Happier Abroad Forum Community

Think about this, the United States is the easiest country in the world for women to meet men and for women to get dates, boyfriends and sex. On the other hand, the US is the worst country in the world for men to meet women, get dates, get girlfriends and get sex.

On the flip side, the Philippines is the easiest country in the world for men to meet women, get dates, get girlfriends and get sex. I believe it was Ladislav who said, no guy in the Philippines goes more than one week without a girlfriend. Now in America, it takes guys years to get a girlfriend and maybe even years to get a date!

America truly is a sex and dating prison for men. For women, America is a sex and dating paradise.

Same in Canada.
The last time I got some here was in 2012 with a 9/10 then 26 year old Taiwanese nurse I met at the ESL conversation club I volunteered at.

Italy is not much easier. Unless you're a top 10% in looks and know how to look good on social media, there is not much of a chance to date for fun.

Truth be told it is still relatively possible to find a half-decent woman when she's in her late twenties and itching for marriage + kids. How easy a relationship with said woman can be, that's a different matter.

Philippines is a good place for easy sex for local men, too. With the insane number of gays and ladyboys around, there are relatively few studdy, horny kantot makina (s*x machines) compared to the young women.

jamesbond wrote: ↑

February 17th, 2022, 1:44 pm

Think about this, the United States is the easiest country in the world for women to meet men and for women to get dates, boyfriends and sex. On the other hand, the US is the worst country in the world for men to meet women, get dates, get girlfriends and get sex.

The only problem with this assertion is that a man is saying it. For it to be accurate, we would have to hear what American women say from their perspective. And women don't do cross-cultural comparisons of the dating market.

publicduende wrote: ↑

February 17th, 2022, 5:28 pm

Italy is not much easier. Unless you're a top 10% in looks and know how to look good on social media, there is not much of a chance to date for fun.

Truth be told it is still relatively possible to find a half-decent woman when she's in her late twenties and itching for marriage + kids. How easy a relationship with said woman can be, that's a different matter.....

Not only USA, Canada and Italy..... in my native country (Austria EU) it is very difficult, even impossible to find a relatively normal and friendly nice local girl. I never met one while I was still living there, a terrible place for dating if you are a young man.
It's likely even worse now with a huge number of immigrants, who are mostly young men from somewhere.

The only difference I found between USA/UK and Continental Europe is that people in Europe are less hateful to each other and in case your relationship breaks down you will never end up like in the States, living in a car and sent even to jail if you cannot pay child support.
Continental Europe in general is not based on the English language and not based on British law, and this makes maybe somehow a difference.

When I moved away from Europe, I found easily contact to young females directly and in some countries where dating is not the usual way to go I met various men and women who were willing to introduce females to me for marriage - like girls from their neighborhood, or sisters, or classmates, or some females working in the same company, etc.) - In Asian countries often introduction plays a major role and nobody will make fun out of you if you ask people next to you for help to look for a female partner.

Out of my experience so far I can say, it is not that difficult if you are a man from Europe and willing to look for a foreign wife, if race, language and religion means nothing to you.

However you will face other issues, like enough time to look around in foreign countries, travel expenses, visa, working permit, health insurance, job with sufficient payment, language, longstay requirements etc. in case you decide to relocate.

kangarunner wrote: ↑

February 17th, 2022, 9:13 pm

jamesbond wrote: ↑

February 17th, 2022, 1:44 pm

Think about this, the United States is the easiest country in the world for women to meet men and for women to get dates, boyfriends and sex. On the other hand, the US is the worst country in the world for men to meet women, get dates, get girlfriends and get sex.

The only problem with this assertion is that a man is saying it. For it to be accurate, we would have to hear what American women say from their perspective. And women don't do cross-cultural comparisons of the dating market.

The thing is, when it comes to online dating, the average woman in the US gets between 50 and 100 guys sending her messages everyday! This doesn't take into account how much women get hit if they have social media (Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, etc.).

This also does not include how much women get hit when they go to bars and clubs. Some women even get hit on when they are at a grocery store or book store.

Contrast this to men who are lucky to get a girlfriend (or even a date) every few years!

I would love to see an American woman move to the Philippines and see how she fares when it comes to dating and getting a boyfriend.

I have also heard that American women who move to Japan and Germany have a difficult time meeting men and getting dates.

jamesbond wrote: ↑

February 23rd, 2022, 12:32 pm

I would love to see an American woman move to the Philippines and see how she fares when it comes to dating and getting a boyfriend.

I have also heard that American women who move to Japan and Germany have a difficult time meeting men and getting dates.

It's 100% impossible for any American women to date or marry any native man in countries such as Colombia, Thailand, Vietnam, Philippines. The reason is that the native women are a true feminine women while American women have completely lost theirs. They lost it a long time ago. When it comes down to it, any native man in those countries would not put up with an American woman's unwillingness to be feminine, their entitlement, their attitude problems, and plus most are not as good looking as native women.

In this video, one of the women even admits that the native women are more feminine...

kangarunner wrote: ↑

February 23rd, 2022, 3:56 pm

It's 100% impossible for any American women to date or marry any native man in countries such as Colombia, Thailand, Vietnam, Philippines. The reason is that the native women are a true feminine women while American women have completely lost theirs. They lost it a long time ago. When it comes down to it, any native man in those countries would not put up with an American woman's unwillingness to be feminine, their entitlement, their attitude problems, and plus most are not as good looking as native women.

In this video, one of the women even admits that the native women are more feminine...

I can't speak for all the countries you mentioned but, as far as Philippines and Colombia is concerned, there is the odd foreign woman who ends up marrying a local man. It's usually single young women who move there as English teachers, volunteers in charities, sometimes as doctors and businesswomen.

Whether said local men end up regretting not having married their own stock, that's another story...

This is a very old video, maybe recorded around 7 years ago. Follow-up comments are nice to read.
This video was uploaded on youtube several times with several titles and also edited.



Same video November 2015, same people.

if you took the best looking woman in America and she walked down the street naked in Cebu she couldn't find a boyfriend... In general, western women are very happy to leave the Philippines and never go back...

Taco wrote: ↑

February 24th, 2022, 10:07 pm

if you took the best looking woman in America and she walked down the street naked in Cebu she couldn't find a boyfriend... In general, western women are very happy to leave the Philippines and never go back...

OMG Hahahahahahaha......Here in Saigon, all the foreign white women I see when I'm walking seem to have a bored, miserable look on their faces. They don't look too happy to be here at all.

Taco wrote: ↑

February 24th, 2022, 10:07 pm

if you took the best looking woman in America and she walked down the street naked in Cebu she couldn't find a boyfriend... In general, western women are very happy to leave the Philippines and never go back...

Please no exaggerations. Cebu and Davao are full of stocky, flat chested and flat butted girls with unattractive Malay faces. The few who are somewhat attractive usually don't go to foreigners, they go to good looking locals.

An attractive white American in her 20 or even 30s could find a man in a breeze. The problem is, do they like the typical Filipino man: short, dark skinned, skinny, poor etc?

And the second problem is: once they get a foreign woman as a girlfriend or wife, are we sure they won't regret their liberal/liberated and more or less feminist ways?

publicduende wrote: ↑

February 25th, 2022, 3:16 am

An attractive white American in her 20 or even 30s could find a man in a breeze.

Nah....Philippines dudes don't want em either

kangarunner wrote: ↑

February 25th, 2022, 7:42 am

publicduende wrote: ↑

February 25th, 2022, 3:16 am

An attractive white American in her 20 or even 30s could find a man in a breeze.

Nah....Philippines dudes don't want em either

How do you know?

As far as I can tell it's foreign women who are reluctant to date Filipino men. In Manila, there's a few Russian and Ukrainian girls who married rich and powerful Filipinos: entrepreneurs, movie producers, etc.

One example is this Russian chick here (first girl on the left)



I would say being with a foreign woman is still kind of a novelty for them. Local men are generally nowhere near as adventurous about dating beyond their kind as their women are.