You are very welcome. I used to think my mother was being mean the one time she told me that, but she was right all along. She herself was a knockout when she was my age, like an 8 or 9 and I look exactly like my mother. My dad is like a 6 at best. She and everyone else I knew, including my ex-wife, probably felt humiliated inside. It's not easy, but we have to look at the writing on the wall and accept the reality. It would have been fine in a world devoid of insecurities, but our own personal comforts inside our hearts, mean nothing to the other people that have to walk in their own shoes. Their own torment being with a guy they feel as if they cannot feel confident being with, spreads like a contagious corruption, and before you realize it, you are doing things you have never done before. Things like being angry all the time, overly cynical, unhappy, argumentative for no good reason, un-productive, unmotivated, and somewhat empty inside.aozora13 wrote:Kai, thanks for helping me really think how my 'relationship' with a Latina woman is going to be in the future. I am mixed about the future because of other issues but I can best rank her at 4-6. I think her best day she is between a 5-6. I think that she knows that certain qualities I like she does not have plus with Rock's requirements such as height is a slight issue but not a permanent one. However, looking at her in various photos, I realized that I wish I had a woman with certain body porportions and a decent about 5'5-5'6. I think when I was visiting her, I saw women who were more of high tier than her. It was funny when looking at a woman briefly and she was pretty upset about it. She was Asian too. Oh well...kai1275 wrote:Dude..... your fake profile guy is waaaaaaay out of those women's league that it isn't even funny....
As fine as number 7 is, she is too old and has a kid. The rest are pretty kinda, but basically 4-6. A guy that looks like that, should only talk to 9s and 10s. The reason why is because you cannot go that far down as a good looking guy. Those women's insecurities will make things worse later on. That makes for a terrible match.
I learned my lesson the hard way marrying down with my ex-wife like that. Any man intelligent to find out why their wives should look better than them, will be richly rewarded. No man should be better looking than their wife! Ever! Unless they are both 10s.
Edit: Okay that first one you posted is indeed an 8...but barely. Still not good enough for a guy like the one in your profile.
An unequal woman will never fill that empty half inside your heart. The feeling she gives you after having sex, is relatively short and temporary and never lasts more than a day or a week. It is not the love that persists long past several days of separation. Any feelings that un-equal woman gives is merely lust for some 1 or 2 things she has that you have "settled" for (eg. big breasts, hairy/shaved p***y, small hands, pretty eyes, good height, nice hair, nice ass, thick thighs, white/dark skin, heavy weight/pressure on top, tight/loose p***y, hard f***ing, awesome blowjobs, great personality, loyal, sweet, etc etc). All these silly things are merely lust factors that make you feel horny for, but nothing about loving the person herself as a whole. The minute she loses any of the 1 or 2 things that make her good enough for you, you will feel like the biggest ass in the world, because no one maintains 1 or 2 things like that forever.
The right woman will have nearly all of those things (or whatever you like) or develop them later as she gets older! Hot looking cougar MILF, but actually a loyal wife anyone?
It just isn't love. Don't settle for what Chinese men call a "Good Enough Wife". They have those kinds of wives because they cannot lose everything in a divorce for having mistresses and second wives. If you come to this forum, you are meant for much more and better things, because you have an open mind and you are quite possibly a romantic minded person. There is a perfect fit someone for everyone, I really believe that because I know that God has a plan for every man. He does not want any of us, non-believer or not, to ever be alone in life. He did not create or design any woman to be a cum receptacle either, any woman like that chose that. He made them to be our other half.
