kangarunner wrote: ↑March 12th, 2023, 4:05 pm
This guy gets it. I've been listening to this video and he literally says that not just women but men and everyone in the West has become degenerate. And then he literally admits on camera that happier abroad is real and the way to go. He says he'll be going to other countries for more traditional women.
He slept with three girls that weekend, and he meets this beautiful traditional woman, he waits two weeks to call her again, and she forgets him.... sounds like she really dodged a bullet on that one.
After I met the woman who would be my wife and we finally got ahold of each other again, I did say something about just being friends. But then, I called her constantly, and then took her out to dinner every night. She didn't pretend to be uninterested.
He also said you don't want to be like him, a degenerate, &^^ing three or four girls a week. When I was close to his age, I was married, having some kind of sexual experience with my wife about every 24 hours or so. I'd imagine most players can't have sex with three or four girls a week, either. Think of the effort, money, time, hours trying to mess with a girl's head just to have sex, having girls on some kind of rotation that he's waiting two weeks to contact so he doesn't seem thirsty, as opposed to going home, your wife has dinner ready for you, then sex. We didn't stay quite at that level, but still I got a supply of sex with my wife at my age.
I also married a virgin. A girl who had slept with another man wasn't in my consideration set. It's old research, but there was an article by Teachman in the Journal of Marriage and Family that showed that if a woman had slept with someone besides her husband... ever, she was more likely to experience 'marital disruption.' Girls who have slept around with other men are more likely to divorce you.
Married men also live longer. I've got kids, too, that are getting older. The Lord may bless with grandkids maybe in the next several years, too.
If a woman is interested, she is interested. What is the point of not calling her for a few days? To make her worry? To make her interested? If she's interested enough to fret over you not calling her back the next day, she probably isn't all that into you. If she is going to wonder why you didn't call, she'd probably appreciate a call the next day. You don't want to overwhelm someone you just met with dozens of texts if she isn't responding or something like that.
Neither one of us said everything we were thinking, but we we weren't trying to manipulate and use each other.