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Hey guys,
Check out Tony Bochene's video series about how to find good girls in foreign countries. He makes a lot of sense and has a lot of good points. He starts many videos with clips from Old West classics and gives interesting tidbits about Wild West frontier life. It's definitely worth a watch. The video series starts here:

http://tonybochene.com/video-more

In part 6, he says that 2 types of guys who don't do well long term with foreign women are:

1) playboys
2) control freaks

And explains why. I guess #1 describes me doesn't it? lol

Part 6:

http://tonybochene.com/video-more?catid ... girls-par6

A playboy might not do well longterm with a foreign woman but the point of being a playboy is being wth multiple women and not being tied down to one in particular.
"Doing well" to a playboy is having a harem of non-emotionally attached women to f**k so not being in a relationship is actually a good thing

playboys and control freaks dont do well with life full stop. this is because they are highly confused about what it is and who they are. if you dont understand life and yourself, then its ridiculous to think youre ever going to have a chane of understanding women, enough understanding to have a great and lasting relationship that is. if you did understand life and yourself, women would be a peace of cake.

thing is though, people are so confused and their values are so disorientated, they dont even want a lasting relationship. they only crave excitement and nothing else because they adamently beleive thats what life is about. they want to live a life where superficial excitement happens from the moment they wake up in the morning until the moment they go to sleep at night. they know its impossible and 90% at the very least of life is always going to be mundane, but they still seek it regardless. so they only want that exciting part of a relationship, not seeing that substance is in understanding which by its very definition is non excitement. many nowadays dont even want relationships full stop, theyve practically reverted back to being animals, living for sex with a new partner; something that can only occur in your life 0.01% of the time regardless of who or where you are. the rest of their life is mostly just a daydream not much different to when they are asleep at night.

Ned Zeppelin wrote:A playboy might not do well longterm with a foreign woman but the point of being a playboy is being wth multiple women and not being tied down to one in particular.
"Doing well" to a playboy is having a harem of non-emotionally attached women to f**k so not being in a relationship is actually a good thing

"Boom!" +infinity..smells like teen playboy spirit. Lol