Incompatibilities with Dianne, are they irreconcilable?

anamericaninbangkok · August 13th, 2013, 4:40 pm

As soon as she displayed the signs of greed and being materialistic, her ass would have been out the door.

But Winston broke one of the golden rules - do not get emotionally involved with a bar girl.

ladislav · Post by **ladislav** » August 13th, 2013, 4:42 pm

Amerikaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaano! Amerikaaaaaaaaaaaaaano!

Give me this life!

zboy1 · Post by **zboy1** » August 13th, 2013, 5:10 pm

anamericaninbangkok wrote:As soon as she displayed the signs of greed and being materialistic, her a** would have been out the door.

But Winston broke one of the golden rules - do not get emotionally involved with a bar girl.

Any sensible, moral and upright male would never go out with a bar girl, let alone, marry a bar girl in any capacity. You're just asking for trouble if you do...

AnonymousAmerican · Post by **AnonymousAmerican** » August 13th, 2013, 5:28 pm

zboy1 wrote:
anamericaninbangkok wrote:As soon as she displayed the signs of greed and being materialistic, her a** would have been out the door.

But Winston broke one of the golden rules - do not get emotionally involved with a bar girl.
Any sensible, moral and upright male would never go out with a bar girl, let alone, marry a bar girl in any capacity. You're just asking for trouble if you do...

your best quote zboy.

ladislav · Post by **ladislav** » August 13th, 2013, 6:32 pm

She was not a bar girl. Was it ever mentioned by anyone that she was?

Hero · Post by **Hero** » August 13th, 2013, 7:11 pm

Winston doesn't seem to be a good judge of character. Not only did he misjudge Diane, he even says that Hitler was nice guy.

Teal Lantern · Post by **Teal Lantern** » August 13th, 2013, 7:20 pm

ladislav wrote:No wonder when I show up in the countryside, the people look at me with eyes filled with wonder and I can read their lips mouth-- A-ME-RI-CA-NO! the way worshippers utter the name of some deity.

You're going back, one day, right?

Jester · Post by **Jester** » August 13th, 2013, 7:34 pm

Hero wrote:Winston doesn't seem to be a good judge of character. Not only did he misjudge Diane, he even says that Hitler was nice guy.

LOL

Good one

Jester · Post by **Jester** » August 13th, 2013, 7:35 pm

Teal Lantern wrote:
ladislav wrote:No wonder when I show up in the countryside, the people look at me with eyes filled with wonder and I can read their lips mouth-- A-ME-RI-CA-NO! the way worshippers utter the name of some deity.
You're going back, one day, right?

Now see THIS is what i come to HA for!

RedMenace · Post by **RedMenace** » August 13th, 2013, 7:41 pm

You clearly made a big mistake Winston. The moment you have kids with a woman without thorough examination of their personality you're in trouble. You clearly haven't since you are now discovering how materialistic she is. Also the fact that she works in a bar is a dead give away. I would rather go for an inexperience girl who i can mold into a wife that someone who is infected with materialism and has probably been with many men. Now there is an eternal link between you and her. Safe to say it's far too late to bail brah. Don't make the mistake of bringing her to America because you would be jumping from the frying pan into the fire.

Also she is NOT! going to change her personality if you don't make her. When she over reacts wait till she calms down then sit her ass down and tell her things she could have done instead of over reacting. Be the man and lead. I don't care if people call me a dictator in a relationship but I will be the man and she will follow. Damn feminism is emasculating men around the world. Being a man is about being the leader in a relationship. Don't fall for her bullshit materialistic tendencies. When she acts up just put your foot down and explain to her your damn situation. Reward and punish when necessary. She will see you as weak if you bend to her demands and not confront them when they arise. See many western women don't treat their local men like they do to foreigners. Because many foreigners will take all sorts of bullsh*t just to get some p*ssy. If you want a good foreign wife you have to start confronting these bullsh*t behaviours.