That's the key - how do you know? No easy answers. I have had dozens, maybe hundreds of guys ask me about what I have been doing, particularly since I got married. I even have a blog. How many actually went? One. And he found a good woman and married her too.E Irizarry R&B Singer wrote: How would one know who is a scumbag or not, but to render such cointel on here without filter of newcomers is a detriment.
That's what I have been complaining about for years on-end.
So I guess I don't have to worry too much about sending the wrong people abroad because as we both know - most guys will never go.
Unfortunately, some who do go are assholes and damage the reputation for the rest of us. Hate to use a clichÃ© - but that's the price of freedom. Ask for free speech and you have to put up with what some moron has to say. Ask for freedom to travel where you want - and some asshole will pollute a foreign country.
So I agree - no easy answers.