Yohan wrote: ↑December 18th, 2021, 4:31 amI see hardly any difference.
1 - She doesn't want a boyfriend
She rejects every man approaching her - She will be alone
2 - No Japanese man wants her
Why do they reject her, despite they are looking for a female friend? Despite Japanese men who are living with a foreign woman outnumber Japanese women who are living with a foreign man 2 : 1? Anyway, she will end up to be alone.
What is the evidence she has men approaching her that she rejects?
She's back in the US, now apparently, not making videos, so unless you know her or she's posting elsewhere, you cannot know if she is alone.
I don't think, ordinary Japanese parents care so much about that as long as the foreign wife tries to integrate herself somehow. However nowadays in the cities most young couples do not want to live with their parents and rent a room somewhere away from them and in case of divorce they own nothing to each other, just sign a form in the ward office and move on...If she is traditional, she may want the man to ask her out, too. Do many Japanese men want foreign wives there? How does the potential mother-in-law feel about this? I know a Japanese man who married a Filipina and the relationship with the mother-in-law was always a concern.
In rural areas in Japan, on smaller islands which are only into fishing, in forest areas etc. now are often only old people living, and the daughter is moving away to the cities, prefers a more comfortable life - but to be honest life-style in Japanese rural areas is often really primitive however a Japanese young farmer is anything else but poor - they often have a fairly good income.
The oldest son of a Japanese farmer family cannot so easily disappear and he cannot find any Japanese wife as there is none living in such areas.
There are even TV documentaries going on in Japan about this strange situation. There are Japanese small villages where foreign wives outnumber the Japanese women living there -
If the foreign wife is willing to stay and to integrate, there is no problem ....many are from China, Korea, Vietnam, Philippines and even from SriLanka.
Asian, non-Japanese women, are generally welcome in Japanese remote areas if they are willing to stay
For example, this foreign woman is in Japan since more than 14 years.
https://english.kyodonews.net/news/2020 ... llage.html
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