Interracial Relationships in the United States

[pandabear]

I just noticed that Dr. Howard had a point

http://losinger.altervista.org/document ... dicine.pdf

(you may have to click where it says "qui" to view the article).

I looked at some of the black-on-white porn, and some of those black sausages are incredibly GINORMOUS! He couldn't even stick it half-way into a white woman's hooch. If that's what the ladies want, then white guys don't stand half a chance.

[SilverEnergy]

It's common knowledge that the United States is behind Europe in terms of interracial dating.

[YourHusband]

It's common knowledge that the United States is behind Europe in terms of interracial dating.

Lol are you stupid, interracial dating in coastal areas of the US is more accepted than anywhere in Europe. Also, it's not usually race in and if itself, but rather attraction, as many minority men are just not good looking. for example, mlost asian men would be considered ugly in Europe and have trouble finding dates.

[IraqVet2003]

I think telling a foreign woman how interracial relationships and children are treated in the U.S. could be a good way convincing her to stay out of it and not even wanting to go there.

I agree! Interracial relationships are still frowned-upon, somewhat in the USA, whereas in Europe, they're very common. The USA is a very racially-polarized country--and anyone who says it's not a racist country, needs to have their heads examined.

I think branding the USA as a "racist" country gets it off of the stupidity hook too easily. The USA is NOW made up of people who are intellectually deficient in a variety of ways. Ladislav brilliantly explored how American education produces very skilled specialists in every field who have little to no knowledge of things like literature, languages, social sciences, philosophy, geography, history and so on. We see this dumbed-down America all the time now, especially with things like Icebucket Challanges, Black Friday stampedes, new iPhone hysteria, demands for taxpayer-paid birth control, scary STD rates, and I could go on and on and on.

Racism is simply the "collectivist mindset" among less-fortunate and less-talented Americans. Gunnar Myrdal who wrote the seminal work "The American Dilemma," correctly pointed out that racial obsession is most pronounced at the bottom of the social totem poles, regardless of race or ethnicity. I view it as a self-identifying mechanism wherein when someone expresses this thinking, he marks himself as a member of the bottom-dwelling social misfits, or at least he has origins there. I then can treat him accordingly. Americans worth my time and effort are well beyond such thinking, but these types are fewer and farther between these days.

Collectivism (or racism if you must) is simply one of the ways American intellectual deficiency manifests itself. So when we brand the USA "racist" we really should see racism as a symptom of the deeper problem of "idiocracy in progress." I encourage all to see the movie "Idiocracy" if you want to see the not-too distant future of this now benighted country.

I happen to agree with this assessment 100%!!!! Because Europe (which embraces intellectual thinking and culture) in most areas is far more racially open-minded, socially inclusive, and having more novelty towards strangers than in the U.S. This is especially true in the U.K., France, Germany, Denmark, the Netherlands, Italy, etc. In contrast, America despite having the U.S. Supreme court in 1967 (almost 50yrs. ago) struck down state Anti-Miscegenation laws as unconstitutional in the case of "Loving vs. Virginia", today only 14% of all marriages in the U.S. are between Black men and women of other races. With 7% of Black men intermarrying with white women and the other 7% are with Hispanic (4%), or other races of women (3%). While Black women are even less likely to marry outside their race with only 6% having a non-black spouse (4% to white men, 1% Hispanic men, 1% of other men) according to http://www.blackdemographics.com/househ ... ck-America. As for interracial marriages between whites and other racial groups like Asians, Hispanics, Native Americans, etc. I don't have the figures for those unions but I suspect they are at a much higher percentage and way more accepted in American society than between blacks and whites. Unfortunately there is still a double standard and a strong racial bias against such unions in America. All of which is due to this nation's long and ugly history of chattel slavery, the infamous "One-drop" rule, the black codes, the lynching and/or castration of black men, "sun down" towns, redlining of neighborhoods, voter suppression, white supremacist terrorist groups (like the Ku Klux Klan), de jure segregation (by law), and anti-miscegenation laws. So if black American men had any successful interracial relations without much racial prejudice or violence it was in EUROPE. It was not unheard of that the few black artist, writers, intellectuals, and musicians, etc. as well as G.I.s (as shown in the movie "Red Tails"-WW II) had love affairs and children with white European women (particularly French, German, Dutch, and Italian ladies) which is still true into the present day.

Personally, I could care less what race and/or nationality someone wants to love, date, or marry. I'm very much open to dating and/or marrying interracially and internationally provided that the foreign woman (is attractive looking and feminine) is accepting of being with an American black man. Also, I think that two consenting adults should be able to make their own decisions on how to live their lives regardless of what society or the family thinks of interracial unions. People (particulary men) have a right to pursue happiness and life is just too short to be feeling all lonely and miserable!!! The few things that should matter is an individual's character (not being domineering/abusive/manipulative) , that they take good care of themselves (not over weight/not obese), who are not "gold diggers", no tattoos/body piercings etc. But, I do believe interracial marriages/relationships in the U.S. are likely to do better in some parts of the country than others such as places like Alaska, Hawaii (especially Honolulu) , Seattle, Portland, Las Vegas, parts of Southern California (like L.A. and San Diego), NYC, South Florida (like Tampa and Miami), etc. Not to mention on military posts/bases, on the many college campuses, and most of towns near them were the environment it is more racially diverse. As opposed to the Southern and Midwestern states like Mississippi, Missouri, Iowa, Texas, both Carolinas, Georgia, etc. Along with many suburban areas of cities all across the U.S. such as Chicago, Kansas City, and Atlanta that have de facto segregation.

But knowing all of this I would say if anyone wants to pursue interracial relationships and marriages in my opinion it should be done OUTSIDE the U.S.!! Particularly now given the racial tensions in this country due to the police brutality and shootings of unarmed black men, the protests and race riots in cities (such as Ferguson, Baltimore, Milwaukee), the George Soros funded "Black Lives Matter" movement, and the racial hatred of the nation's first black president Barack Obama (although I didn't agree with some of his policies). Other than Winston's "Happier Abroad" E-book, I highly recommend for any black male H.A. members to get Steve Love's book entitled, "Best Countries For Black Men" as logging onto the website http://www.expatkings.com.

[sentinel89]

Collectivism (or racism if you must) is simply one of the ways American intellectual deficiency manifests itself. So when we brand the USA "racist" we really should see racism as a symptom of the deeper problem of "idiocracy in progress." I encourage all to see the movie "Idiocracy" if you want to see the not-too distant future of this now benighted country.

Or it may just have something to do with the fact that blacks and Hispanics have a far higher predisposition to violent crime than whites do.. To give you an example, New York City would be as safe as Belgium if it were all white.

[pandabear]

Or it may just have something to do with the fact that blacks and Hispanics have a far higher predisposition to violent crime than whites do.. To give you an example, New York City would be as safe as Belgium if it were all white.

Belgium was overrun by the Krauts twice during the 20th century. Making Belgium safe required emasculating the Jerries.

[Blue Murder]

Anyone who thinks interracial dating isn't a thing in America needs to visit NYC or California (the latter of which I just got back from visiting). They are mixing and matching all colours in them places. Some Baskin Robbins type shit.

[chanta76]

Pandabear,

Do you have penis envy? I mean I can understand if it's sex or one night stand? but NOT marriage.

But if you look at the stats there are 219 Asian men married to white women
vs..390 black men married to white women. Even though there are more black men married to white women there are asian men marrying to white females.

It seems like everyone likes to point the penis stereotype as if that is be all end all of everything.

People who traveled around Asia and spent time with Asian culture can tell you why Asian women are valued more so than let say black American women. The culture plays a BIG part. A traditional attractive black woman who is educated with decent moral would have no trouble attracting a white or asian man. But the black culture is well very different.

The biggest problem with black people is black culture and I know this will sound offensive and racist but that's what's holding them back.

Right now American culture is becoming too permissive and ghetto like. (yes this will offend black people) but that;s partly why black men are popular because American culture became so degraded. I hate to say it but black culture is kind of low quality and yes that will sound racist . Look at the music and what's popular. That;s why white girls go for black men. Not all just some.

But even with all that there are asian men getting white girls. and there are white men getting with black female. a growing number of black female and white men are happening.

[E Irizarry R&B Singer]

....But if you look at the stats there are 219 Asian men married to white women
vs..390 black men married to white women. Even though there are more black men married to white women there are asian men marrying to white females......

So agreed.

The biggest problem with black people is black culture and I know this will sound offensive and racist but that's what's holding them back.

Right now American culture is becoming too permissive and ghetto like. (yes this will offend black people) but that;s partly why black men are popular because American culture became so degraded. I hate to say it but black culture is kind of low quality and yes that will sound racist . Look at the music and what's popular. That;s why white girls go for black men. Not all just some.

But even with all that there are asian men getting white girls. and there are white men getting with black female. a growing number of black female and white men are happening.

+infinity! (Agreed to the 100th pOwer). It doesnt sound racist just because it comes from a non-Black. The truth is truth.

[Blue Murder]

Chanta is correct. I'm personally on guard whenever a white/non-black chick says she prefers black men. Not the ones who are simply open to dating them; the ones who FOCUS ON them. THOSE are the ones to watch out for.

[Moretorque]

....But if you look at the stats there are 219 Asian men married to white women
vs..390 black men married to white women. Even though there are more black men married to white women there are asian men marrying to white females......

So agreed.

The biggest problem with black people is black culture and I know this will sound offensive and racist but that's what's holding them back.

Right now American culture is becoming too permissive and ghetto like. (yes this will offend black people) but that;s partly why black men are popular because American culture became so degraded. I hate to say it but black culture is kind of low quality and yes that will sound racist . Look at the music and what's popular. That;s why white girls go for black men. Not all just some.

But even with all that there are asian men getting white girls. and there are white men getting with black female. a growing number of black female and white men are happening.

+infinity! (Agreed to the 100th pOwer). It doesnt sound racist just because it comes from a non-Black. The truth is truth.

Also he forgot to mention part of the benefit is the big hog!..............

[The_Adventurer]

Culture is created and promoted by media. Blacks don't own any media.

Drugs come from far away lands on planes and ships. Blacks don't own any planes or ships.

[chanta76]

adventurer ,

The greatest SIN that you could say that slavery did to black folks in America is demise of black true identity and black true culture. I'm Korean so I can trace back my roots. Even though South Korea is becoming more and more westernize and I kind see why you would say media plays a role in it but I wouldn't totally agree that its only the media. Culture starts with FAMILY. You learn your culture from your family first than your community and whatever afterwards.

But slavery pretty much distorted black family followed by social economics policy that created the broken black family. I know non-blacks will get sick of hearing black lives matter and maybe not understand it. But it's because just like with Asian lives matters or native American lives matters ..people who were not white had less value. And I do agree the media in this case played a role by marginalizing non-white people.

But yes media does play a BIG role. HollyWood is the BIGGEST propaganda that is force feeding the decadence of the west but it's also social economics that also changed .

[Kradmelder]

adventurer ,

The greatest SIN that you could say that slavery did to black folks in America is demise of black true identity and black true culture. I'm Korean so I can trace back my roots. Even though South Korea is becoming more and more westernize and I kind see why you would say media plays a role in it but I wouldn't totally agree that its only the media. Culture starts with FAMILY. You learn your culture from your family first than your community and whatever afterwards.

But slavery pretty much distorted black family followed by social economics policy that created the broken black family. I know non-blacks will get sick of hearing black lives matter and maybe not understand it. But it's because just like with Asian lives matters or native American lives matters ..people who were not white had less value. And I do agree the media in this case played a role by marginalizing non-white people.

But yes media does play a BIG role. HollyWood is the BIGGEST propaganda that is force feeding the decadence of the west but it's also social economics that also changed .

So it is blame it on whitey? Blame slavery. Whites never 'took' slaves. Blacks sold black slaves. Blacks also took white slaves if whites were ship wrecked.

Look at africa; those blacks who were never taken as slaves remained in primitive abject conditions where life means nothing. Can't blame whitey that they never invented the wheel and remained prehistoric (no written language). They never developed further because they cannot due to their own limitations.

Jews were slaves in Egypt. they didn't become failures and blame it on slavery. Whites were taken to america as indentured servants. slaves. They made something of themselves. Chinese were brought as slaves to work on the railways. They grew beyond that. Every immigrant group made something of themselves. Not blacks. They continue as they have in africa: to do nothing and having a predilection to thievery. Slavery has not only been only a black thing. Every race had it. Only blacks blame their failure on it.

You could counter argue that the best thing that happened to blacks was to be taken as slaves, because then their descendants now have a chance at economic prosperity. They have largely failed at that, except for a few.

[chanta76]

Actually if blacks were left alone in africa they have their right to self actualization.

Whose to say that primitive culture can have its own merit vs modernization. I mean blacks had their own way of life for 1000 of years .

I think for white racist one of the biggest regret was to bring in black folks. Now you cant get rid of them because all they know is american culture. Black americans see america ad thier home.

If blacks had a stronger connection and identity with africa they woild go back but they dont.