America Is for Women What the Philippines Is for Men

[Yohan]

The thing is, when it comes to online dating, the average woman in the US gets between 50 and 100 guys sending her messages everyday! This doesn't take into account how much women get hit if they have social media (Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, etc.).

This also does not include how much women get hit when they go to bars and clubs. Some women even get hit on when they are at a grocery store or book store.

Contrast this to men who are lucky to get a girlfriend (or even a date) every few years!

50 to 100 everyday is maybe exaggerated, but for sure it can be said, it is not only about USA, but about Western women in general who have indeed a choice and can keep easily sexual contact with multiple boyfriends they meet on the internet, in bars or in the steets like members from a gang.

A woman around 25 to 30 years old might have had easily sex with 100 different men.

Often Western women make the wrong choice with bad boys as they expect from men nothing for a long term relationship, but only sex and a 'not boring life-style' or if the boy of any age is showing up some expensive gifts etc. I have no compassion for these women in case something is going wrong and you can hear from crybabies such tearful confessions that 'he should not do this to me' or such BS-talk.

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This was however always like that, it was the same situation when I was still young and living in Europe more than 40 years ago. I never met a reasonable woman in Europe, who was still available without boyfriends and looking out for a long term relationship. I never made it up even for a girlfriend in Europe for 30 minutes.

This is really different in Asian countries - I had no problem to meet women who were interested to be with me, but why was it like that? The criteria how Western and Asian women are choosing their men are different. In Western countries the majority of women are into short-time adventure, while Asian women in general are somehow more careful and consider long term relationship as a real option for their future.

In this sense, worldwide seen, women are NOT everywhere the same. You have to consider the mindset of the majority within their society. Of course in Asia are also bad women, but their behavior is not supported as being a 'powerful independent single mothers' or such feminist nonsense talk.

[redfeather]

Yohan,

I totally agree with you on EE, and your results in EE mirror my own findings.
When I tried dating Russian and Ukraine women I saw the same tactics being used that American women were using.
I saw where they were just interested in wasting your time, and they had zero interest in a long term relationship.
So, you analysis of EE women is spot on.

After the EE and Ukraine waste of my time and money...I got smart and followed my fellow Army soldiers and went to the Philippines.
Right off the bat it was smooth and easy to move into a long term relationship with my now filipina wife.
My wife is from the southern Philippines and from Mindanao.
My wife and her three sisters were all still living at home when I dated her, and their father was strict on them.
There was no place to go party for them anyway because they lived out in the country...they could go outside and dance with themselves I guess.
My wife has her two sisters that are elementary school teachers and her two sisters still live at home.
My wife watches these filipina TV shows and I catch some of the shows...and they are very wholesome shows like watching "Leave It To Beaver" the shows we used to have on American TV back in the 1950's.
From my stand point...if you find a good filipina from out in the country you probably have found a gem.
My wife and her sisters lead very wholesome lives...they are nothing like the American women I dated before leaving for the Philippines.
From being around my wife and her filipina friends here in Texas I have witnessed how tight they are with friends and family.
They will invite you inside and feed you...and just offer friendly conversation...and make you a part of the family.
When I sit and ponder the difference I have seen between my American wife and other friends American wife...the Filipina wives blow them away.
My advise is if you want a wholesome woman...go to the country of the Philippines.

[Traveler]

Think about this, the United States is the easiest country in the world for women to meet men and for women to get dates, boyfriends and sex. On the other hand, the US is the worst country in the world for men to meet women, get dates, get girlfriends and get sex.

The only problem with this assertion is that a man is saying it. For it to be accurate, we would have to hear what American women say from their perspective. And women don't do cross-cultural comparisons of the dating market.

The thing is, when it comes to online dating, the average woman in the US gets between 50 and 100 guys sending her messages everyday! This doesn't take into account how much women get hit if they have social media (Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, etc.).

This also does not include how much women get hit when they go to bars and clubs. Some women even get hit on when they are at a grocery store or book store.

Contrast this to men who are lucky to get a girlfriend (or even a date) every few years!

I doubt that most American women view the US as some kind of dating paradise. America women tend to complain about the quality but not the quantity of men they get attention from. A woman who is getting 50-100 messages per day probably thinks that most of those are from guys who are not good enough for her.

[Yohan]

I doubt that most American women view the US as some kind of dating paradise. America women tend to complain about the quality but not the quantity of men they get attention from. A woman who is getting 50-100 messages per day probably thinks that most of those are from guys who are not good enough for her.

Same in UK, see this article, my comment there was of course never published.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/arti ... osted.html

Ms Great Britain reveals she's given up on finding love after 100 'horror dates' and claims that men ghost her if she doesn't have sex with them by their fourth meeting

April Banbury, 32, has spoken about her love life after dating 100 men
The former Ms Great Britain reveals that she is ghosted after date number four
She lifts the lid on the horrors of online dating and how men only want one thing

[Traveler]

I doubt that most American women view the US as some kind of dating paradise. America women tend to complain about the quality but not the quantity of men they get attention from. A woman who is getting 50-100 messages per day probably thinks that most of those are from guys who are not good enough for her.

Same in UK, see this article, my comment there was of course never published.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/arti ... osted.html

Ms Great Britain reveals she's given up on finding love after 100 'horror dates' and claims that men ghost her if she doesn't have sex with them by their fourth meeting

April Banbury, 32, has spoken about her love life after dating 100 men
The former Ms Great Britain reveals that she is ghosted after date number four
She lifts the lid on the horrors of online dating and how men only want one thing

She's probably only interested in dating alpha male Chad Thundercock types. But a lot of those guys just want to pump and dump her and then move on to the next woman.

[ArchibaultNew]

I would love to see an American woman move to the Philippines and see how she fares when it comes to dating and getting a boyfriend.

I have also heard that American women who move to Japan and Germany have a difficult time meeting men and getting dates.

I heard about Japan. But why would it be difficult in Germany? Is it because of all the brothels, that means competition?

[jamesbond]

I would love to see an American woman move to the Philippines and see how she fares when it comes to dating and getting a boyfriend.

I have also heard that American women who move to Japan and Germany have a difficult time meeting men and getting dates.

I heard about Japan. But why would it be difficult in Germany? Is it because of all the brothels, that means competition?

It's not just because of the widespread prostitution that goes on in Germany but also because in Germany men do not ask women out.

I have read about women from the UK, USA and Australia who have moved to Germany that no man asks them out. As a matter of fact, men don't even flirt with women in Germany and are actually very shy around women. Women from the UK and USA who are used to men hitting on them all the time, move to Germany and find out that men in Germany don't hit on women or even ask women out on dates.

Apparently it's the same thing in Japan and least with western women. Women from the USA, UK and other western countries can't even get a date with a guy in Japan.

Now these women know what it feels like to be ignored by the opposite sex.

[ArchibaultNew]

I would love to see an American woman move to the Philippines and see how she fares when it comes to dating and getting a boyfriend.

I have also heard that American women who move to Japan and Germany have a difficult time meeting men and getting dates.

I heard about Japan. But why would it be difficult in Germany? Is it because of all the brothels, that means competition?

It's not just because of the widespread prostitution that goes on in Germany but also because in Germany men do not ask women out.

I have read about women from the UK, USA and Australia who have moved to Germany that no man asks them out. As a matter of fact, men don't even flirt with women in Germany and are actually very shy around women. Women from the UK and USA who are used to men hitting on them all the time, move to Germany and find out that men in Germany don't hit on women or even ask women out on dates.

Apparently it's the same thing in Japan and least with western women. Women from the USA, UK and other western countries can't even get a date with a guy in Japan.

Now these women know what it feels like to be ignored by the opposite sex.

Wow, I didn't know that it goes to prove that America and the Anglosphere are probably the worst countries when it comes to dating in hooking up and getting laid. Many guys say Japan and Germany are equally bad but it seems that 1-There's legal prostitution 2-Most of the guys are not even approaching.

[kangarunner]

[jamesbond]

Wow, I didn't know that it goes to prove that America and the Anglosphere are probably the worst countries when it comes to dating in hooking up and getting laid. Many guys say Japan and Germany are equally bad but it seems that 1-There's legal prostitution 2-Most of the guys are not even approaching.

Yeah, most guys in Germany and Japan never approach women. Also, in Japan and Germany prostitution is legal so a guy can just get laid by visiting a prostitute. In the US, you have a whole cottage industry of PUA guys teaching men how to cold approach women. The PUA industry does not exist in Japan or Germany.

[Yohan]

Wow, I didn't know that it goes to prove that America and the Anglosphere are probably the worst countries when it comes to dating in hooking up and getting laid. Many guys say Japan and Germany are equally bad but it seems that 1-There's legal prostitution 2-Most of the guys are not even approaching.

USA, UK and other places of the Anglosphere are the most hateful places against men because rampant radical feminism and the legal situation are treating men as second class citizens.

In Germany and Japan the relationship between men and women is not that hateful towards each other. Also the legal situation for men is better, you will never end up in poverty sleeping in a car after divorce or because you are jobless and cannot pay child support you will never end up in a prison cell as a man for sure.
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In Japan there are of course some laws regarding prostitution, especially against open prostitution outside in the street or prostitution of minors or foreign women controlled by criminals.
However it is perfectly legal to meet a woman somehow and go to any private room (own room or hotelroom etc) and as long as nothing can be seen or heard from outside, and both the woman and the man are 18+ payment for sexual service is OK.