What US cultural traits made you drop out?

[E Irizarry R&B Singer]

These are the following U.S. cultural traits in modern America that made me "drop out":

1.) American culture is very workaholic. There is no work-life balance due to cut throat competition, high-cost of living, too much materialism and consumption. And when compared to other developed or industrialized countries, U.S. workplaces on average only offer 1-2 weeks vacation time vs. 6 weeks or more in many European nations.

2.) American is also cliquish and business-like socially. Most social groups in America consist of locals who usually don't talk to strangers except for business purposes or when asking directions. Which makes it difficult to make friends, let alone find a date/spouse. The U.S. is rated among one of the loneliest countries in the world.

3.) American culture is very anti-intellectual. There is a lack of curiosity or novelty about anything dealing with geography, world history/current events, conspiracies, foreign cultures, foreign languages, science/technology, philosophy, etc. Also, American society tends to look down on anyone who are deep thinkers or truth seekers with above average intelligence (an I.Q. above 120 or more) in which such people are called "conspiracy theorists", "weird", "nerds" and "geeks" and as with "nice guys", they tend to finish last in the dating/marriage scene.

4.) Radical Feminism, extreme liberalism, misandry (hatred of heterosexual men), gynocentric (everything centers around females at the expense of males), political correctness, and the homosexual (LBGT) agenda that has ruined traditional gender roles, traditional marriage/family, male-female relationships, and the political/legal system.

5.) Obsession with race.

6.) American culture's/media's obsession with popularity, sports, celebrates, "fluff", consumerism, business news/investments, political parties, etc.

7.) Above all, America culture is too much about CONFORMITY and thinking "outside the box" is not really encouraged.

Don't take this the wrong way, Black dude, but do you have a URL/link for proof of how the U.S. of Gay is one of the loneliest countries on contemporary planet Earth?

[E Irizarry R&B Singer]

The dog-eat-dog mentality. Every place has this, but in the U.S. it's practically worshiped, as if destroying humanity for material gain is the point to life. (Which, for Americans, it is.)

The never-ending puerile sarcasm. You can't do anything - from giving a compliment to asking a question - without some a** making a snippy comment. I used to play this game, but I realized that even if you best someone at wits, it never end.

I was browsing a facebook group tonight and someone had posted a picture of their new puppy. This one guy had commented on the picture and said "She's a real dish". I responded to his comment and said "This isn't Korea :p" and he responded by insulting my looks. WTF? I had simply made clever light hearted joke and he had to be an azzhole about it. I really hate how Americans brand of humor is being a smartazz and putting people down.

I understand how they go for that "1-up on ya BS", and it annoys me most of the time. However, you had asked for his BS rhetoric when you had premeditatedly injected with yours. I'm merely stating the facts. You should have taken it with a grain of salt by being thick-skinned about it. Some other cultures make fun of looks too, especially if you have an unkempt, frumpy look about yourself. You should already know that most Americans are megalomaniacs and "sociopathetic"/social-paths; the Internet forums in N. America are playgrounds for unfettered narcissism and social justice.

[IraqVet2003]

These are the following U.S. cultural traits in modern America that made me "drop out":

1.) American culture is very workaholic. There is no work-life balance due to cut throat competition, high-cost of living, too much materialism and consumption. And when compared to other developed or industrialized countries, U.S. workplaces on average only offer 1-2 weeks vacation time vs. 6 weeks or more in many European nations.

2.) American is also cliquish and business-like socially. Most social groups in America consist of locals who usually don't talk to strangers except for business purposes or when asking directions. Which makes it difficult to make friends, let alone find a date/spouse. The U.S. is rated among one of the loneliest countries in the world.

3.) American culture is very anti-intellectual. There is a lack of curiosity or novelty about anything dealing with geography, world history/current events, conspiracies, foreign cultures, foreign languages, science/technology, philosophy, etc. Also, American society tends to look down on anyone who are deep thinkers or truth seekers with above average intelligence (an I.Q. above 120 or more) in which such people are called "conspiracy theorists", "weird", "nerds" and "geeks" and as with "nice guys", they tend to finish last in the dating/marriage scene.

4.) Radical Feminism, extreme liberalism, misandry (hatred of heterosexual men), gynocentric (everything centers around females at the expense of males), political correctness, and the homosexual (LBGT) agenda that has ruined traditional gender roles, traditional marriage/family, male-female relationships, and the political/legal system.

5.) Obsession with race.

6.) American culture's/media's obsession with popularity, sports, celebrates, "fluff", consumerism, business news/investments, political parties, etc.

7.) Above all, America culture is too much about CONFORMITY and thinking "outside the box" is not really encouraged.

Don't take this the wrong way, Black dude, but do you have a URL/link for proof of how the U.S. of Gay is one of the loneliest countries on contemporary planet Earth?

Yes I do E. Irizarry. Here are the following links:

"AMERICA IS THE LONELIEST COUNTRY IN THE WORLD- IS IT BECAUSE WE'VE ABANDONED THE TRADITIONAL FAMILY STRUCTURE?"
http://www.infowars.com/america-is-the- ... -structure

"AMERICA IS THE LONELIEST COUNTRY IN THE WORLD"
http://www.endoftheamericandream.com/ar ... -structure

"AMERICA IS THE LONELIEST COUNTRY IN THE WORLD"
http://www.happierabroad.com/forum/view ... hp?t=21044

"TOP TEN LONELIEST COUNTRIES IN THE WORLD"
http://www.peimag.com/top-10-loneliest- ... e-world/10

1.) Sweden

2.) United Kingdom

3.) Japan

4.) Italy

5.) United States of America ( 28% of all households in the U.S. consist of a single person living alone)

6.) Canada

7.) Russia

8.) South Africa

9.) Kenya

10.) Brazil

[Ghost]

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[bostero]

Wow, I guess that I won't have to elaborate after all! You guys already covered all the reasons that had prompted me to come here to rant about it.

For me, the worst things are the culture of extreme selfishness, the whacko politics (particularly the crazy, angry gun stuff and the "SJW" left), the political correctness; and more than anything else, I can't stand the constant obsession over the bullshit "race"categories that don't even apply in the rest of the world.

The craziest thing is how even those types of Yanks who should know better (educated, traveled, or poor descendants of immigrants who live in heavily multi-cultural neighborhoods) often are the worst offenders with the basic cultural ignorance- and yet the hypocrites blame it all on working-class people or Anglos, as if they were any different!

The place is such a sad wasteland. I was so grateful to find this forum, I swear. At least here I know that I'm not just being critical, and that it's not all in my imagination. Thanks, guys!

[HouseMD]

Consumerism, mostly. I'm not a fan of rampant commercialism and spending to keep up with the Joneses.

[Moretorque]

Consumerism, mostly. I'm not a fan of rampant commercialism and spending to keep up with the Joneses.

The debt based monetary system is causing a lot of this......

[drealm]

The phoniness is what bothers me most. I would rather people yell at me then politely stab me in the back.

[fightforlove]

Apathy over the socially tepid atmosphere and general cultural blandness. Where do men meet women in the United States?? I studied a male-dominated field and have worked at 2 small companies with mostly older male coworkers. I've never had the opportunity to meet young women period, let alone attractive ones.

I got tired of the mediocre attitudes and social pressures, pressuring people to become... mediocre. I got tired of working hard, at my schooling, at my job, following my religion, only to have nothing in return via dating/romance/companionship. I got tired of the BS and decided to open my search abroad. There is something very socially dysfunctional about the USA. People are getting married later, granted, so there's really no new sure-fire ways to meet women past college age. The rising obesity rates, the rise of the baby momma generation, the rise of feminism and consumerism, have all depleted the pool of desirable, wife-able women in this country. Add in the anti-social age of the internet and the decline of religion/church circles and I think we're at an all-time low for being able to meet people organically, be able to have an organic relationship arise.

Anyways, it's a brave new world, so we all have to get creative. I have a passion for travel, to learn about some other cultures, I'm a rebellious and creative guy, seeking adventure like any normal masculine individual. I would still be open to American women if I were not attached, but it sure is a shit show in this country these days.

[livingthedream]

The following is what made me drop out from living in the USA which I now live in Thailand:

1. The American culture is a culture of stupidity, violence, and sorcery culminating in the most evil country to ever exist courtesy of the Jews.

2. The American people are the biggest bunch of backwards low IQ morons to ever exist in world history. From the dummy who rides around on his Harley thinking he's cool to the blue and pink haired freaks to the fat hillbilly slobs to cut throat lawyers and to the disgusting Jews, the USA is the biggest loser country in world history.

3. That fact that I was gang stalked by Jews for ever 3 years 24 hours per day 7 days a week with help from the FBI.

4. The fact that Obama is a faggot and his wife is a man and that the entire Congress and Senate are Freemason pedophiles who not only molest little boys but also take part in killing them and drinking their blood with the Passover bread every year.

5. The fact that the Jews have taught the woman to hate men and have imported 20 men to every women from every country in the world so that there are now so many men to women that it's virtually impossible to find a women if you're a man.

6. The fact that the Jews have perverted the entire society into violence, perversion, hate, division, misery and drugs and have completely 100% destroyed the entire country to the point now where it's all over with and the people are so stupid they have no clue about it.

7. The fact that the Jews have millions of coffins ready around their Jew FEMA camps ready to put to death all the good people of the world right within the USA, the USA is mystery Babylon and Revelation 18:24 takes place within the USA.

In case anybody doesn't truly understand the USA is by far the worst country to ever exist in world history. And after the Jews put to death all the good people of the world within the country both Russia and China will Nuke the USA and destroy it in one hour......thank God for that.....

Death to the USA, death to Israel.....

[Yohan]

"TOP TEN LONELIEST COUNTRIES IN THE WORLD"
http://www.peimag.com/top-10-loneliest- ... e-world/10

1.) Sweden

2.) United Kingdom

3.) Japan

4.) Italy

5.) United States of America ( 28% of all households in the U.S. consist of a single person living alone)

6.) Canada

7.) Russia

8.) South Africa

9.) Kenya

10.) Brazil

This list is somehow misleading, it would be interesting to know how many countries were investigated, and it is more about 'living in a single household', not really about 'feeling lonely'.

For example here in Japan many Japanese are living alone in a small room, but are totally obsessed with going out, parties, clubs, dining, group travels etc.
They are often not really lonely.

There is nothing mentioned about various Muslim countries, there are many complaints by young people regarding gender separation and how to make contact with others. etc.

[Eric]

The following is what made me drop out from living in the USA which I now live in Thailand:

1. The American culture is a culture of stupidity, violence, and sorcery culminating in the most evil country to ever exist courtesy of the Jews.

2. The American people are the biggest bunch of backwards low IQ morons to ever exist in world history. From the dummy who rides around on his Harley thinking he's cool to the blue and pink haired freaks to the fat hillbilly slobs to cut throat lawyers and to the disgusting Jews, the USA is the biggest loser country in world history.

3. That fact that I was gang stalked by Jews for ever 3 years 24 hours per day 7 days a week with help from the FBI.

4. The fact that Obama is a faggot and his wife is a man and that the entire Congress and Senate are Freemason pedophiles who not only molest little boys but also take part in killing them and drinking their blood with the Passover bread every year.

5. The fact that the Jews have taught the woman to hate men and have imported 20 men to every women from every country in the world so that there are now so many men to women that it's virtually impossible to find a women if you're a man.

6. The fact that the Jews have perverted the entire society into violence, perversion, hate, division, misery and drugs and have completely 100% destroyed the entire country to the point now where it's all over with and the people are so stupid they have no clue about it.

7. The fact that the Jews have millions of coffins ready around their Jew FEMA camps ready to put to death all the good people of the world right within the USA, the USA is mystery Babylon and Revelation 18:24 takes place within the USA.

In case anybody doesn't truly understand the USA is by far the worst country to ever exist in world history. And after the Jews put to death all the good people of the world within the country both Russia and China will Nuke the USA and destroy it in one hour......thank God for that.....

Death to the USA, death to Israel.....

The terrible shame is that the only thing you can really do here IS make money. But Youre so depressed, you have no incentive to go out and make money. Life is not worth living here - every day. I just sit barely surviving in a state of apathy and depression. Motivation is everything.... it sucks. I want to make lots of money so that I can gtfo of here. Sometimes, I doubt even what I know about, this place - what people are saying here. I know it's true, in my mind, but - I still doubt it... Idk why. I hate that! It's so bad here, you want to make it sound good - as a way to cope, so that confuses everything. It's really bad here. I can't believe some people have acclimated to it and adapted and, hardly see the state of it. It's a form of insanity imo, or extreme self-denial to the maximum.
I want to save lots and get out of here, so that I can finally decide.
THere is no motivation to get a bigshot job. Or like this guy's 30,000 buck job. What the hell is he doing anyway? I'd like to know. It's not fair. ... I'm starting my own business here - but no way I'd pull that much. I wonder what you're doing?
You get back what you put in. I'm jealous you're over there having the time of your life, man.

They make you feel bad here, if you feel bad about anything - the pressure and shame is put back on you, as a form of social control it is, making you conform. That's all the USA is become, mass conformity. They make you feel miserable and like it's your fault, like its in your head or something - when you know it's not, when you don't feel like going out. This place makes you mad second guess yourself. Don't get crazy and tell yourself you're mad, that you're wrong or everything's fine. Just hang on and stay tied to sanity. This place tries to make you crazy doubt yourself. That's why everybody ends up feeling crazy, here.

[Adama]

The following is what made me drop out from living in the USA which I now live in Thailand:

1. The American culture is a culture of stupidity, violence, and sorcery culminating in the most evil country to ever exist courtesy of the Jews.

2. The American people are the biggest bunch of backwards low IQ morons to ever exist in world history. From the dummy who rides around on his Harley thinking he's cool to the blue and pink haired freaks to the fat hillbilly slobs to cut throat lawyers and to the disgusting Jews, the USA is the biggest loser country in world history.

3. That fact that I was gang stalked by Jews for ever 3 years 24 hours per day 7 days a week with help from the FBI.

4. The fact that Obama is a faggot and his wife is a man and that the entire Congress and Senate are Freemason pedophiles who not only molest little boys but also take part in killing them and drinking their blood with the Passover bread every year.

5. The fact that the Jews have taught the woman to hate men and have imported 20 men to every women from every country in the world so that there are now so many men to women that it's virtually impossible to find a women if you're a man.

6. The fact that the Jews have perverted the entire society into violence, perversion, hate, division, misery and drugs and have completely 100% destroyed the entire country to the point now where it's all over with and the people are so stupid they have no clue about it.

7. The fact that the Jews have millions of coffins ready around their Jew FEMA camps ready to put to death all the good people of the world right within the USA, the USA is mystery Babylon and Revelation 18:24 takes place within the USA.

In case anybody doesn't truly understand the USA is by far the worst country to ever exist in world history. And after the Jews put to death all the good people of the world within the country both Russia and China will Nuke the USA and destroy it in one hour......thank God for that.....

Death to the USA, death to Israel.....

The only part I have a problem with is the nukes. If they really had nukes, they would have used them more often than only on the Japanese. I think it is just another scam really. They can fire bomb American cities, like they did to Dresden and Berlin.

By the way, I would make your #3 your #1. Maybe they aren't in order of importance. I'd like to read more details that you can provide as well, because this seems extremely interesting.

Isn't it sad how everyone is pointing their fingers at the same people? And they have literally been at this for thousands of years. You should watch Das Ewige Juden (The Eternal Jew) with English subtitles. The same things they are doing today, they have been practicing on the European and some of the Middle Eastern peoples for hundreds of years. It is only that this time Rothschild was able to build an international empire and purchase every government that makes them invincible today. If it were not for this phantom monetary system, they could not have gotten nearly as far.

Also every hard truth they teach from birth onward is a lie, and often the opposite of what they teach is true.

[Adama]

Apathy over the socially tepid atmosphere and general cultural blandness. Where do men meet women in the United States?? I studied a male-dominated field and have worked at 2 small companies with mostly older male coworkers. I've never had the opportunity to meet young women period, let alone attractive ones.

I got tired of the mediocre attitudes and social pressures, pressuring people to become... mediocre. I got tired of working hard, at my schooling, at my job, following my religion, only to have nothing in return via dating/romance/companionship. I got tired of the BS and decided to open my search abroad. There is something very socially dysfunctional about the USA. People are getting married later, granted, so there's really no new sure-fire ways to meet women past college age. The rising obesity rates, the rise of the baby momma generation, the rise of feminism and consumerism, have all depleted the pool of desirable, wife-able women in this country. Add in the anti-social age of the internet and the decline of religion/church circles and I think we're at an all-time low for being able to meet people organically, be able to have an organic relationship arise.

Anyways, it's a brave new world, so we all have to get creative. I have a passion for travel, to learn about some other cultures, I'm a rebellious and creative guy, seeking adventure like any normal masculine individual. I would still be open to American women if I were not attached, but it sure is a shit show in this country these days.

Well don't worry about working in a male dominated environment. I have worked with women for years. Most of the women in the work place are not attractive. The majority are the career women who must work because they didn't bother to get married or they are greedy and psychologically unfit (working all the time to pay for the big house that the only get to sleep in but rarely get to enjoy). Most of the women are over 40 or even over 50, yet they still work full time. Of the ones who are in their 20s and 30s, most of them are not that pretty. Of the ones who are pretty, many have boyfriends. Of the young ones who are pretty and don't have boyfriends, often it is because they are either hardcore whores or they have attitude problems (the chip on their shoulders). Not to mention the not so remote possibility of being accused of sexual harassment by some witch, having your social reputation ruined at work, having rumors, slander and lies spread about you by this former love interest you had, and having the scorned witch try to get you fired. Women at work is the worst idea.

The only way to meet women in the USA is through random chance. That's it. Online dating is faulty because of the quality of AWs in general and especially the bottom of the barrel type quality of many women online. Also, using a social circle seems ideal, but many social circles don't have an ample supply of women, and also sometimes because of jealousy, even if there were women in the social circle, other men and some women may make attempts to "block" any other man who wants to use the circle as a means to obtain a relationship. Your friends often are not even truly your friends but are stabbing you in the back, often, to prevent your success. How nice is that? Or the unattractive women who secretly want you, but who know you don't want them, may be more than willing to sabotage any chances you might have with another woman. Just because whores think that by eliminating all of the competition leaves them as the logical choice, even if that woman is married or already involved with a man.

Then there are the women who just like to flirt for fun. They will lead you on for weeks or months, only to say they are unavailable for a relationship when you finally talk to them. They love leading men on for ego boosts. They don't see how similar this is to the man who uses women for ONS and never talks to them again (but in fact, they may be earning such things by psychologically abusing men).

Many women are pure psycho. You really have to weigh them thoroughly.

All of this evil that women commit can't be seen with the eyes, and the USA is a women-first country. So people do not even want to acknowledge that many people are just plain socially evil and wicked.

The good news is that you can get random women who you meet in random situations. After school is over, this is the only way I can think of. Even when you finally get the girl though, some if not all of her "friends" will instantly become your enemies and start to whisper in her ears against you, even making up all kinds of lies and exaggerations of the truth. If she listens to friends like that, fortunately she will leave on her own, and you'll be free. Either she will have to ignore those friends (hopefully even liberate herself from them for the sake of the relationship) or she will dump you.

As much as I like women, their capacity for evil is massive.

[fightforlove]

Apathy over the socially tepid atmosphere and general cultural blandness. Where do men meet women in the United States?? I studied a male-dominated field and have worked at 2 small companies with mostly older male coworkers. I've never had the opportunity to meet young women period, let alone attractive ones.

I got tired of the mediocre attitudes and social pressures, pressuring people to become... mediocre. I got tired of working hard, at my schooling, at my job, following my religion, only to have nothing in return via dating/romance/companionship. I got tired of the BS and decided to open my search abroad. There is something very socially dysfunctional about the USA. People are getting married later, granted, so there's really no new sure-fire ways to meet women past college age. The rising obesity rates, the rise of the baby momma generation, the rise of feminism and consumerism, have all depleted the pool of desirable, wife-able women in this country. Add in the anti-social age of the internet and the decline of religion/church circles and I think we're at an all-time low for being able to meet people organically, be able to have an organic relationship arise.

Anyways, it's a brave new world, so we all have to get creative. I have a passion for travel, to learn about some other cultures, I'm a rebellious and creative guy, seeking adventure like any normal masculine individual. I would still be open to American women if I were not attached, but it sure is a shit show in this country these days.

Well don't worry about working in a male dominated environment. I have worked with women for years. Most of the women in the work place are not attractive. The majority are the career women who must work because they didn't bother to get married or they are greedy and psychologically unfit (working all the time to pay for the big house that the only get to sleep in but rarely get to enjoy). Most of the women are over 40 or even over 50, yet they still work full time. Of the ones who are in their 20s and 30s, most of them are not that pretty. Of the ones who are pretty, many have boyfriends. Of the young ones who are pretty and don't have boyfriends, often it is because they are either hardcore whores or they have attitude problems (the chip on their shoulders). Not to mention the not so remote possibility of being accused of sexual harassment by some witch, having your social reputation ruined at work, having rumors, slander and lies spread about you by this former love interest you had, and having the scorned witch try to get you fired. Women at work is the worst idea.

The only way to meet women in the USA is through random chance. That's it. Online dating is faulty because of the quality of AWs in general and especially the bottom of the barrel type quality of many women online. Also, using a social circle seems ideal, but many social circles don't have an ample supply of women, and also sometimes because of jealousy, even if there were women in the social circle, other men and some women may make attempts to "block" any other man who wants to use the circle as a means to obtain a relationship. Your friends often are not even truly your friends but are stabbing you in the back, often, to prevent your success. How nice is that? Or the unattractive women who secretly want you, but who know you don't want them, may be more than willing to sabotage any chances you might have with another woman. Just because whores think that by eliminating all of the competition leaves them as the logical choice, even if that woman is married or already involved with a man.

Then there are the women who just like to flirt for fun. They will lead you on for weeks or months, only to say they are unavailable for a relationship when you finally talk to them. They love leading men on for ego boosts. They don't see how similar this is to the man who uses women for ONS and never talks to them again (but in fact, they may be earning such things by psychologically abusing men).

Many women are pure psycho. You really have to weigh them thoroughly.

All of this evil that women commit can't be seen with the eyes, and the USA is a women-first country. So people do not even want to acknowledge that many people are just plain socially evil and wicked.

The good news is that you can get random women who you meet in random situations. After school is over, this is the only way I can think of. Even when you finally get the girl though, some if not all of her "friends" will instantly become your enemies and start to whisper in her ears against you, even making up all kinds of lies and exaggerations of the truth. If she listens to friends like that, fortunately she will leave on her own, and you'll be free. Either she will have to ignore those friends (hopefully even liberate herself from them for the sake of the relationship) or she will dump you.

As much as I like women, their capacity for evil is massive.

I am also well aware of women's capacity for evil. I (for once) met an attractive looking girl at work last year, made a move and asked her out to a lunch date, only to find out she was a complete hood rat. Insulted me twice on the date, had that empty-eyed soulless slut look to her. She was only 26, started telling me about how she used to go out a lot but doesn't know because "I guess I'm old now". How do people get this way? That was enough for me.

I've just always been at a great disadvantage in life because of my field of study and workplace. I've had to find social circles outside of church via church and creative activities. If you can find a decent church that's close to your demographic, you can at least find some male peers, but it's not a place to find a supply of available, dateable females. I've mostly had to use Online Dating, which is, well, Online Dating. I met my current girlfriend online, but the local women were not impressive and the effort to put into it far outweighs the returned satisfaction. I just wish there were more ways to meet available women in America past college undergrad age. My job has been a major roadblock to social life and the lifestyle in general that I desire. I've thought about even taking several months off to just travel, maybe find a mobile income side hustle, while I just go out and socialize and do more of the things I've wanted to do: meet more people, live/visit cool areas, travel, strengthen my Spanish, play guitar, etc. I'm into my 30s now though, so I have a conflicting desire to be more stable as well, not to mention the social pressures from family, etc to "settle down". STEM jobs have got to be the absolute WORST for trapping a man into an anti-social matrix that literally blocks you from becoming more interesting and finding opportunities to meet people of the opposite sex.