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newlifeinphilippines wrote:It doesn't matter cause if im not attracted to teh girl and shes not a 6.5 in my eyes then it doesn't matter what you think is a 6.5. What matters is what i think is
It doesn't matter if you layed hotter for one night or very short term were talking about girlfriends that last for months or years. The nurse girl who is educated and the hottest filipina ive gone on a date with is hotter than even steve55 girlfriend would have screwed me the other day (based on her texts after she went home) but i had a girlfriend and it screwed things up. and now I blew the whole thing due to my reaction after the date etc. and preferring the safe bet. But i dont think it would have lasted very long anyways. I want a hot girl that will last awhile.
sorry bro but your girl is not attractive. My girl has no makeup either ever and she is probably cuter than yours. if i posted my girl i bet most would think mine is hotter since she is lighter skin and looks younger and cuter than yours but she still isn't hot she is average range like yours. For a guy who has been there that long you should know better. Im sure she is a nice person and all but your an example of a foreigner that is too green to tell the difference.
and yes ive had hotter too like my bargirl girlfriend i had for 1.5 years and would have still had her if i had not cut her off she was hotter than winstons girlfriend. Id post her pics and videos she had sex appeal but was darker skin but still tons of sex appeal but since she work in bar i can' do that.
I blame will n dowd and a few others for hyping philippines up. It definitely is easier to get a woman here though.
i want a 7+ who isn't a hoe who loves sex and isn't a money hungry gold digger who will quickly dump me its very hard to find. I dont care if she is poor or uneducated cause i dont expect everything. Just someone I can trust who is a hot and has good chemistry. I dont see many foreigners with girls like that that aren't bargirls. maybe i should go back to hoes and bargirls or keep with low hanging fruit girlfriends if its that damn hard to find a hot 7+ long term girlfriend here. i can see why alot of foreigners go that route its a lot less hassle and much easier to find, which is why i been doing it.
NewLife, that is a low blow to put another man's girl down like that.(Just my opinion).
I think the purpose of this website is to educate guys on foreign girls and living abroad. I am not trying to pick on you but I don't think that you are adding much to this cause. I think that it is great that you are living abroad and making a good income but how about posting some trip reports? "Hey guys, I went to Boracay (or Moalboal) over the weekend. Check out my pictures" would be a good start.
I don't understand how you can debunk the allure of the Philippines while the majority of quality men do very well over there. I am not saying that the Philippines is paradise but finding a nice looking and sincere Filipina is not difficult.
Men chase, women choose
As long as you have gold in your hand, you will ALWAYS have bread on your table.
newlifeinphilippines wrote:It doesn't matter cause if im not attracted to teh girl and shes not a 6.5 in my eyes then it doesn't matter what you think is a 6.5. What matters is what i think is
It doesn't matter if you layed hotter for one night or very short term were talking about girlfriends that last for months or years. The nurse girl who is educated and the hottest filipina ive gone on a date with is hotter than even steve55 girlfriend would have screwed me the other day (based on her texts after she went home) but i had a girlfriend and it screwed things up. and now I blew the whole thing due to my reaction after the date etc. and preferring the safe bet. But i dont think it would have lasted very long anyways. I want a hot girl that will last awhile.
sorry bro but your girl is not attractive. My girl has no makeup either ever and she is probably cuter than yours. if i posted my girl i bet most would think mine is hotter since she is lighter skin and looks younger and cuter than yours but she still isn't hot she is average range like yours. For a guy who has been there that long you should know better. Im sure she is a nice person and all but your an example of a foreigner that is too green to tell the difference.
and yes ive had hotter too like my bargirl girlfriend i had for 1.5 years and would have still had her if i had not cut her off she was hotter than winstons girlfriend. Id post her pics and videos she had sex appeal but was darker skin but still tons of sex appeal but since she work in bar i can' do that.
I blame will n dowd and a few others for hyping philippines up. It definitely is easier to get a woman here though.
i want a 7+ who isn't a hoe who loves sex and isn't a money hungry gold digger who will quickly dump me its very hard to find. I dont care if she is poor or uneducated cause i dont expect everything. Just someone I can trust who is a hot and has good chemistry. I dont see many foreigners with girls like that that aren't bargirls. maybe i should go back to hoes and bargirls or keep with low hanging fruit girlfriends if its that damn hard to find a hot 7+ long term girlfriend here. i can see why alot of foreigners go that route its a lot less hassle and much easier to find, which is why i been doing it.
NewLife, that is a low blow to put another man's girl down like that.(Just my opinion).
I think the purpose of this website is to educate guys on foreign girls and living abroad. I am not trying to pick on you but I don't think that you are adding much to this cause. I think that it is great that you are living abroad and making a good income but how about posting some trip reports? "Hey guys, I went to Boracay (or Moalboal) over the weekend. Check out my pictures" would be a good start.
I don't understand how you can debunk the allure of the Philippines while the majority of quality men do very well over there. I am not saying that the Philippines is paradise but finding a nice looking and sincere Filipina is not difficult.
newlifeinphilippines wrote:It doesn't matter cause if im not attracted to teh girl and shes not a 6.5 in my eyes then it doesn't matter what you think is a 6.5. What matters is what i think is
It doesn't matter if you layed hotter for one night or very short term were talking about girlfriends that last for months or years. The nurse girl who is educated and the hottest filipina ive gone on a date with is hotter than even steve55 girlfriend would have screwed me the other day (based on her texts after she went home) but i had a girlfriend and it screwed things up. and now I blew the whole thing due to my reaction after the date etc. and preferring the safe bet. But i dont think it would have lasted very long anyways. I want a hot girl that will last awhile.
sorry bro but your girl is not attractive. My girl has no makeup either ever and she is probably cuter than yours. if i posted my girl i bet most would think mine is hotter since she is lighter skin and looks younger and cuter than yours but she still isn't hot she is average range like yours. For a guy who has been there that long you should know better. Im sure she is a nice person and all but your an example of a foreigner that is too green to tell the difference.
and yes ive had hotter too like my bargirl girlfriend i had for 1.5 years and would have still had her if i had not cut her off she was hotter than winstons girlfriend. Id post her pics and videos she had sex appeal but was darker skin but still tons of sex appeal but since she work in bar i can' do that.
I blame will n dowd and a few others for hyping philippines up. It definitely is easier to get a woman here though.
i want a 7+ who isn't a hoe who loves sex and isn't a money hungry gold digger who will quickly dump me its very hard to find. I dont care if she is poor or uneducated cause i dont expect everything. Just someone I can trust who is a hot and has good chemistry. I dont see many foreigners with girls like that that aren't bargirls. maybe i should go back to hoes and bargirls or keep with low hanging fruit girlfriends if its that damn hard to find a hot 7+ long term girlfriend here. i can see why alot of foreigners go that route its a lot less hassle and much easier to find, which is why i been doing it.
NewLife, that is a low blow to put another man's girl down like that.(Just my opinion).
I think the purpose of this website is to educate guys on foreign girls and living abroad. I am not trying to pick on you but I don't think that you are adding much to this cause. I think that it is great that you are living abroad and making a good income but how about posting some trip reports? "Hey guys, I went to Boracay (or Moalboal) over the weekend. Check out my pictures" would be a good start.
I don't understand how you can debunk the allure of the Philippines while the majority of quality men do very well over there. I am not saying that the Philippines is paradise but finding a nice looking and sincere Filipina is not difficult.
He wanted my opinion on looks of girls and he brags about the women he get so Im just giving my honest opinion. By the way the girl in your avatar is just hideous i dont even know why you put her pic on here.
Define sincere? A girl who doesn't want your money or to mooch off you endlessly? If thats your requirement good look finding one that isn't borderline average looking. I want hot though so ill settle on the poor issue as long as she is easy to get along and humble and good chemistry. Some guys demand educated and job but not me, my demand is looks and pesonal and sexual chemistry who i can trust. I dont want a educated girl who is gonna demand a lavish lifestyle or a demanding poor girl with an attitude for that matter either.
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newlifeinphilippines wrote:davewe is it because she wants you to keep her till her 2 year visa is in the mail? or because she is so ugly and know you can do better if you took a trip back to phil? Thought so....
There is no such thing as a two year Visa. If you are such a well traveled guy you would know that. Like most of your expert opinions, this one is not entirely factual. What I assume you mean is the two year permanent residency (Green Card) which she already has.
And we've been back to PI multiple times, including two months ago. Could I in theory find someone else in PI - of course. So can most guys. Any middle aged guy who follows guidance from guys like Pete can find a good one also.
You're unhappy with the gf you had in the Philippines - we ALL get that! Doesn't mean the rest of us are. The classy guy would congratulate the guy who had found success, not try to prove it was impossible.
you come off as a guy rubbing it in our face and on top of it promoting a website with a said agenda thats why.
I have been an HA member for years and like half the planet have a blog, which has been in existence for all of 3 weeks. Read it - don't read it - up to you.
There are many men right here on HA who have had success in the Philippines. There are thousands of more men who have never heard of HA with similar stories. We all get it - you didn't find that success and don't like the gf you found. You can choose to learn a bit from those who were successful or just reject the advise you have received. You're an adult and that's your choice. I got no problem with any of that. The Philippines is definitely not for everyone.
What seems to be not adult-like is to attack those who are happy and successful, acting as if that success is impossible, or worse yet attacking their wives or gfs.
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newlifeinphilippines wrote:davewe is it because she wants you to keep her till her 2 year visa is in the mail? or because she is so ugly and know you can do better if you took a trip back to phil? Thought so....
There is no such thing as a two year Visa. If you are such a well traveled guy you would know that. Like most of your expert opinions, this one is not entirely factual. What I assume you mean is the two year permanent residency (Green Card) which she already has.
And we've been back to PI multiple times, including two months ago. Could I in theory find someone else in PI - of course. So can most guys. Any middle aged guy who follows guidance from guys like Pete can find a good one also.
You're unhappy with the gf you had in the Philippines - we ALL get that! Doesn't mean the rest of us are. The classy guy would congratulate the guy who had found success, not try to prove it was impossible.
you come off as a guy rubbing it in our face and on top of it promoting a website with a said agenda thats why.
I have been an HA member for years and like half the planet have a blog, which has been in existence for all of 3 weeks. Read it - don't read it - up to you.
There are many men right here on HA who have had success in the Philippines. There are thousands of more men who have never heard of HA with similar stories. We all get it - you didn't find that success and don't like the gf you found. You can choose to learn a bit for those who were successful or just reject the advise you have received. You're an adult and that's your choice. I got no problem with any of that. The Philippines is definitely not for everyone.
What seems to be not adult-like is to attack those who are happy and successful, acting as if that success is impossible, or worse yet attacking their wives or gfs.
Your right. Im still right about the age/money issue though. But believe what you want. When im older I wont be as naive to think she is with me for legit reasons. Hell even when im younger they aren't with me for legit reasons.
"filipina women are not any different than american women".
That sounds ludicrous but are you rich in america? Youd get the same treatment by american women if you were but since everyone here is poor or middle class what do they know.
The difference is your rich to filipinas hence the royal treatment. thats where the confusion starts. Ive even had both girlfriends tell me they would never do this and that for their filipino boyfriend. In other words Im paying (direct or indirect) for the extra treatment LOL
Now some say oh the bargirls are even different than prostitutes back in america to prove they are really different women. Not really. Brothels are illegal in philippines which means prostitution has to happen offsite. Also filipina women know if they lure in a hook by giving a Girlfriend experience they might get a sucker for marriage or western union. American prostitute girls aren't that desperate. The offsite applciation of bargirls just enhances the notion that they are different. As a side note ive heard of a few stories of a few korean prostitute working in america new to the country who gave girlfriend experiences to SELECT customers and some eventualyl ran off with a rich client or utilized it to their benefit to get extra cash offsite. Not any different than what filipinas do. Ive even seen one guy cry about how he thought the korean prostitute liked him. Similiar to the bargirl tales in philippines LOL
He wanted my opinion on looks of girls and he brags about the women he get so Im just giving my honest opinion. By the way the girl in your avatar is just hideous i dont even know why you put her pic on here.
I don't recall ever asking for your opinion on my girl or anyone else's. I simply wanted you to provide a criteria for how you judge women (e.i your preferences). Attacking other people's women and comparing ours to yours is not at all what I meant. Worse yet you have failed to provide any pics of your girls or girls you find ideal or attractive shading yourself from criticism. It is easy to pick out faults with other people than it is to put yourself at the risk of possibly getting criticized. What you are doing is plain cowardly.
I also never brag about any of the girls I've been with, I simply state my opinion and experience. One chick that you don't find attractive (when in reality I stated that she is cute, yet isn't a supermodel and I've been with hotter girls), isn't discrediting my experience and by no means is bragging. What about the 5 or so other girls I've been close with or the numerous ones I'm friends with or that are married to friends of mine. I could provide numerous pics yet doing so is simply gonna leave us to where we are at now. One guy hiding behind his posts criticizing others yet offering nothing in return.
I also find it funny you brag about your bar girl being hot. A damn comatose patient could a get a hot bar girl with the right amount of cash. That doesn't impress me.
And the icing of the cake is attacking Array and the girl on his photo. Maybe that is his wife or girlfriend or possibly just a random chick. Let's keep this civilized shall we.
On that note I'm done with this post. It's just like beating a dead horse.
newlifeinphilippines wrote:It doesn't matter cause if im not attracted to teh girl and shes not a 6.5 in my eyes then it doesn't matter what you think is a 6.5. What matters is what i think is
It doesn't matter if you layed hotter for one night or very short term were talking about girlfriends that last for months or years. The nurse girl who is educated and the hottest filipina ive gone on a date with is hotter than even steve55 girlfriend would have screwed me the other day (based on her texts after she went home) but i had a girlfriend and it screwed things up. and now I blew the whole thing due to my reaction after the date etc. and preferring the safe bet. But i dont think it would have lasted very long anyways. I want a hot girl that will last awhile.
sorry bro but your girl is not attractive. My girl has no makeup either ever and she is probably cuter than yours. if i posted my girl i bet most would think mine is hotter since she is lighter skin and looks younger and cuter than yours but she still isn't hot she is average range like yours. For a guy who has been there that long you should know better. Im sure she is a nice person and all but your an example of a foreigner that is too green to tell the difference.
and yes ive had hotter too like my bargirl girlfriend i had for 1.5 years and would have still had her if i had not cut her off she was hotter than winstons girlfriend. Id post her pics and videos she had sex appeal but was darker skin but still tons of sex appeal but since she work in bar i can' do that.
I blame will n dowd and a few others for hyping philippines up. It definitely is easier to get a woman here though.
i want a 7+ who isn't a hoe who loves sex and isn't a money hungry gold digger who will quickly dump me its very hard to find. I dont care if she is poor or uneducated cause i dont expect everything. Just someone I can trust who is a hot and has good chemistry. I dont see many foreigners with girls like that that aren't bargirls. maybe i should go back to hoes and bargirls or keep with low hanging fruit girlfriends if its that damn hard to find a hot 7+ long term girlfriend here. i can see why alot of foreigners go that route its a lot less hassle and much easier to find, which is why i been doing it.
NewLife, that is a low blow to put another man's girl down like that.(Just my opinion).
I think the purpose of this website is to educate guys on foreign girls and living abroad. I am not trying to pick on you but I don't think that you are adding much to this cause. I think that it is great that you are living abroad and making a good income but how about posting some trip reports? "Hey guys, I went to Boracay (or Moalboal) over the weekend. Check out my pictures" would be a good start.
I don't understand how you can debunk the allure of the Philippines while the majority of quality men do very well over there. I am not saying that the Philippines is paradise but finding a nice looking and sincere Filipina is not difficult.
He wanted my opinion on looks of girls and he brags about the women he get so Im just giving my honest opinion. By the way the girl in your avatar is just hideous i dont even know why you put her pic on here.
Define sincere? A girl who doesn't want your money or to mooch off you endlessly? If thats your requirement good look finding one that isn't borderline average looking. I want hot though so ill settle on the poor issue as long as she is easy to get along and humble and good chemistry. Some guys demand educated and job but not me, my demand is looks and pesonal and sexual chemistry who i can trust. I dont want a educated girl who is gonna demand a lavish lifestyle or a demanding poor girl with an attitude for that matter either.
Wait a minute now. Didn't you describe yourself as ugly in another post but you have the nerve to call someone that I know personally as hideous? You are really delusional.
Yet you can't seem to figure out why girls don't want to meet you for the first time at your hotel.
Hammanta pretty much said everything that was needed to say. I will not respond to you again.
Men chase, women choose
As long as you have gold in your hand, you will ALWAYS have bread on your table.
newlifeinphilippines wrote: Thats why i went on the date with the nursing girl cause she was like hte only very attractive woman from months on the dating site who would talk to me consistently the rest were flakes that suddenly stopped talking.
Its easy to see why Filipinas don't want to talk to you, your a chronic complainer. No one else has difficulty dating Pinays, just you. Cebu is the easiest place in the world to get a date and you still manage to f**k it up.
newlifeinphilippines wrote:i edited that last part. guys here are not looking for tourist sites were looking for women so if your gonna wind up alone that proves the point LOL It seems like cold approaching is almost a necessity here if you want some decent hot women. if you rely on dating sites its a lot of frustration.
why are guys living here for years always alone if its so easy to ge ta hot woman? I know countless guys living here for years who are single. Some paradies....
newlifeinphilippines wrote: Thats why i went on the date with the nursing girl cause she was like hte only very attractive woman from months on the dating site who would talk to me consistently the rest were flakes that suddenly stopped talking.
Its easy to see why Filipinas don't want to talk to you, your a chronic complainer. No one else has difficulty dating Pinays, just you. Cebu is the easiest place in the world to get a date and you still manage to f**k it up.
Geez. Glad I skipped to the end. I was getting depressed back there on pages 2&3.
maverick wrote:To be fair, that list doesn't sound much different than the list to get girls in the US
hahah true, if one has to meet the same requirements and travel 10000 miles for some troll with bad hair, no waist, and an attitude, one might as well just stay here.
Everybody has a vast range of opinions; At the end of the day, the best thing is to actually visit and see for oneself.
Yeah for sure man. I'll be touching down in Phil in 2 weeks!
But it's crazy that people have such a wide range of experiences here.
I look forward to your report.
Apart from Steve, so far we have Newlife's and hammanta's depressive accounts, vs WillnDowd's off-the-charts successes...
That's to be expected. As Ladislav has mentioned many times on this forum, every individual will have a different experience in a particular country; you can't expect everyone to write the same thing about a country or have the same experiences all the time. It's UP TO YOU, to go to these countries and find-out--by yourself!
If that were true in principle, there would be no point on having the forum.
What I'm saying is Maverick has provided some context we could compare against. He's pulled in Isla Vista, as he has some looks, but is no super-model like WillnDowd. If he says, "yep, they're stuck up like back a home" we'll have some gauge as to what that means.
Instead we have Newlife and hamanta saying "my 6.173 is hotter than your 6.289. But even then, I could easily pull a 6.435", and then WnD says "this 10 gave me her first time within hours of meeting her, and I drove her crazy with my long schl*ng" LOL funny and depressing at the same time...
(note: I made those quotes up for effect)
1)Too much of one thing defeats the purpose.
2)Everybody is full of it. What's your hypocrisy?
Your right my personality is part of the issue but there isn't many quality pinays out there to begin with who show interest in foreigners. Its hard to find a quality just like it is in america. Why is philippines so special if it requires daygame or courtship and lots of luck?
No one said it was hard dating pinays taco. Of course you can get pinays. But most of the pinays you wind up are not worth hopping on the plane and spending the time and money for. Dating quality pinays is what is difficult. Also some of us are just pickier then you. I personally couldn't settle down with nurse girl who seems to love money more than anything in life and probably wouldn't be able to be controlled easily. Ala i known church girls who were quality but didn't care about moeny but were boring and condescending. My choice not to pursue said girls cause of personality issues.
newlifeinphilippines wrote:Your right my personality is part of the issue but there isn't many quality pinays out there to begin with who show interest in foreigners. Its hard to find a quality just like it is in america. Why is philippines so special if it requires daygame or courtship and lots of luck?
No one said it was hard dating pinays taco. Of course you can get pinays. But most of the pinays you wind up are not worth hopping on the plane and spending the time and money for. Dating quality pinays is what is difficult. Also some of us are just pickier then you. I personally couldn't settle down with nurse girl who seems to love money more than anything in life and probably wouldn't be able to be controlled easily. Ala i known church girls who were quality but didn't care about moeny but were boring and condescending. My choice not to pursue said girls cause of personality issues.
Most guys believe you need a tall, sexy, educated, career woman to make a relationship work, this is not true. When I was looking for a wife I avoided such women because they are usually the most dysfunctional, good at spending your money and not good at doing anything else. At SM mall you see lots of sexy promo girls all of them are still single, they can't cook and even worse they can't be trusted which makes them your enemy. Having sex with women that don't really like you is spiritually unfulfilling.
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newlifeinphilippines wrote:Your right my personality is part of the issue but there isn't many quality pinays out there to begin with who show interest in foreigners. Its hard to find a quality just like it is in america. Why is philippines so special if it requires daygame or courtship and lots of luck?
No one said it was hard dating pinays taco. Of course you can get pinays. But most of the pinays you wind up are not worth hopping on the plane and spending the time and money for. Dating quality pinays is what is difficult. Also some of us are just pickier then you. I personally couldn't settle down with nurse girl who seems to love money more than anything in life and probably wouldn't be able to be controlled easily. Ala i known church girls who were quality but didn't care about moeny but were boring and condescending. My choice not to pursue said girls cause of personality issues.
Most guys believe you need a tall, sexy, educated, career woman to make a relationship work, this is not true. When I was looking for a wife I avoided such women because they are usually the most dysfunctional, good at spending your money and not good at doing anything else. At SM mall you see lots of sexy promo girls all of them are still single, they can't cook and even worse they can't be trusted.
Yeah the nurse girl seemed pretty dysfunctional. I thought from our long chats online she was gonna be a decent woman but the more of her story i found out and how she acts she just seemed not that genuine. She was ready to jump with any foreigner even one who was playing around just for a ticket out it seems. And she loved money and fancy vacations etc. She even wasted my food at the restaraunt. I didn't even get her to hug me at the end of the date. Yeah she was jealous of my girlfriend but obviously she didn' fight for my attention she was still in love with her boy before so i kept my distance hoping she would give me signals. Anyways she was critical etc yes im an asshole and negative too but I was nice to her even made sure she got home safely far away to her house. Money blown for nothing. I went out with a college educated girl i knew from church but she wasn't in a hurry for love and seemed very naive and wanting things slow. Boring and actually quite condescending. She didn't want money but she was too aggressive on some things and too condescending and too conservative which is a strange combination to be so conservative on love yet aggressive in some ways.
Im not looking for a independant career minded woman. However Im not gonna jump on the plane again for average looking woman either or a hot one who doesn't like sex or has a bad attitude so Ill settle on the other part but not on looks and attitude and chemistry. My girlfriend is not average she is about a 5 to 6.2 depending on my mood lol.
