if i take one year off. i work 7 days a week and its hard to enjoy my vacation if im stressed about my money but it will be easier if i make alot for one mroe year, im making alot right now but it wont last forever os i gotta work hard right now cause it may end at a signficant rate in 1 to 3 years or whatever lol

[Yohan]

I'm thinking I should just get out of here and fly back to the states.. There is so much f***ing temptation here.. Honestly I am surprised at how many hot bar girls there are in Thailand. I thought they would be way worse looking... And I really don't like drinking a lot... Once you start drinking its hard to resist the girls..

Yes, you should go back to USA and straight to the church to confess you are a sinner... LOL.

Anyway you understand now life in USA is NOT normal for ordinary men with ordinary straight sexual desire towards women. Stay as long as possible in Pattaya I would say.

There are plenty of other places to meet girls for one night in Pattaya, without drinking anything at all. Walk around and talk to all these girls along the beach and lanes between beach road and 2nd road. BTW, openair beerbars do not expect that you order alcohol. Only some gogo-bars etc. insist on consumation of alcohol.

If you have no money anymore for girls, do something else. Take the ferry to the Koh Larn Island for swimming, ferry is only 30 baht for one direction...or rent a small motorcycle for a few days and go to the parks of Wat Yannawararam and the Silver Mountain with the Buddha image. Visit Chantathen Waterfall etc. There are no entrance fees.

If you really have no other choice but to leave, take the airport bus from Jomtien/Theprasit/Thapraya Rd. It should be 134 baht. Very cheap and bus quality is not bad at all.

Have a nice time.

[tamdrin12]

I'm thinking about going up to Chiang Mai.. Because If I taught English here that is probably where I would do it.. So I figure I should check it out.. Have you been up there Yohan???

[Yohan]

Yes, I have been in Chiang Mai and Chiang Rai, but a while ago already, there are cheap air-con buses daily in morning and night buses from Pattaya directly to Chiang Mai and Chiang Rai.

Bus Terminal is on the opposite site of Sukhumvit Road, near to Central Rd.

http://www.globaltravelmate.com/asia/th ... ation.html

About Chiang Mai, do not expect a small city, it is actually larger than Pattaya, with a lot of foreigners living there, some pollution, quite a lot of traffic in the city, living costs are cheaper than Pattaya.

[tamdrin12]

I left Pattaya and am headed to Chiang Mai. Two days in Pattaya were enough for me. But now that I banged the hottest chick of my life.. a bar girl.. my standards are set high for the rest of the trip... I won't be settling for ugly girls I think!!!

Wow I definitely see how guys fall in love with bar girls even though its a bad move...

[E Irizarry R&B Singer]

I left Pattaya and am headed to Chiang Mai. Two days in Pattaya were enough for me. But now that I banged the hottest chick of my life.. a bar girl.. my standards are set high for the rest of the trip... I won't be settling for ugly girls I think!!!

Wow I definitely see how guys fall in love with bar girls even though its a bad move...

I like how you, as a man, came clean and told us you had your salad tossed and emulsified by a hot Thai, bar girl. That takes big balls.
Now if you had your salad tossed and emulsified by that 'chick' in The Hangover 2 whom claimed that Stew was a "superstar" after he shot his load in him, and he shot his load on the floor, then one of the mod's would have to create a special VIP section for androgynous men being happier abroad. IJS. PS: f.uck you, grammar nazi's; this run-on, fragment sentence was of the essence!

[tamdrin12]

The other thing about the bar girls is they know how to have a good time... After I barfined her I toted her around for a few hours drinking and just dancing and everything with her.. We even went to a normal non gogo bar and just had a few beers and threw our hands in the air.

[newlifeinphilippines]

Thats how bargirls are though its an act. Even the sex is an act. I would know i had one for 1.5 years because i believed her acting. To this day she puts on an act for any guy she talks to online or in person. They learn this stuff in the bar. Before the bar they were shy or naive but they learn to become actresses there. I thought it was fun and romantic but now when i watch the videos of her dancing in my room and naughty stuff i realize all i had was a glorified months long barfine everytime i came back. pretty sad......

[tamdrin12]

Yeah it's an act.. but what to do if they are super hot.. There are going to be many guys falling for that... I guess it's ones own bad luck in some ways if one falls for a bar girl.. Like looking for superficial shit like good looks... I wonder if it isn't some guys bad karma to fall for chicks that end of taking all their money.. like some karmic retribution coming back to them in the sneakiest way possible... The only thing to do is to have short term fun with bar girls.. Take them for one or two nights and then never give them a second thought..

[newlifeinphilippines]

Yeah it's an act.. but what to do if they are super hot.. There are going to be many guys falling for that... I guess it's ones own bad luck in some ways if one falls for a bar girl.. Like looking for superficial shit like good looks... I wonder if it isn't some guys bad karma to fall for chicks that end of taking all their money.. like some karmic retribution coming back to them in the sneakiest way possible... The only thing to do is to have short term fun with bar girls.. Take them for one or two nights and then never give them a second thought..

I thought most guys would fall for them but so far my bargirl hasn't been married although i guess her american boyfriend a long time ago came close to that. It seems like most of the guys just pump and dump her even though they prefer her at the bar she claims (which is believable) and im sure she spends alot of time with them etc thats just how she is but the guys i guess see her for what she is. Which is surpising cause you hear all the stories about how guys fall for these girls so i dont know why she dont' have a boyfriend or marriage yet from the bar. It may be cause she is kind of jealous very easily (its an act but still) and kind of drama whereas the avearage guy probably prefers a more quieter girl who wont try to control where he is going and stuff. Im a homebody type and like tos pend a lot of time with a girl so its ok with me but the drama was too much at times with crying or physical or pretending to get jealous because i mentioned other girls. then i became very jealous of her later on once i started having feelings for her.

I agree you should never see a bargirl more than once at most if the girl is a good actress. Cause the more often you see them teh more youll develop feelings. But it depends on teh girl. Most hookers im turned off at and they aren'tw orthy of even hanging around. But if the girl has a good personality once you see them for about 2 or 3 days your almost hooked and its over.


my girl was hot and the sex was better than a porn star. She wasn't super hot like your girl more like a 6.8 but man she was the best at sex ever it was amazing and she was also fun and romantic outside of sex so it was hard to resist. PLus i was naive about women at the time too so it was an awful combination. Now i can see through her act after being away from her for a year and having a more honest filipina. I prefer a more genuine girl cause its less drama fighting and jealousy and its depressing when a girl is only with you for cash. but the problem is its hard to find a quality girl you can connect with. bar girls act so its easy to connect. not always though i didn't really connect with most hoes i met.

[green1976]

Yeah it's an act.. but what to do if they are super hot.. There are going to be many guys falling for that... I guess it's ones own bad luck in some ways if one falls for a bar girl.. Like looking for superficial shit like good looks... I wonder if it isn't some guys bad karma to fall for chicks that end of taking all their money.. like some karmic retribution coming back to them in the sneakiest way possible... The only thing to do is to have short term fun with bar girls.. Take them for one or two nights and then never give them a second thought..

Yes that's the best way to do.
But the matter start to become a drama when the man come back to his country.
His routine,his asexual life for sure is one of the cause why some of them fall for bargirls.
It's like a huge power these bargirls have and if the guy doesn't keep his head..he is a future sponsor.

Believe me..as i've said on some of my messages,the situation where you meet plenty of nice,sexy,not expensive bargirls in Pattaya and you have to come back to the bleak,boring,complicated life back home,it's very disturbing and there is a personal fight to not become a sponsor or get emotionaly involved.

I hope i have to some point settle down this problem as i leave hopefully this time for good western women for Latin American women.
There i feel more protected as i shouldn't pass from the abundance of Thailand to a desert.