Winston wrote: ↑August 1st, 2022, 2:03 pm
My son is reading this thread so do you guys have any messages for him? If so, please keep it civil.
Hi
@Winston and Angelo, good luck finding the best place!
I hope everything works out great, wherever you choose.
A big question:
How strong a commitment do you have to make?
For example, can he try it out in the USA, but change his mind and go back (or some other nicer country if he really doesn't want to be in the Philippines), if he ends up not liking it here?
Winston wrote: ↑August 1st, 2022, 2:03 pm
You guys aren't keeping some key things in mind or considering them. Again:
1. My son has 4 classmates that went to the US. They all said it was fine. No bullying anymore. No racism either. They said the education they have there is far superior to that in the PH.
But the dynamics will be determined by your
exact location. Seriously, there is no way to generalized about the whole country, not even by Red state or Blue state (though I do think that's important too, and luckily you agree that keeping him away from sudden vaccine mandates could actually be a life or death decision).
I don't know anywhere in the USSA that I actually think is particularly good, but if he actually has good friends at that exact location where he's going, he'll be with them that'd make a huge difference!
Just having 4 classmates elsewhere in the US at other locations he's not going doesn't help unless he's going to those specific places they gave the good review of too, but if he is, great!
From some other Asians I know, there was a big "Asian hate" thing but the lying jewmedia tried to pin the entire thing on the whites. Lots of whites are complete dicks, for sure, but in reality mostly only a handful of bad hate crime cases were from whites, and most of the murders, rapes, and violent aggressive attacks were blacks attacking the Asians. (And this is coming from a guy who loves black women and thinks Louis Farrakhan is the greatest American leader in history, so this is just me telling it like it is, not being unfairly prejudiced against blacks.)
Winston wrote: ↑August 1st, 2022, 2:03 pm
2. The universe has given me multiple signs, omens, and dreams that my son will do well in the US and is meant to be there. Are you guys suggesting I should go against the will of the universe? Geez. That's like trying to defy an avalanche. Lol
That's pretty cool! But it's not like we would know how to weigh that vs the overall pros and cons even though I also believe in a lot of paranormal and spiritual stuff from my own experience.
Winston wrote: ↑August 1st, 2022, 2:03 pm
3. Keep in mind that many people in Asia feel much more comfortable in America than Asia. We all know that. So not everyone is like us. Stop assuming everyone is like us please. We are a fringe group. Not the mainstream.
Depends on who you ask: Many Asians (from a sampling of mostly Japanese and Chinese, but also a few Koreans) told me they feel way freer to be themselves, do whatever they want, etc here than in their home countries where the culture wasn't so tolerant of individualism, but even most of them still wanted to go back to Asia because of thinking it had a better future.
Many who formerly liked it here have had a change of heart after the big uptick in harassment of Asians in the 2020s, though they (especially the rightwing Koreans) also point out blacks were already attacking them for decades and the jewmedia just didn't cover it nationally until they found it convenient to blame "white supremacism" for blacks attacking Asians and everyone else even more than usual.
Also, while I've known Asian guys who have no problem laying women here, the loudest complaining I've ever heard from any group of men about the dating scene is hands-down from Asian American guys and also some overseas Asians who come here, tons of whom have got it into their heads (rightly or wrongly, depending on the cases) that the dating scene here is horrible for them.
Personally in the late 1990s I knew Japanese guys who had no problem nailing white girls, but while some Asian guys marry white women, all the ones I knew who nailed a lot of white American chicks definitely had the Asian version of Razor Ramon's "Man, chicas? they for fun!" take on white women, and just wanted to have fun having sex with them before getting rid of them and going to get an Asian woman back in an Asian country. (Edit: I mentioned that last bit to point out both that the whiny "Asian incels" often have the problem all in their heads, but even the guys who had no problems laying American girls still thought it sucked here and wanted to go back to Asia later, so it's not always true Asians like America better by any means. Depends.)
Winston wrote: ↑August 1st, 2022, 2:03 pm
5. Mr S' daughter currently goes to school in Idaho. She doesn't like the libtards there but since she is an independent thinker she doesn't let the liberalism there and trash culture there affect her or get to her. She just ignores it. I'm sure my son can do the same.
Idaho is considered a very conservative state overall and it used to be known for having the most rightwing sentiment, including among youth (though I haven't checked on it recently) so the liberalism there might be a pocket. (Was that in Boise?)
If you're in a disaster area like San Franciso on the other hand, the rampant neo-bolshevism and rapacious and aggressive pushing of homosexuality and transgenderism including on small children is so over the top, I don't see how you could just ignore it, but good luck just the same!
P.S. I also grew up on the Left Coast and part of the time was surrounded in libs and homos in some parts some of the time too and just ignored them myself, but they're WAY worse now than they once were. Orders of magnitude worse.
@gsjackson was not exaggerating it in his post earlier in this thread.
In places like Portland (where I haven't lived in a long time, but I know a thing or two about it from both xp and having friends there still), they not only are doing the lib thing of openly celebrating their own mental illnesses as though they're points of virtue to opt into the "whining minorities" culture of counting themselves in as members of "marginalized/protected communities," they've also not only pushed pot to the max (a longtime favorite of infamous jewish pedophile and communist Allen Ginsburg), they're now decriminalizing even many of the hard drugs so even kids can get limited quantities legally, so it's what amounts to sampler packets of even the hard drugs in some areas, based on the idea that drug use is supposedly something that (you guessed it) makes someone a member of a "marginalized community" rather than a criminal.
But again, specific location is what makes all the difference, and if he already has friends he'll be joining, that'd make a huge positive difference. Anyway, good luck!