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This is an idea for Mercery, Mercury, and Mew.... and whatever other black pill poster whose name does or does not begin with an M.

If you really can't find a woman, why not get a young blind woman from overseas. You'd have to look for one who is a good match, the right religion, the right age, etc. A lot of the ones in this video are just girls, but some appear to be high school aged. It could be they turn 18 in school or right after graduating, and as such, would be legal for marriage:

[youtube]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rsptKyDnCKc&t=909s[/youtube]

Here in America, we have the ADA, so employers who are large enough have to make 'reasonable accommodations' for the handicapped. And people might say handicapped people can do whatever we can do, and stuff like that. We've got wheelchair ramps, buttons to open doors, signs allowing seeing eye dogs in stores.

But a lot of developing countries aren't like that. And in India, a lot of marriages are arranged. And I've heard people from various countries list good health as a criteria for a potential spouse So imagine you live in India and you are married and you have a daughter who is blind. Who is going to marry her? Will you have to care for her for life? Will she never know the joys of marriage or having children?

That's where you come in. You express an interest in meeting the blind daughter as a potential spouse. You could pick one of the prettier ones. If you aren't attractive, she won't know. If she's not from a rich family (and why is she going to a charity school if she is), who is going to choose her over a less attractive, but healthy wife.

You might have to eventually take your parents over there... maybe not. Maybe they will understand. But you throw a party and pay for the wedding, and arrange to have her stay with mom and dad after the Honeymoon while you wait out the Greencard or visa, or figure out a way to live in India.

You could have her wear sunglasses if her eyes are crossed and it freaks you out.

It looks like they teach the girls to cook naan bread and to do laundry. So she might have some skills. You might end up with an Indian cook in the house. If she's blind, though, she probably can't do certain things as well like shop and get around. You'd have to get one who speaks some English. Learning English is fairly common in India.

If you are ugly, she can't tell.

And if her eyes are the only thing wrong with her, then the rest of her body should be just as good as that of a sighted girl. Maybe being from a traditional culture, she might think her role is to obey her husband and provide him with sex and babies and all that. So you could get a traditional woman. She just couldn't do as much, not as easily as everyone else.

Think about it. She can't swipe left or right on Tinder because she's blind. She's from India, where the average annual income is said to be under $2400 a year, so if you make minimum wage, she and her parents will think you are rich when you negotiate out that you will marry her. She'll probably think she married a high status rich foreigner. That's probably high status for a poor blind Indian girl. If you are short, she might not realize it. She can feel you, but she probably hasn't been touching men on the top of the head to see how tall they are. You could even pick a short girl if you choose so you will be taller than her. And if she's a virgin, and you are a little small downstairs and you are self-conscious about it, how would she ever know? She hasn't seen porn for a comparison since she is blind.

Someone else here suggested getting introductions with girls from orphanages.

Lol WTF.. People are so desperate that they have to get a blind woman now?
Don't you know you have to take care of her by being her eyes all day and she can't cook and clean if she can't even see?
More of a massive disadvantage.

Studies show blind women care alot about looks,and blind people can feel the face and know if you''re ugly or handsome.

naieve thread.

Kalinago wrote: ↑

April 10th, 2023, 5:39 pm

Studies show blind women care alot about looks,and blind people can feel the face and know if you''re ugly or handsome.

naieve thread.

What study was this? I read in a psychology book that people tend to match up with partners that are equally good-looking to themselves. So they could match up with unattractive looking blind women. They should give up three or four points for being blind. So men who are 1s or 2s with micropenises might have a shot. Assuming the girls don't feel men's crotches they may not recognize that they are dealing with micropenises.

We are talking about men convinced tgere is zero chance of romance, dating, sex with a woman, etc. So while blind women my have some limitations, they can potentially provide warm hugs, female attention, and sex.

Some are highly functional and can cook like the girls in one of the videos. Don't move her ingredients around the pantry.

MrMan wrote: ↑

April 10th, 2023, 7:06 pm

Kalinago wrote: ↑

April 10th, 2023, 5:39 pm

Studies show blind women care alot about looks,and blind people can feel the face and know if you''re ugly or handsome.

naieve thread.

What study was this? I read in a psychology book that people tend to match up with partners that are equally good-looking to themselves. So they could match up with unattractive looking blind women. They should give up three or four points for being blind. So men who are 1s or 2s with micropenises might have a shot. Assuming the girls don't feel men's crotches they may not recognize that they are dealing with micropenises.

We are talking about men convinced tgere is zero chance of romance, dating, sex with a woman, etc. So while blind women my have some limitations, they can potentially provide warm hugs, female attention, and sex.

Some are highly functional and can cook like the girls in one of the videos. Don't move her ingredients around the pantry.

https://incels.is/threads/study-blind-w ... en.309458/

@MrMan ,if you're a christian getting a arranged marriage if you're in the normie range with a nice traditional brown indian chick may well be worth it by asking churches and pastors to help you etc

I don't think secular men have this option .

Maybe it is possible with bhili women.

most of these blackpillers have eurocentric beauty standards anyway and cannot see the beauty of a nice brown indian chick anyway,they want some white or east asian stacey.

most BPs are voluntary celibates.

also it would only work for white men,desi men and whiter hispanic and whiter middle eastern men .

india unfortunately is racist af towards blacks,and east asians etc

I personally have thought about this option a few times throughout the last 10 years though,I'm goodlooking with pale white skin and literally one shade darker than pale white 'yellow' on my face and arms,(though I'd tan easy there I'd still be lightskinned even with a tan)so I should have high smv there.

Most Blackpillers are in the normie range and have hypergamous standards in women,they want the type of women men inn the west will turn their heads for.

AKA a white,white latina,or east asian chick.

by hpergamous I mean status obssesed,I personally think Desi and african dark women are just as hot as anyone else when they are goodlooking,and like half of indian women are goodlooking lol

I think it's over for actual 2s and 1s but indian men of nthat looks range do get arranged marriages with decent women if they can provide.

I actually called a catholic orphanage in kerala back in 2016 to see if they arranged marriages(they only do so when they're 18 and might become homeless when they have to leave the orphanage),they were pretty helpful and directed me to the chancellor who's number didn't answer my calls.

the guy who was the head of one of the orphanages did say they do arrange marriages.

it was a catholic orphanage.

it is a good option for christians in anycase.

For secular Godless men it seems like the Bhili could be a option.

That said if you want a more eurocentric indian chick,then 33% of Punjabi sikhs have become christian in the last 13 years according to some statiticians.

BTW,Do not go to big cities in india for women,go for third tier and second tier cities,fourth tier if possible.

The South is way more conservative and traditional than the center and north by far.that is real wholesome indian culture.

Americanization and feminism,modernization has infected big city indian women like anywhere else.

AVOID big city indian women at all costs,avoid middle class at all costs,and if you're a christian go for religious women only.preferably second third,fourth tier cities and preferably the south.

this is how a goodlooking Pure 'Dravidian'Tamil girl looks like

@Lucas88 would you marry a indian chick ?They are of the complexion you love,and they tend to be very submissive and traditional if from the traditional areas(India is a heterogenous country in it's values and cultures)?

Maybe this is an option for many men,I already told @Tsar he could get a virgin wife from there but he has eurocentric beauty standard,so it likely won't work out for him.

I can't refer to scholarly articles on the subject but I knew not one, but three different blind girls. One of them had a host of other body problems as well as being totally blind and it would only unfair to put her in the mix.

Of the other two, one of them - let's call her Laura - was born premature and rendered blind by a medical error occurred while she was in the incubator. Saying she was hot was an understatement. By her sweet 19 she had an incredible body, made even incredible by the fact that she had never spent a day at the gym. She had a very pretty face, with eyes that, when open, would reveal her state but also a very beautiful deep blue/green tone. As she used to hang out with us wearing summer house clothes, we were constantly bombarded by the sight of a spectacular bubble butt, small and firm, inside her light cotton shorts or spandex pants, and spacious T-shirts that hid a rack of breasts which we could only fantasize about (left hand included!), but must have been at least a solid C.

We met her as a family friend at a summer holiday. She was 3 to 5 years older than most of us other kids and, every time we gathered around a football or a slice of pizza, she made up 50% of our conversations and maybe 90% of our sexual innuendo jokes.

Time went by and, fast forward at least a good 15 years, I saw two of the kids met on that particular summer, two brothers, now both grown-up men. Memories swiftly wound back to Laura and I asked what happened to her. I stupidly implied that, given her condition, she would not be considered exactly prime marriage material. They laughed me off and said she was actually quickly snapped up by a journalist from Turin, hailing from a rich family, whom she met at a party for blind people. I googled up his name and likeness and found a pretty handsome man, probably one who had everything in life.

Moral of the story #1: even if a girl is blind, others around her are not and can build sufficient self-esteeem and confidence in her, for her to become just as discerning as any other girl, or perhaps even more so because of the perceived "bravery" of conducting a life routine as a blind person. Whether, as she grew up as a woman and family and friends kept telling her how hot she was, she became a bitch or kept herself humble and nice, that would only be a matter or personality, not physical appearance or health status. I do not have that data point on her, unfortunately.

Moral of the story #2: blind or not, if a girl is hot and/or smart, and/or with a good personality, the scarcity of quality women we experience (in the West, at least) will inevitably tip the scale on her favour anyway. Like Laura, she will access a pool of men who will be more than happy to accept her status and giggle their way to the altar, at the thought that they found themselves a gem.

As for the India vs West argument, I think that kind of socio-economimc arbitrage is very valid in India and many other countries, including the Philippines, even if the girl is not blind. I don't think that kind of physical impairment would weight so much on the scale, making a pretty blind girl such an undesirable burden to her family, that they would be extra keen to marry her off.

Kalinago wrote: ↑

April 11th, 2023, 8:15 am

@Lucas88 would you marry a indian chick ?They are of the complexion you love,and they tend to be very submissive and traditional if from the traditional areas(India is a heterogenous country in it's values and cultures)

While I am able to appreciate the beauty of women of various races, I only see myself with a Latina. Latinas are my absolute favorite race of women. They are my passion! Moreover, I am very particular about culture. I have a special fascination for Hispanic culture. This fascination is so strong that I would only ever want to date somebody from that culture.

Some people might think that I'm narrow-minded for only dating Latinas but I just know what I want. I understand that the Latina phenotype appeals to me by far the most (Latinas drive me wild in ways that other races of women don't) and know that I only feel compatible with Mediterranean- and Latin-type cultures. So that naturally leaves me with Latin American women as my ideal type.

Remember that when you marry a woman you're also marrying into the culture. That's why it's better to limit dating options to girls of a culture that you comfortably mesh with. This is something that the "love knows no cultural boundaries" types don't seem to consider.

Lucas88 wrote: ↑

April 11th, 2023, 4:50 pm

Kalinago wrote: ↑

April 11th, 2023, 8:15 am

@Lucas88 would you marry a indian chick ?They are of the complexion you love,and they tend to be very submissive and traditional if from the traditional areas(India is a heterogenous country in it's values and cultures)

While I am able to appreciate the beauty of women of various races, I only see myself with a Latina. Latinas are my absolute favorite race of women. They are my passion! Moreover, I am very particular about culture. I have a special fascination for Hispanic culture. This fascination is so strong that I would only ever want to date somebody from that culture.

Some people might think that I'm narrow-minded for only dating Latinas but I just know what I want. I understand that the Latina phenotype appeals to me by far the most (Latinas drive me wild in ways that other races of women don't) and know that I only feel compatible with Mediterranean- and Latin-type cultures. So that naturally leaves me with Latin American women as my ideal type.

Remember that when you marry a woman you're also marrying into the culture. That's why it's better to limit dating options to girls of a culture that you comfortably mesh with. This is something that the "love knows no cultural boundaries" types don't seem to consider.

Okay,I see broski...

I guess my view is just clouded because of dealing with ghetto ricans here in the states lol

I guess I really gotta go vacation there sometime to get a feel from the actual culture.

When I hear the word'latina'I always think 'slut'or 'porn actress' unfortunately.

Is this unique to westernized latinas?

it also doesn't help I look hispanic and women of every race these days have a vendetta against their phenotypical counterpart....

As for indian culture,it is varied and it just has submissive traditional women in the villages and outside big cities,uncorrupted women if you will.

Indian women in the states wether ABD or FOB are shitheads.

https://www.henrymakow.com/amwericansar ... riage.html

US Man Chooses Arranged Marriage in India
February 16, 2012


indiawoman.jpegYou don't have to be Indian to have an arranged marriage there


"Arranged marriages are actually much more stable than the fleeting passion "love marriages" of the West. India has the world's lowest divorce rate, at around 1 percent."

(Editor's Note: Preferably Western men will find mates among women of the same background who are still in touch with their feminine instincts. The litmus test is that they are willing to cede leadership to their husband, who naturally consults them, but has the final word. Despite Illuminati brainwashing, plenty of these women still exist in the west and shouldn't be abandoned.)







By John Rambo
(by henrymakow.com)


I am a 28-year-old American man living in India, married to an Indian girl. It was an arranged marriage, arranged by her parents. It was definitely not a "love marriage", where a boy meets a girl and directly proposes to her and tries to "woo her".

Growing up in America, I did not have a very positive view of women. Sure, there were a few good girls, but mostly the women I knew were all whores, to put it bluntly.

One girl I remember, who was only 16, had sex with like 20 guys during a 3-month period. I lost all respect for American women and basically saw them as nothing but animals.

INDIA

Everything changed when I visited India. The women I met there were completely different. Real feminine women who weren't brainwashed by the man-hating feminist culture of the West. Indian women had qualities of gentleness, submissiveness, humility, and kindness.

My wife is 18. She is very feminine and graceful. She is very soft, humble, and meek. This feminine type of behavior naturally invokes a chivalrous attitude in me.

You see, it is the natural desire of men to act as the protectors of women. But when women act arrogant and independent and hateful, it turns the man off completely.

As a result, men in the West no longer want to support women, and just last week, we saw this in Australia. There was a flood, and a young woman was being swept away by the flood waters, and a bunch of men stood by and did not try to save her, but instead filmed her drowning on their mobile phones.

My wife cooks daily, cleans the house, and she never thinks that these tasks are "below her". Yes, we will have children after a couple of years probably.

Did I pay her parents? No, they are honest people and did not ask anything and I did not ask a dowry from them either. Now, I have met some Indian girls who did dare to ask for money, which I thought was very offensive.

How did I get the idea to do this? Well, I was looking to get married, because in India, you cannot have sex without marriage.

It's not like the West or other countries in Asia where you can have a girlfriend. Because India is still so traditional, the whole concept of marriage still applies.

Now, if I were living in Thailand, I would not marry, as I could get all of my needs met by any old "massage parlor."

So the more women give sex away, the less incentive there is for men to marry them. That is something western women should really think about.

How did I go about it? I met her parents, and they offered to marry their daughter to me, and so we arranged a marriage date and then did the wedding. Does she satisfy a need for companionship, yes I think so.

Is lack of education a factor? Well, I think lack of education is a good thing. Too much education for women turns them independent. The more educated a woman is, the less dependent she will be on a man.

Women in the West are so independent because they are way too "educated." Education is nothing but a disguised indoctrination.

Western women are getting PhDs in Psychology and other useless subjects, but they can't even cook a good meal. So I'd call that kind of education completely useless!

My wife is like a real woman, actually acts feminine. So I am quite satisfied.

As for my work, I am self employed and working through the internet and making quite good money for India, even by western standards. This allows me to live very nicely here.

MEETING INDIAN WOMEN

How to meet Indian women, being a westerner? That is not so easy, as Indian women are quite shy and are almost afraid of westerners. If you want to meet Indian women, I'd recommend that you learn about the culture and the religion of India.

Also, there is a HUGE difference between Indian women who live in India and Indian women who live in the West. Indian women who live in the West tend to get westernized extremely fast, and become even more westernized than western women.

So, I recommend that you AVOID Indian women in the West and try to meet Indian women who live in India.

How to do that practically? Well, I don't recommend that you go to India simply for this purpose. I'd recommend that you come here to learn about the culture and religion.

Spend some time there; it is a relaxing place. There are many yoga organizations and spiritual organizations you can join. That may be one way to meet girls.

Another way would be to work with some charity. In India, they also have marriage ads in the newspapers,but I personally have too much dignity for that.

Also, if you marry a woman from India or Asia, go and live in her country.

Arranged marriages are based more on concepts of duty and loyalty than western marriages. It's hard to explain, as the concept exists in a paradigm that is completely outside the western paradigm.

I was not previously married in America, and actually avoided women mostly by choice, so I was not leaving behind any bad relationships. I am an intelligent person and can understand things simply by seeing them, so I never had to go through the relationship meat grinder of America.

Did you know that one in four American women take medication for a mental disorder?

All in all, I recommend that western men check out India and other countries in Asia, and see how they like the culture. I think you will find that they are very relaxing and stress-free places compared to the West.

The atmosphere of India is the main reason why I like it so much.

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Note on Feminism

In the bigger cities like Delhi, Mumbai, Bangalore, etc, Western "culture" is catching on fast, through the television shows, movies, and internet. Many Indian men are now openly complaining about how Indian women are no longer "traditional" or make good wives.

Of course, most Indian women are still quite good, but there is a growing number of radical feminist types and ultra-westernized types in the big cities.

There is a huge anti-feminist movement in India, with an estimated 30,000 Indian men's rights activists. They are fighting against feminist laws in India such as 498a, which is a law that has been abused by many lying women

Kalinago wrote: ↑

April 11th, 2023, 4:57 pm

I guess my view is just clouded because of dealing with ghetto ricans here in the states lol

I guess I really gotta go vacation there sometime to get a feel from the actual culture.

When I hear the word'latina'I always think 'slut'or 'porn actress' unfortunately.

Is this unique to westernized latinas?

Many Latinas in Latin America are good girls - kind, sweet, feminine, loving, studious and with good values. The girls of that type who I met in Mexico and Peru and also among the Latin American diaspora population in Spain were a lot more innocent and normal than most Anglo women. They were nothing like the Nu-Yorican ghetto Latinas that you find in US cities.

Of course, Latin America is as complex a society as the US and has many different people groups and subcultures. In any Latin American country you can find Latinos who are very traditional and prim and proper, Latinos who are ghetto to the core, Latinos who are very provincial, Latinos who are modern and cosmopolitan, etc. The types of Latinas that you'll meet will largely depend on what circles you move around in.

Don't let stereotypes of US Latinas cloud your perception of actual Latin American Latinas. Go to one of the better parts of Latin America and see for yourself. Actual Latin American culture has a lot of good things and there are a lot of good people. Knowledge of Spanish helps a lot. It's indispensable for integration into the culture.

It would not have ocurred to me that some men think of porn when they hear the word Latina.

That is just an indication that they watch porn or maybe says something about the kind of porn they watch.

I saw s clip online of Bill Maher after Sarah Palin got nominated for VP. He starts talking about Sarah Palin looking like a librarian in porn. I had no idea this was a thing. Shortly therafter, I think, I turn on the TV and see this comedian in front of hubdreds or thousands talking about themes in porn in front of an audience of hundreds or thousands men or women, laughing at his comments. It struck me how people laughed like they related to his comments, weren't to ashamed to sit there, hear that, and laugh.

When I was a kid pirn existed but one had to ask the casier gor the mag behind the counter, a filter for kids snd a social filter for adults. Now it is a few clicks away and a source of corruption for the kids growing up.

When a man thinks of words like Latina, Asian, or whatever he should not think of scenes in porn.