American girl's close minded views about international women

[buddy77]

Jp:

You mentioned that your wife thinks America is crazy...

In what way specifically? The politics? our crime rates? Please explain. Im interested in what a European foreigner honestly thinks of our country.

for example: My uncle who has lived in Peru for the past 26 years. Says that Americans are unfriendly and have no sense of community, in comparison to, Peru.

[***JP***]

Jp:

You mentioned that your wife thinks America is crazy...

In what way specifically? The politics? our crime rates? Please explain. Im interested in what a European foreigner honestly thinks of our country.

for example: My uncle who has lived in Peru for the past 26 years. Says that Americans are unfriendly and have no sense of community, in comparison to, Peru.

All the above you have mentioned. One of the things she always asks me is about why so many people in america have guns? Also she thinks that american mainstream is toxic and that people are too shallow and fakes.

[noog]

People in this country are just so closed minded when it comes to international dating...."she only wants a visa" "she's a scammer" "she's a gold digger" "be careful!" "you're going to get robbed!" "it will never work" "she's too far" "it's not realistic" "why don't you just find a good woman here?" "it's too expensive" "why would you fly 6000 miles just for a girl? There are plenty of good women here" "you can't handle us American girls" "you're not man enough to handle a strong woman like me"

You're not going to find a lot of Americans, let alone American women, who have found and accepted information to reject the stereotypes. Most women are in particular keen on the negative outcomes and it takes some personal experience for them to change their stance. The only female friend/family that understood what I was doing and didn't raise her eyebrow is someone who is a realtor and chamber of commerce member who has a lot of connections in the community. Odds are she probably has past clients/contacts who are or have immigrant wives and has seen that these relationships can work.

But for the most part, forget single women becoming enlightened, because the truth threatens their empire.

[marklambo]

People in this country are just so closed minded when it comes to international dating...."she only wants a visa" "she's a scammer" "she's a gold digger" "be careful!" "you're going to get robbed!" "it will never work" "she's too far" "it's not realistic" "why don't you just find a good woman here?" "it's too expensive" "why would you fly 6000 miles just for a girl? There are plenty of good women here" "you can't handle us American girls" "you're not man enough to handle a strong woman like me"

You're not going to find a lot of Americans, let alone American women, who have found and accepted information to reject the stereotypes. Most women are in particular keen on the negative outcomes and it takes some personal experience for them to change their stance. The only female friend/family that understood what I was doing and didn't raise her eyebrow is someone who is a realtor and chamber of commerce member who has a lot of connections in the community. Odds are she probably has past clients/contacts who are or have immigrant wives and has seen that these relationships can work.

But for the most part, forget single women becoming enlightened, because the truth threatens their empire.

That is why I never really discuss my plans with public people other than really close friends who actually understand the idea behind it all. It's just a waste of time to try to justify to other people. The majority of Americans tend to believe and think that the world revolves around America and it's so far from the truth. Those are the people that have never traveled or experienced anything other than just living here. As long as they remain this way, they will always remain closed minded, like the majority of Americans.

[DistanceRunner]

Jp:

You mentioned that your wife thinks America is crazy...

In what way specifically? The politics? our crime rates? Please explain. Im interested in what a European foreigner honestly thinks of our country.

for example: My uncle who has lived in Peru for the past 26 years. Says that Americans are unfriendly and have no sense of community, in comparison to, Peru.

All the above you have mentioned. One of the things she always asks me is about why so many people in america have guns? Also she thinks that american mainstream is toxic and that people are too shallow and fakes.

In bold - I really would like to know that myself. Due to my situation (college student), I know it's not possible for me to leave the US.

So I have to make the best out of what's here. Some advice would be great.

And your wife is right about our mainstream society being "toxic" and the people being shallow/fake.

[marklambo]

So last night I was out with some friends at the clubs and one of the chics that came with us in the group made a few close minded comments about international women/men. This conceited girl was saying that if she lost 10 lbs, she would be a "10" She was an attractive girl, probably an 8, maybe a 9 if she did lose the 10 lbs. But she wasn't "fat" or anything, but not super thin either. She had big tits and a big a** but everything seemed proportionate because of her height.

Anyways, my buddy mentioned out loud saying that I like girls from Russia (which is true). Then the first thing she said was "they only want a visa. If an Australian guy wanted to marry me, he would also just want a visa. That's all they want". I was going to say something because she's just so close minded and doesn't understand the reality of what these men or women from other countries want. She just made an uneducated assumption that every international man or woman would marry only for a visa. We ended up changing the conversation because I didn't even want to turn this into a bad night.

So anyways, we walked around and I met up with another group of girls that were waiting to meet up with me at the club. I stayed and mingled with them while my other group walked around. When I came back, my best friend told me that as I was gone, that conceited girl was saying how all Russian girls are easy. She was implying that American women are more reserved and of value. It's almost as if she was so jealous or angry at foreign women. Oh, and within just 15 minutes, she was already talking and flirting with a random guy in the club. Of course the guy she chose was very tall, in shape, and was considered very attractive for a male. She was also saying in the night about how all her friends are now married. She then comments "I don't know why they would do that, I'm never getting involved with that shit". I feel sorry for the mangina who marries or dates this c**t.

I can't stand it when you talk to people about international dating and the first thing they say is that the girl wants a visa. It's so untrue! Right now I'm talking to at least about 12+ girls. Girls from Belarus, Ukraine, and Russia and I've asked every single one of the girls where they would like to live. NONE of them said the USA. In fact, America is almost never in a conversation. Most didn't mind where they lived at the present moment, some said Western Europe, some just said a warmer climate but not one mentioned the USA. Women in Europe tend to like being in Europe and I don't blame them. I'm sick of people making assumptions that everyone wants to come here. Back in the day , many years ago when America was actually a decent place to live, I can understand people wanting to come here. Now it's a shithole and a lot of people know this, even international women.

People in this country are just so closed minded when it comes to international dating...."she only wants a visa" "she's a scammer" "she's a gold digger" "be careful!" "you're going to get robbed!" "it will never work" "she's too far" "it's not realistic" "why don't you just find a good woman here?" "it's too expensive" "why would you fly 6000 miles just for a girl? There are plenty of good women here" "you can't handle us American girls" "you're not man enough to handle a strong woman like me"

Well my wife is from Lithuania and she doesn't want to live in America at all not just because of family but she thinks American society is crazy. Which is why I'm the one who will be moving to Europe. It's a decision I don't regret at all because I felt completely at home in Lithuania and made excellent friends there compared to here where people are shallow and completely ignorant about the world outside of the matrix.

Your wife is a smart one. International women who have a brain will know that coming to America is a stupid idea. There are far better places in the world to live than here.

[Guyver]

OP, that blonde that was with your group sounds like the typical bonehead American woman that wreaks of ignorance about foreign women. I wonder how many Russian girls she has met? Probably zero so she is just speaking out of her ass. Personally, I would have just stayed as far away from her as possible, so I think you did the right thing.

[marklambo]

OP, that blonde that was with your group sounds like the typical bonehead American woman that wreaks of ignorance about foreign women. I wonder how many Russian girls she has met? Probably zero so she is just speaking out of her a**. Personally, I would have just stayed as far away from her as possible, so I think you did the right thing.

Yea, I did stay away from her. It was the first time I met her. She was a friend of one of my friends in the group. At one point during the night, she asked my best friend to buy her a drink. He said no. Then she asked again, she says "you're not going to buy me a drink?" Again, he said no. She just met us and already asking us to buy her drinks? f**k off! She's so used to manginas giving in and buying her shit. She didn't even try to ask me and if she did, I would have laughed in her face and told her to f**k off.

[***JP***]

OP, that blonde that was with your group sounds like the typical bonehead American woman that wreaks of ignorance about foreign women. I wonder how many Russian girls she has met? Probably zero so she is just speaking out of her a**. Personally, I would have just stayed as far away from her as possible, so I think you did the right thing.

Yea, I did stay away from her. It was the first time I met her. She was a friend of one of my friends in the group. At one point during the night, she asked my best friend to buy her a drink. He said no. Then she asked again, she says "you're not going to buy me a drink?" Again, he said no. She just met us and already asking us to buy her drinks? f**k off! She's so used to manginas giving in and buying her shit. She didn't even try to ask me and if she did, I would have laughed in her face and told her to f**k off.

This is the reason I just don't waste my time with AW. Also AW always run their mouths off when an American man dates a foreigner because deep down inside they know they lost. I'm not saying it causes a major dent on them but even the smallest dent on AW sure feels good cause it shows that not all men are gonna bow down to them.

[Teal Lantern]

Yea, I did stay away from her. It was the first time I met her. She was a friend of one of my friends in the group. At one point during the night, she asked my best friend to buy her a drink. He said no. Then she asked again, she says "you're not going to buy me a drink?" Again, he said no. She just met us and already asking us to buy her drinks? f**k off! She's so used to manginas giving in and buying her shit. She didn't even try to ask me and if she did, I would have laughed in her face and told her to f**k off.

The money you don't spend on them can go to your own enjoyment and investments.
You guys in your 20s~30s who don't fall for the B.S. are going to have so many options (yeah, I'm jealous ) over the next decade as you don't waste your cash buying drinks and other crap for slags who aren't giving you anything in return.

To borrow a metaphor -- between the Fonzies (bad boys) pumping and dumping them in their 20s and the would-have-been Ward Cleavers (ghosts/mgtows) refusing to pick up the pieces when they hit their 30s, there is going to a tsunami of former "hottie" single moms reduced to tricking for rent money.

[xiongmao]

Take your time in the dating market. Being single till I was 37 meant I was well on the way to an early retirement.

Life is short, but on the other hand it's longer than you think

[marklambo]

Yea, I did stay away from her. It was the first time I met her. She was a friend of one of my friends in the group. At one point during the night, she asked my best friend to buy her a drink. He said no. Then she asked again, she says "you're not going to buy me a drink?" Again, he said no. She just met us and already asking us to buy her drinks? f**k off! She's so used to manginas giving in and buying her shit. She didn't even try to ask me and if she did, I would have laughed in her face and told her to f**k off.

The money you don't spend on them can go to your own enjoyment and investments.
You guys in your 20s~30s who don't fall for the B.S. are going to have so many options (yeah, I'm jealous ) over the next decade as you don't waste your cash buying drinks and other crap for slags who aren't giving you anything in return.

To borrow a metaphor -- between the Fonzies (bad boys) pumping and dumping them in their 20s and the would-have-been Ward Cleavers (ghosts/mgtows) refusing to pick up the pieces when they hit their 30s, there is going to a tsunami of former "hottie" single moms reduced to tricking for rent money.

Excellent point and I have told many of my closest friends the same thing. The money you save from not dealing with AW, that extra money can definitely be used for more meaningful purposes. Some of it can also be applied to just travel abroad and date real women. Dating in America is an expense of it's own, and one that sometimes leads to nothing in return as you said. A dinner, movie, drinks, etc...can easily cost as much as $150 - $200+ a night. Go on 5+ dates a month and that's already $1k+ a month out the window. If you avoid dating AW, every 3-4 months you have an extra $3k-$4k to play with it. You'll be surprised how fast money adds up on those so called little dates.

[marklambo]

Take your time in the dating market. Being single till I was 37 meant I was well on the way to an early retirement.

Life is short, but on the other hand it's longer than you think

great point xiongmao. It's all about a balance. Don't rush it but at the same time, don't wait too long. Somewhere in between will get you places indeed.

[marklambo]

OP, that blonde that was with your group sounds like the typical bonehead American woman that wreaks of ignorance about foreign women. I wonder how many Russian girls she has met? Probably zero so she is just speaking out of her a**. Personally, I would have just stayed as far away from her as possible, so I think you did the right thing.

Yea, I did stay away from her. It was the first time I met her. She was a friend of one of my friends in the group. At one point during the night, she asked my best friend to buy her a drink. He said no. Then she asked again, she says "you're not going to buy me a drink?" Again, he said no. She just met us and already asking us to buy her drinks? f**k off! She's so used to manginas giving in and buying her shit. She didn't even try to ask me and if she did, I would have laughed in her face and told her to f**k off.

This is the reason I just don't waste my time with AW. Also AW always run their mouths off when an American man dates a foreigner because deep down inside they know they lost. I'm not saying it causes a major dent on them but even the smallest dent on AW sure feels good cause it shows that not all men are gonna bow down to them.

AW can never accept defeat. Like you said, deep down inside they know they lost but they will always try to cover it up by giving a smart ass negative comment. When a man does not bow to them, they are sometimes in shock and don't know how to react. When they do react, it's usually followed up with something like "you're an asshole" "you can't handle me, you're not man enough" and of course..... "are you gay?" Bitch, we're not gay, some men just don't see the value in associating with you. These women turn down guys on a daily basis but it's not ok to call her a dike. But the moment you reject her, you're automatically "gay".

[***JP***]

OP, that blonde that was with your group sounds like the typical bonehead American woman that wreaks of ignorance about foreign women. I wonder how many Russian girls she has met? Probably zero so she is just speaking out of her a**. Personally, I would have just stayed as far away from her as possible, so I think you did the right thing.

Yea, I did stay away from her. It was the first time I met her. She was a friend of one of my friends in the group. At one point during the night, she asked my best friend to buy her a drink. He said no. Then she asked again, she says "you're not going to buy me a drink?" Again, he said no. She just met us and already asking us to buy her drinks? f**k off! She's so used to manginas giving in and buying her shit. She didn't even try to ask me and if she did, I would have laughed in her face and told her to f**k off.

This is the reason I just don't waste my time with AW. Also AW always run their mouths off when an American man dates a foreigner because deep down inside they know they lost. I'm not saying it causes a major dent on them but even the smallest dent on AW sure feels good cause it shows that not all men are gonna bow down to them.

AW can never accept defeat. Like you said, deep down inside they know they lost but they will always try to cover it up by giving a smart a** negative comment. When a man does not bow to them, they are sometimes in shock and don't know how to react. When they do react, it's usually followed up with something like "you're an asshole" "you can't handle me, you're not man enough" and of course..... "are you gay?" Bitch, we're not gay, some men just don't see the value in associating with you. These women turn down guys on a daily basis but it's not ok to call her a dike. But the moment you reject her, you're automatically "gay".

I've gotten a lot of satisfaction when rejecting AW. They always have this look on their face of I can't believe you rejected me and you are right about their smartass comments but it's still a good feeling when you see the shocked look on their face cause they are so used to average and even ugly guys always going for them but when one rejects them it's a shocker to them.