To all the step-fathers on this forum, why?

[MrMan]

A few years ago? Shouldn't you have been wiser than to do that? Why would you leave a gem or a sexy Chinese lady that actually likes sex (which I think is a rarity since many of them are prudes) just to get a Masters degree so you can make more money? I can't imagine a more stupid thing than to do that. No offense. But it seems totally dumb and nonsensical. There's no way I would risk losing a woman I really wanted just to get a masters degree so I can earn more money. That makes no sense. Money cannot replace a woman who is a keeper. There's no comparison. Two years is too long. I would have at least married her first.

Were you the one who said he liked to have sex once a month, or twice a month or something like that? If that's the case, wouldn't you want to reject a woman who really liked sex? She might wear you out if she wanted it night after night.

Anyway, it sounds like he dodged a bullet if she was sleeping around while he was away at graduate school.

I think the going away for an MA must have just been an excuse. Deep down you probably felt the relationship wasn't right for some reason. And you needed a polite way to get away and hope it would fizzle out, rather than have to break up. That would make more sense.

But that sounds likely, too.

[Winston]

For once I agree with you Marcos. I can't imagine myself loving another man's child and taking responsibility for it and wasting my time and energy on it. And pretend to be its father and love it, when I really don't. That would be living a lie. And it would feel shameful too.

However, there are some exceptions. For example. if this child was a gorgeous blonde girl who looked like a little angel, then I may make an exception, simply because I've always dreamed of having a beautiful blonde girl in my family, either as a partner, sister or even daughter.

I'm sure many of you guys would agree that if the child was a very adorable girl with a heart of gold and very bright and cute, that you may make an exception. But if it's just an ordinary child, then nah.

I hope you guys don't flame me for saying that. It's only natural right? I'm not a pedofile of course, but anyone who sees an adorable girl, especially a white one, will feel like they wanna love and take care of her and that their protective instincts will come out for her. Even movies and TV shows show this.

Why make an exception for the 'cute and adorable blond girl'? Why doesn't the equally lovely male child get a chance? If anything, he needs the support more because really, how much more help does an attractive blond female need in today's world? She already won the lottery, man.

It's lowkey kinda creepy how everything would be different somehow if the child was 'blond, cute and a girl', like what the hell man? Either way, you would be raising another man's offspring and putting your resources into it so that some handsome blond man's genetic code is passed on at the expense of your own Wu DNA, with you paying for the bill. Doesn't seem like a fair trade in any scenario, regardless of the child's perceived 'cuteness' in your eyes.

It's not rocket science Marcos. It's perfectly understandable. Because:

1) Girls are cuter than boys.
2) Everyone loves something or someone that is cute, adorable and good looking.

This is universal in human nature. No one has trouble understanding it. Come on man. Everyone knows it's much easier to love someone or something that is attractive than something that is not. Also little girls just tend to bring out the protective nature in men. All men feels it. It's innate in our DNA and soul too. There's nothing creepy about it. It's perfectly understandable.

Btw I've talked to other men who say they don't want children. And they told me that they too, feel that if they had to have a child, they would prefer it to be an adorable little girl than a boy. The cuteness of a little girl is just much more tolerable I guess. Plus it brings out our male protective instinct. So other men feel this way too. This isn't something that can be explained in words. It's just something innate in us males. If you were a real red-blooded man Marcos, maybe you'd understand.

[yick]

A few years ago? Shouldn't you have been wiser than to do that? Why would you leave a gem or a sexy Chinese lady that actually likes sex (which I think is a rarity since many of them are prudes) just to get a Masters degree so you can make more money?

Well, I didn't know I was going to meet the woman I was going to marry as soon as I hit China, how did I know what was going to transpire? You are making out that hindsight is a common concept within in us all. In fairness to your question though, the reason I needed more quals/a better job was because her family forbade her to see me - they made her break up with me but after about three days she disobeyed them and kept on seeing me - don't think there were any easy choices here, there weren't.

As for her liking sex, I was her first, she lost her virginity to me and I made sure she was satisfied, I am sure if she would have gone with some little Chinese blurt who she would have met at university - like a lot of them do - she would have got the 2 minute drillhammer - he would have probably put it in her bellybutton - I am not bloody surprised they're not interested in sex when most of them are going with the most clueless youth on the planet when it comes to lovemaking. Without going into it all - when she came - she would want to do it again and again - so she never said no because it was pleasant for her - if the whole of Chinese womanhood went with me their first time, they would like sex a lot more than they do now, trust me

I can't imagine a more stupid thing than to do that. No offense.

No offence taken because you haven't clue what happened so I am going to tell you what happened so you are more in the picture.

But it seems totally dumb and nonsensical. There's no way I would risk losing a woman I really wanted just to get a masters degree so I can earn more money. That makes no sense. Money cannot replace a woman who is a keeper. There's no comparison. Two years is too long. I would have at least married her first.

She was only going to marry me AFTER I got her families approval - she spent the time we were together getting piecemeal approval off various aunties, cousins etc - she would come and see me all excited when she told me about Auntie xyz approves of us being together - if it was up to me, I would have married her on a beach in Thailand (which is my dream wedding venue anyway...) oh I forgot, her father had her hukou so getting a passport would have been difficult if not impossible.

I think the going away for an MA must have just been an excuse. Deep down you probably felt the relationship wasn't right for some reason. And you needed a polite way to get away and hope it would fizzle out, rather than have to break up. That would make more sense.

Yes and no - the whole affair was taking its toll on her, being with me was hard for her and now if a Chinese girl who I know likes me refuses me - I know why because they go through this, they were going to send her to the countryside, her auntie beat her up during the new years party, her parents wouldn't speak to her for two years blahblahblah... she will look back on that as a terrible time in her life - you know what these young Chinese girls think of their family and to go against them like that?

I too have been accused of violating Chinese manners and customs and nuances. But each time I do, what's annoying is that they refuse to explain what exactly I did wrong. They just tell me I should have known better and that if I don't know what I did wrong, then it's hopeless to explain and leave it at that. Chinese women are notorious for that, telling you you did something wrong but not elaborating on exactly what so you can avoid the mistake next time. Instead, they expect you to know by yourself. It's very annoying and illogical when they do that. Bad communication too. They aren't articulate or specific. That's sort of the Asian way which is why I dislike Asian cultures and manners. They don't get specific or articulate or logical. They just expect you to know and read their mind, and they forget I'm not part of their hive mind. And they refuse to explain it too so I can learn from it and not repeat the same mistake next time. It's kind of stupid. But Chinese women are notorious for doing the guilt trip on you and telling you "you know what you did wrong, I don't need to explain it" when you actually really do not know. So stupid part of Chinese culture.

The thing is Yick, as a foreigner you should not be expected to know anything about Chinese culture or mannerisms or etiquette or the "saving face" thing, whatever it means. But as an Asian they expect you to know. So I don't get why they would hold you accountable to it? Usually they do not hold white people accountable to understanding Chinese ways, such as that "saving face" crap, which I never got. In my book as long as you are honest, true to your word, loyal, not a hypocrite, keep your promises, and don't do bad things, then "saving face" shouldn't matter. They never define what that means anyway, nor do they explain how it works in logical detail. It's just something you're "supposed to know" without explanation, as if you are supposed to be plugged into their hive mind or something. lol. Really weird.

Yeah, but she would tell me what was going on and why, she wouldn't not tell me - she would say 'this is whats happening and this is why and this might be a way forward' the plan behind my MA was there was an excellent job on offer in a Tier one city where we could have gone, had a nice life and she could then say 'Hey - look at us, we're doing well' she was a qualified teacher and she spoke great English and she is now a successful English teacher (as far as I know, last time I spoke to her she was...) it wasn't - I'll do the MA to get away from her - I loved her, this was a plan that could have worked and it needed a gamble, it needed us to try a plan F or a plan G - I thought she might have waited but she didn't - it wasn't her fault - I was asking for a lot in hindsight - what descions wouldn't you have made if you had hindsight? Easy, isn't it?

[yick]

Why make an exception for the 'cute and adorable blond girl'?

A) To get back at the cheerleaders who ignored him at high school - poor kid will be on the naughty step more times than God knows what

B) She'll be 18 - see he mentioned Woody Allen

[yick]

a blond woman or girl is the highest thing in their mind for some reason.

http://women.happierabroad.com/women/info191211.htm

They're not my thing usually, but I am off to the Ukraine and grabbing this one if she is legit.

[MrMan]

a blond woman or girl is the highest thing in their mind for some reason.

http://women.happierabroad.com/women/info191211.htm

They're not my thing usually, but I am off to the Ukraine and grabbing this one if she is legit.

What if another guy on the forum decided he wanted a 30-year-old divorcee, and flew off to compete with you? She might be James Bond's type.

[yick]

a blond woman or girl is the highest thing in their mind for some reason.

http://women.happierabroad.com/women/info191211.htm

They're not my thing usually, but I am off to the Ukraine and grabbing this one if she is legit.

What if another guy on the forum decided he wanted a 30-year-old divorcee, and flew off to compete with you? She might be James Bond's type.

No shortage of women hombre - may the most suitable man win, anyway, if you see her other pics - she has a massive engagement ring on her finger - AFA don't even try to hide their con trick anymore.

Besides - there is more chance of me getting on a space shuttle and going to Pluto than 'James Bond' boarding a plane and going to anywhere in Eastern Europe.

[Winston]

Why wouldn't you bring a Chinese woman to America?

Because I am British.

But I would bring a Chinese wife back to The States but I would make sure it was in the right place - it wouldn't be in the middle of Indiana.

Where in the US then would it be socially acceptable to bring back a foreign bride? Especially if there's an age difference? Can you list some good examples? Would California be one of them?

Btw everyone, I have a question. Suppose an Asian man were to bring back a younger Asian bride to the US. Would they get the same condemnation that an older white man would? I would think not right? Because people would just assume that that was part of Asian culture for older men to marry younger women, and leave it at that and not think much of it. Am I right? The thing is, Americans are taught to respect Asian cultures as though they have some exotic mystique and wisdom that the West lacks, that's why those in the New Age movement are enamored by Eastern Philosophy and Spirituality right? So there are two mindsets here - one is that they look down on older men marrying younger women abroad in a negative light, but also two, they are conditioned to respect other cultures too. When the two conflict, I guess they will just let it go or be more lenient about it. Am I right? So if an Asian man brings back a younger Asian bride, he would not get dirty stares right? Even in the middle of Indiana?

[Winston]

Why make an exception for the 'cute and adorable blond girl'?

A) To get back at the cheerleaders who ignored him at high school - poor kid will be on the naughty step more times than God knows what

B) She'll be 18 - see he mentioned Woody Allen

Not exactly. I've had a crush on beautiful blondes since 1979. My first crush when I was 5 or 6 was on a blonde girl named Angela. She made me feel vulnerable for the first time, so I felt weird about it and starting throwing sand and tanbark at her. I'll never forget that. Ever since then I've been mystified and enchanted by angelic blondes. They look so surreal, like from a higher divine universe. Hard to explain.

[yick]

Why wouldn't you bring a Chinese woman to America?

Because I am British.

But I would bring a Chinese wife back to The States but I would make sure it was in the right place - it wouldn't be in the middle of Indiana.

Where in the US then would it be socially acceptable to bring back a foreign bride? Especially if there's an age difference? Can you list some good examples? Would California be one of them?

Btw everyone, I have a question. Suppose an Asian man were to bring back a younger Asian bride to the US. Would they get the same condemnation that an older white man would? I would think not right? Because people would just assume that that was part of Asian culture for older men to marry younger women, and leave it at that and not think much of it. Am I right? The thing is, Americans are taught to respect Asian cultures as though they have some exotic mystique and wisdom that the West lacks, that's why those in the New Age movement are enamored by Eastern Philosophy and Spirituality right? So there are two mindsets here - one is that they look down on older men marrying younger women abroad in a negative light, but also two, they are conditioned to respect other cultures too. When the two conflict, I guess they will just let it go or be more lenient about it. Am I right? So if an Asian man brings back a younger Asian bride, he would not get dirty stares right? Even in the middle of Indiana?

They might think you're her dad - would they be as judgmental of you as they would with a visibly older white guy? I doubt it as it would be very difficult for him to expose that he was her father (if she was actually his daughter and mixed race - people would automatically assume he was just a 'dirty old man' otherwise) - and I suppose women in this part of the world do go with monied Asian older men - I remember on a flight from Penang to Singapore two (very attractive) young ladies who were with older men who looked like their fathers but obviously weren't based on their behaviour - whom I found out to be Vietnamese when we all boarded the flight and had to show out passports and tickets - no-one gave them a second look though - I am sure they would be judged in America as that's just a very judgmental place all told... it would be a lot worse if you were an older white dude though.

Would you live in the middle of Indiana? I bet you wouldn't!

[Winston]

Btw everyone, I have a question. Suppose an Asian man were to bring back a younger Asian bride to the US. Would they get the same condemnation that an older white man would? I would think not right? Because people would just assume that that was part of Asian culture for older men to marry younger women, and leave it at that and not think much of it. Am I right? The thing is, Americans are taught to respect Asian cultures as though they have some exotic mystique and wisdom that the West lacks, that's why those in the New Age movement are enamored by Eastern Philosophy and Spirituality right? So there are two mindsets here - one is that they look down on older men marrying younger women abroad in a negative light, but also two, they are conditioned to respect other cultures too. When the two conflict, I guess they will just let it go or be more lenient about it. Am I right? So if an Asian man brings back a younger Asian bride, he would not get dirty stares right? Even in the middle of Indiana?

They might think you're her dad - would they be as judgmental of you as they would with a visibly older white guy? I doubt it as it would be very difficult for him to expose that he was her father (if she was actually his daughter and mixed race - people would automatically assume he was just a 'dirty old man' otherwise) - and I suppose women in this part of the world do go with monied Asian older men - I remember on a flight from Penang to Singapore two (very attractive) young ladies who were with older men who looked like their fathers but obviously weren't based on their behaviour - whom I found out to be Vietnamese when we all boarded the flight and had to show out passports and tickets - no-one gave them a second look though - I am sure they would be judged in America as that's just a very judgmental place all told... it would be a lot worse if you were an older white dude though.

Would you live in the middle of Indiana? I bet you wouldn't!

Not if I were holding hands with her and acting romantic, like her partner. lol. Then no one could mistake her as my daughter. lol

But the thing is, doesn't it depend on how you two look together and the synergy and the age difference? I mean for example, me and Dianne have a 16 year age difference, yet no one gives us dirty looks. Everyone treats me better when I'm with her, even in the Philippines. Because we have a certain synergistic look together that blends and complements each other, as if we were a natural couple. See my avatar photo of me and Dianne to see what I mean. We don't look like a mismatched couple in terms of age. We seem naturally blended. Kind of like Mark Davis and Anna Davis. If you look at their photos, they look good together like they are a natural couple with a certain synergy. You know what I mean? Plus Mark Davis looks youthful and healthy and in shape too, which helps.

Also, some men have that "creepy old man" look, while others don't, even if they're the same age. So not all older men look the same, even if they are white. Some older men still have that innocent, charming and likable look - those types can probably get away with having younger brides better right? Even if they are older white men. For example, if Brad Pitt or Tom Cruise, who are in their 50's, or George Clooney, have a female partner in her 20's, it wouldn't look as bad right? Because those male celebrities still have that youthful look of vitality and charm and likability. So they would not be seen as "dirty old men" since they still look youthful, energetic, charming, charismatic and likable, right? So doesn't it depend on the look of the man as well as how synergistic the couple looks together? You see what I mean?

I highly doubt if Mark Davis gets any dirty looks because he and Anna have a certain synergy together and look natural together, despite their big age difference. Right? So not all men are the same, even if they're the same age.

Also, @Mr S told me before that when you are abnormal or different to others, your own race tends to judge you harshly about it more so than other races do. He says he get dirty stares from white people for being different and not conforming to the BS everyone else does, but asians tend to just ignore him.

[yick]

Btw everyone, I have a question. Suppose an Asian man were to bring back a younger Asian bride to the US. Would they get the same condemnation that an older white man would? I would think not right? Because people would just assume that that was part of Asian culture for older men to marry younger women, and leave it at that and not think much of it. Am I right? The thing is, Americans are taught to respect Asian cultures as though they have some exotic mystique and wisdom that the West lacks, that's why those in the New Age movement are enamored by Eastern Philosophy and Spirituality right? So there are two mindsets here - one is that they look down on older men marrying younger women abroad in a negative light, but also two, they are conditioned to respect other cultures too. When the two conflict, I guess they will just let it go or be more lenient about it. Am I right? So if an Asian man brings back a younger Asian bride, he would not get dirty stares right? Even in the middle of Indiana?

They might think you're her dad - would they be as judgmental of you as they would with a visibly older white guy? I doubt it as it would be very difficult for him to expose that he was her father (if she was actually his daughter and mixed race - people would automatically assume he was just a 'dirty old man' otherwise) - and I suppose women in this part of the world do go with monied Asian older men - I remember on a flight from Penang to Singapore two (very attractive) young ladies who were with older men who looked like their fathers but obviously weren't based on their behaviour - whom I found out to be Vietnamese when we all boarded the flight and had to show out passports and tickets - no-one gave them a second look though - I am sure they would be judged in America as that's just a very judgmental place all told... it would be a lot worse if you were an older white dude though.

Would you live in the middle of Indiana? I bet you wouldn't!

Not if I were holding hands with her and acting romantic, like her partner. lol. Then no one could mistake her as my daughter. lol

But the thing is, doesn't it depend on how you two look together and the synergy and the age difference? I mean for example, me and Dianne have a 16 year age difference, yet no one gives us dirty looks. Everyone treats me better when I'm with her, even in the Philippines. Because we have a certain synergistic look together that blends and complements each other, as if we were a natural couple. See my avatar photo of me and Dianne to see what I mean. We don't look like a mismatched couple in terms of age. We seem naturally blended. Kind of like Mark Davis and Anna Davis. If you look at their photos, they look good together like they are a natural couple with a certain synergy. You know what I mean? Plus Mark Davis looks youthful and healthy and in shape too, which helps.

Also, some men have that "creepy old man" look, while others don't, even if they're the same age. So not all older men look the same, even if they are white. Some older men still have that innocent, charming and likable look - those types can probably get away with having younger brides better right? Even if they are older white men. For example, if Brad Pitt or Tom Cruise, who are in their 50's, or George Clooney, have a female partner in her 20's, it wouldn't look as bad right? Because those male celebrities still have that youthful look of vitality and charm and likability. So they would not be seen as "dirty old men" since they still look youthful, energetic, charming, charismatic and likable, right? So doesn't it depend on the look of the man as well as how synergistic the couple looks together? You see what I mean?

I highly doubt if Mark Davis gets any dirty looks because he and Anna have a certain synergy together and look natural together, despite their big age difference. Right? So not all men are the same, even if they're the same age.

If we are comparing other couples here in China - no - you and Dianne don't look mismatched at all, in China - as you very well know - you have seen beautiful women with the biggest physical heaps going, fat, skinny, no dress sense, looking like a Japanese sniper , stupid bowl haircut, balding etc - I mean, this country has no shortage of pretty/cute/beautiful women but some of these blokes take the piss out of it - I mean, if I looked like some of them, I would try and make an improvement somewhere somehow but they don't give a f**k in the main - I suppose there is something admirable to take from their attitude.

I have no idea who Mark Davis is so can't comment.

As for the stars you mentioned - who are handsome AND rich - they would get complete heat for dating younger women - look at Leonardo Di Caprio and Dane Cook - very handsome and successful men and of course famous and you would think - that no-one would judge them because they're handsome and famous and there are lots of girls in their twenties who would love to date and have sex with them but by jove! They get judged harshly:

Leonardo DiCaprio Under Fire For Dating YOUNG GIRLS!!

https://mtonews.com/leonardo-dicaprio-u ... oung-girls

Dane Cook’s Creepy Romantic Relationship With a Teenager Raises Serious Red Flags (with the tagline gross)

https://www.thedailybeast.com/dane-cook ... -red-flags

They (jealous bitches) hate and they hate hard - women because they see it as a rejection of them and men because they're f***ing jealous and they can't do it most men would love to date and have sex with twenty odd year old girls but they can't in the main (and in a lot of cases, they probably never could...) so they use feminine shaming language like 'creepy' so to your question, if you were back in America and you were displaying PDA with a younger Asian woman then you would get judged like a sheep thief on trial in the middle of New Zealand - and you would be found guilty an all!

[Winston]

But don't forget guys that the 16 year age difference between me and Dianne, while it may be a bit big to some, is not considered extreme enough to warrant dirty stares from people. It's about borderline between being acceptable and unacceptable. Right? Plus when you are asian, white people treat you like you're a different species from a different universe, so they don't pay that much attention to you. Many white people even think all Asians look the same and cannot tell them apart. lol

Plus there is a double standard in America where Asians can get away with more things that Whites cannot. For example, a Chinese restaurant in America can hire an all Chinese staff, and no one will complain or charge them with discrimination. People simply assume that Chinese prefer working with other Chinese people, or that the Chinese restaurant may be family run. Or they don't want a language barrier in the US. Or they don't care because they look at Chinese culture with reverence and awe, as though the Chinese were wiser and more evolved so they should not be questioned, only respected, etc. You see how that goes?

I'm sure many of you have seen an all Chinese staff in Chinese restaurants and wondered the same thing right? Like how do they get away with that? Obviously because Asian immigrants aren't held to the same standards as Whites?

Also, Mr S told me that your own race tends to judge you more harshly for being different than other races for some reason. That seems to be true.

[yick]

But don't forget guys that the 16 year age difference between me and Dianne, while it may be a bit big to some, is not considered extreme enough to warrant dirty stares from people. It's about borderline between being acceptable and unacceptable. Right? Plus when you are asian, white people treat you like you're a different species from a different universe, so they don't pay that much attention to you. Many white people even think all Asians look the same and cannot tell them apart. lol

Plus there is a double standard in America where Asians can get away with more things that Whites cannot. For example, a Chinese restaurant in America can hire an all Chinese staff, and no one will complain or charge them with discrimination. People simply assume that Chinese prefer working with other Chinese people, or that the Chinese restaurant may be family run. Or they don't want a language barrier in the US. Or they don't care because they look at Chinese culture with reverence and awe, as though the Chinese were wiser and more evolved so they should not be questioned, only respected, etc. You see how that goes?

I'm sure many of you have seen an all Chinese staff in Chinese restaurants and wondered the same thing right? Like how do they get away with that? Obviously because Asian immigrants aren't held to the same standards as Whites?

Also, Mr S told me that your own race tends to judge you more harshly for being different than other races for some reason. That seems to be true.

Has anyone here called into question the age difference between you and Dianne? I don't think anyone has - I don't think anyone would judge you two but people do judge - jealous bitches in the main - Marcos makes a point that most men would be thinking good on him but most would think 'lucky bastard I wish it was me' but how it would spew out is 'pervert, dirty old man blah blah...' because most men when they reach middle age can't attract women in their twenties and if another middle aged man can - they're 'cheating the system' even if that man is rich, famous and handsome. Men are no better than women when it comes to feminine, jealous, bitch like behaviour.

So, if you were in America with someone in their early twenties - especially if she was a blonde, white girl - people would hate on your arse in a BIG way - they probably would if she was Asian or if she was black - people generally hate it when you successfully cheat the system - our place in society as middle-aged men is to befriend a single mother with three kids to four different fathers Which is what a lot of single middle aged men do...

[Winston]

For once I agree with you Marcos. I can't imagine myself loving another man's child and taking responsibility for it and wasting my time and energy on it. And pretend to be its father and love it, when I really don't. That would be living a lie. And it would feel shameful too.

However, there are some exceptions. For example. if this child was a gorgeous blonde girl who looked like a little angel, then I may make an exception, simply because I've always dreamed of having a beautiful blonde girl in my family, either as a partner, sister or even daughter.

I'm sure many of you guys would agree that if the child was a very adorable girl with a heart of gold and very bright and cute, that you may make an exception. But if it's just an ordinary child, then nah.

I hope you guys don't flame me for saying that. It's only natural right? I'm not a pedofile of course, but anyone who sees an adorable girl, especially a white one, will feel like they wanna love and take care of her and that their protective instincts will come out for her. Even movies and TV shows show this.

Why make an exception for the 'cute and adorable blond girl'? Why doesn't the equally lovely male child get a chance? If anything, he needs the support more because really, how much more help does an attractive blond female need in today's world? She already won the lottery, man.

It's lowkey kinda creepy how everything would be different somehow if the child was 'blond, cute and a girl', like what the hell man? Either way, you would be raising another man's offspring and putting your resources into it so that some handsome blond man's genetic code is passed on at the expense of your own Wu DNA, with you paying for the bill. Doesn't seem like a fair trade in any scenario, regardless of the child's perceived 'cuteness' in your eyes.

Marcos, in an ideal world where looks and beauty didn't matter, and everyone was special and equally lovable, then you would have a point. But in the real world, everyone loves something or someone that is beautiful and attractive, more than something or someone that is not. And as we all know, it's easy to love something or someone that is beautiful or good looking. Everyone knows that. How do you not understand basic human nature? lol. Are you not human and alive with feelings and emotions too? lol

Here is a nice song that illustrates what I mean in case you don't understand. lol. Notice that the lyrics go like this "Loving you is easy cause you're beautiful..." So if a song gets it, why can't you? lol. You are too idealistic and egalitarian man. lol



Lyrics

Lovin' you is easy 'cause you're beautiful
Makin' love with you is all I wanna do
Lovin' you is more than just a dream come true
And everything that I do is out of lovin' you
La la la la la la la la la la la la la la la
Do do do do do
No one else can make me feel
The colors that you bring
Stay with me while we grow old
And we will live each day in springtime
'Cause lovin' you has made my life so beautiful
And every day of my life is filled with lovin' you
Lovin' you, I see your soul come shinin' through
And every time that we, ooh
I'm more in love with you
La la la la la la la la la la la la la la la
Do do do do do
No one else can make me feel
The colors that you bring
Stay with me while we grow old
And we will live each day in springtime
'Cause lovin' you is easy 'cause you're beautiful
And every day of my life is filled with lovin' you
Lovin' you, I see your soul come shinin' through
And every day that we, ooh
I'm more in love with you
La la la la la la la la la la la la la la la
Do do do do do
Na, ooh, la la la la la la la la la
Do do do do do

Source: LyricFind
Songwriters: Minnie Riperton / Richard J. Rudolph