I keep getting so and so wants to meet you messages and without fail, every single girl that wants to meet me is a girl that I am not interested in. If I liked white cougars I could probably have a date several days a week. But I would rather look at asian porn than do that, because it's free and looks better. Of course all the girls I message don't want to meet me, except for the filipinas. So I started over and erased all the messages I got and sent and changed my profile to be as simple as possible by just saying:
"It doesn't matter what nonsense I or anyone else writes here about how we are simply the most fabulous person in the world, and anyone that doesn't want to share our beds are completely insane. Attraction has and always will be physical to begin with. If you like the way someone looks, take a chance, hang out and see what happens, maybe you might even like their personality too. The only reason you are looking at my profile is because I assume you like my picture and statistics, so if you do and I like yours let's hang out. If not, why on Earth are you even on here? You know essentially nothing about me and I know as little about you, and the only way to learn more about the hopefully legitimate person behind the profile is to meet and see if we click in reality as much as we all click online"
I've realized that even all the filipinas on here are a waste of time. I met one since joining. All the other ones I chatted and texted with eventually stop getting online or responding, so I deleted them. It really just is just a waste of time. Even the girls I chatted with said that they have not met a single person from POF even though they get lots of messages. Why the hell are they even on there? So as usual, even the filipinas seem to get an ego trip out of it. The thing is, a filipina moving here to find her supposed perfect guy and becoming as picky as the local girls is no different than me going there to meet and sleep with as many girls as possible. They are coming here because dating opportunities are much better for them here, while I go there because dating opportunities and selection are better for me there.
Even one who kept texting me and telling me how handsome I was stopped texting me after we chatted on the phone. She's only been here for 3 years, and said she much prefers it here to the phils, the opposite of me. Once they have been here for even a short time, they are poisoned by western society, it is unavoidable. This is a girl that I probably wold have turned down in the Phils for being a little pudgy and old at 26. Here she can afford to be picky. Meanwhile I have 18 year olds on DIA messaging me incessantly and skypeing me to the point of being annoying. It just boggles the mind, that as soon as you cross that international date line, guys fortunes change. I guess the term "date" line doesn't only refer to the day of the year.
I actually get a kick out of deleting their info, and never messaging them again. Every time I think of getting another GF here, I do get worried that it will turn into BS quickly. The problem is too that I really don't want to do anything but have sex with them and hang out at home. I don't really like leaving my apartment now and going out into public. People piss me off. I really only go out to buy food, and go to the library to get more DVD's to watch and CD's to rip. I stay in my apartment about 5 days a week and only go out in my local neighborhood twice a week. It is so easy to live this way. I can sleep until whenever I want, wear lounge wear and do anything I want and no ones bothers me. I don't even shave anymore and only trim my stubble once a week. Any girl I get with now would change that and I don't really want it. so unless they just want to come and hang out and sleepover I'm not really interested. That was the best part of the Hot Taiwanese girl I had in November, she was happy just to come hang out and sleepover, all that I want, and she paid her way when we went out to eat.