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I have tried using smart phone dating apps in the past.

I am not going to specify which dating app I was using at that time to find a girlfriend.

I went ahead and downloaded that app onto my smart phone, made my profile, and started to receive certain number of female profiles each day. I would either "x" the girl out if I did not like her or hit the "like" button if I liked her. Then the girl had to like me back in order for me to start sending text messages with her.

When I first started out with this dating app, boy, did I receive sooooo many likes. I had to keep a spread sheet in order to keep track of the women I was conversing with, because in the past, I got confused with texting various different girls, and made one mistake of addressing a girl with a different name...which turned her off, and she ignored my text messages from there on out.

To make a long story short, I have been using this dating app for about two months. This was earlier this year. It was so funny. After meeting these girls for one date, the girls would slowly "ghost" out on me, or I would be the one who would keep sending text messages to the girl. I eventually told myself "The hell with the girl if she is not the one initiating the text messages."

All the girls I had met on that dating app.....turned out to be duds.

I also blame racism and the media here in the US for shrinking my range of females I could be with to have a girlfriend. This is why the US really does suck (and the Seattle area too.....dating in this city sucks soooo bad!), and the only good aspect of the US are job opportunities and education. That's it!

Let me guess, you took them out for ____place where you spent money on them. And then they ghosted you, because they already got what they wanted from you: free meals, free drinks, free Baskin Robbins ice cream, or whatever it was.

OR...you didn't ever spend a dime on them (in which case you have my applause). And then they ghosted you, because they weren't getting what they wanted from you.

Don't you see that these chicks aren't using dating apps for the same reasons that men do, i.e. actual romance. They are doing it for:
1. Your money,
2. Your attention, or
3. Some other kind of utility

This is not about racism or the media. Well, it is a little, but to a negligible extent.

You see, none of those chicks ever cared for you. And that's not because of anything wrong with you. It's because they belong to a gender incapable of caring for the other.

I don't even think it's racism. I think it is just the way the culture is.

Horahngee wrote: ↑

November 5th, 2018, 10:49 pm

It was so funny. After meeting these girls for one date, the girls would slowly "ghost" out on me, or I would be the one who would keep sending text messages to the girl. I eventually told myself "The hell with the girl if she is not the one initiating the text messages."

All the girls I had met on that dating app.....turned out to be duds.

I also blame racism and the media here in the US for shrinking my range of females I could be with to have a girlfriend. This is why the US really does suck (and the Seattle area too.....dating in this city sucks soooo bad!), and the only good aspect of the US are job opportunities and education. That's it!

Lol @ "ghosting"... obviously something is wrong with you. See below.



If you want to date international women (and be rejected) just move to NYC

I'm in NYC right now. Tell me where those international single women are.

Lol, you don't know where to find international single women in NYC? Okay, first step should be to address your autism. But that is another thread. international women in NYC are everywhere!!! just load up facebook and search social events, hit up some language schools or just do what I did https://bit.ly/2zB8Egk

If you're so successful in NYC, then why are you in Kyiv using escorts?

Brave, unconcerned, mocking, violent–thus wisdom wants us: she is a woman, and loves only a warrior.

Horahngee wrote: ↑

November 5th, 2018, 10:49 pm

All the girls I had met on that dating app.....turned out to be duds.

I also blame racism and the media here in the US for shrinking my range of females I could be with to have a girlfriend. This is why the US really does suck (and the Seattle area too.....dating in this city sucks soooo bad!), and the only good aspect of the US are job opportunities and education. That's it!

Sorry to hear about this Horahngee. Too bad, I'd thought it used to be rumored Seattle was generally better dating for asian american guys. (while decent looking abc-women luck out in the U.S. in general, so good for them) I guess everywhere sucks now.