Why Marriage is Better than Fornicating/Mongering
Posted: August 3rd, 2014, 4:43 am
There are lots of bad effects of fornicating. Sexual intercourse is a reproductive activity. Condoms are supposed to be about the best form of birth control that also protect against (some) STDs, but they aren't 100% effective (and what's the point if one wears a condom? It's only about 10% as good as the real thing.) You could end up with some girl bearing your baby across the world that you don't know about or raise. That's a bad thing to do to her and to the child who grows up not knowing his dad, who didn't care about him or her or love him/her. That's an unethical thing to do.
So what kind of damaging can whoremongering (or 'mongering') whether one pays for it or not, do?
The poor girl bonds with this intense experience that involves the release of hormones. She develops feelings for the guy. He leaves or she sees him with another girl. She's heart broken. The man who seduces her just messes her up that much more, leaving her for whoever marries her.
Taking a girl's virginity is also a violation. She may give it up willingly, but at a vulnerable point that some player brings her to by manipulation. Then, in a lot of goods, she's damaged goods. And she has to live her life with potentially a sub-par husband to what she could have had before.
Prostitutes in some cases start out as sex slave children. Or they may be 18-year-olds who got kicked out of the house, or teens that ran away. In a very desperate state, they engage in prostitution to feed themselves. Some of them are basically slaves, and if they don't bring the money to a mafia man (he may be two-bit mafia), then they face physical harm. Paying a prostitute can keep this industry going.
Really, who wants to have sex with a woman in whom so many other men have deposited their liquid biological material? Some of those prostitutes have sex with multiple guys in the day. The material is still there fresh and another guy comes into contact with it. Or if condoms are used, there is still skin, hair, lice, and sweat. It's disgusting if you think about it.
I heard a guy in Indonesia say, "I don't want a second-hand woman." There is still a (sane and reasonable) preference for virgins there.
Maybe some guys enjoy having variety, different women time after time. But these guys probably expend either a great deal of effort 'gaming' women, or else spend money hiring women with well-used bodies with a high risk of disease and contribute potentially to mafias and the exploitation of other human beings.
Marriage is the best option. It's possible to find a woman who takes care of a man's sexual needs on an ongoing basis, whose faithful, and stays with her man. I doubt prostitutes are going to cook for you. They probably aren't going to stick around and raise your children. Prostitutes don't mop your floor. They don't listen to you when you want to talk about something, or help you achieve your life goals or objectives. They don't greet you at the door day after day with a kiss.
If you are concerned with sex, you can set expectations with a woman you are dating even if she is a virgin. You can tell her you expect sex so many times a week. You can even frame it like this, I'm unusual. I'll have a sexual need of X times a week, and I need to marry a woman who can meet my needs. Some women may find that a lot to ask for. I'm dating to find a wife, and that's one reason I've stayed with you for so long. But I want to be fair to you, and if you are the type who won't be willing to engage in sex that often, I can let you go on your way.
There is more to a relationship than sex, and when you are 60 or 70, it may not be as big of a deal, though it will probably still be a component of the relationship.
Anyway, marriage as a place for sexual fulfillment is a lot better than mongering for a number of reasons, ethical, practical, and health-wise.
So what kind of damaging can whoremongering (or 'mongering') whether one pays for it or not, do?
The poor girl bonds with this intense experience that involves the release of hormones. She develops feelings for the guy. He leaves or she sees him with another girl. She's heart broken. The man who seduces her just messes her up that much more, leaving her for whoever marries her.
Taking a girl's virginity is also a violation. She may give it up willingly, but at a vulnerable point that some player brings her to by manipulation. Then, in a lot of goods, she's damaged goods. And she has to live her life with potentially a sub-par husband to what she could have had before.
Prostitutes in some cases start out as sex slave children. Or they may be 18-year-olds who got kicked out of the house, or teens that ran away. In a very desperate state, they engage in prostitution to feed themselves. Some of them are basically slaves, and if they don't bring the money to a mafia man (he may be two-bit mafia), then they face physical harm. Paying a prostitute can keep this industry going.
Really, who wants to have sex with a woman in whom so many other men have deposited their liquid biological material? Some of those prostitutes have sex with multiple guys in the day. The material is still there fresh and another guy comes into contact with it. Or if condoms are used, there is still skin, hair, lice, and sweat. It's disgusting if you think about it.
I heard a guy in Indonesia say, "I don't want a second-hand woman." There is still a (sane and reasonable) preference for virgins there.
Maybe some guys enjoy having variety, different women time after time. But these guys probably expend either a great deal of effort 'gaming' women, or else spend money hiring women with well-used bodies with a high risk of disease and contribute potentially to mafias and the exploitation of other human beings.
Marriage is the best option. It's possible to find a woman who takes care of a man's sexual needs on an ongoing basis, whose faithful, and stays with her man. I doubt prostitutes are going to cook for you. They probably aren't going to stick around and raise your children. Prostitutes don't mop your floor. They don't listen to you when you want to talk about something, or help you achieve your life goals or objectives. They don't greet you at the door day after day with a kiss.
If you are concerned with sex, you can set expectations with a woman you are dating even if she is a virgin. You can tell her you expect sex so many times a week. You can even frame it like this, I'm unusual. I'll have a sexual need of X times a week, and I need to marry a woman who can meet my needs. Some women may find that a lot to ask for. I'm dating to find a wife, and that's one reason I've stayed with you for so long. But I want to be fair to you, and if you are the type who won't be willing to engage in sex that often, I can let you go on your way.
There is more to a relationship than sex, and when you are 60 or 70, it may not be as big of a deal, though it will probably still be a component of the relationship.
Anyway, marriage as a place for sexual fulfillment is a lot better than mongering for a number of reasons, ethical, practical, and health-wise.
