Happier Abroad Forum Community

Hi everyone!

I'm new to the forums and I like the things Winston's website has to say. I'm an American male, I have lived in this country all of my life and find it culturally dead and boring. I come from a great family who has encouraged me to be myself and outgoing and social with others (which is hard when most people are stand-offish and distant ). I hope to make some foreign friends through this website and am interested in hearing of life in different cultures, so please feel free to message me and talk to me!

Welcome DatelessDude,

Glad you could join us. Which site referred you here?

I'm guessing from your screen name, that you don't get that many dates? hahaha. Just kidding. Sorry I couldn't resist <g>.

Winston wrote:Welcome DatelessDude,

Glad you could join us. Which site referred you here?

I'm guessing from your screen name, that you don't get that many dates? hahaha. Just kidding. Sorry I couldn't resist <g>.

My screen name is a lament that there is no decent American woman to settle down with and have a true relationship with! lol I'm judged by my looks, if I'm not physically desirable, women won't date me.......despite the fact that I'm outgoing, friendly, sociable, and respectful.

Truthfully I just stumbled onto the website, I googled "American women suck" and I found your happier abroad website. Hopefully I can meet some friendly, cultured, and respectful people here as America is quickly spiraling into the crapper.

Welcome DatelessDude87! You will find our discussion forum interesting and informative. Yes, American women are standoffish and unfriendly and it seems like no matter what part of the country you live in, the women are pretty much the same!

I hate the bar scene but I may have to go back to doing that if I want to meet any women here in the US. No, I don't expect to find the woman of my dreams at a bar or club but I am not looking for Miss Right, I am looking for Miss Right Now! lol

jamesbond wrote:Welcome datelessdude87! You will find our discussion forum interesting and informative. Yes, American women are standoffish and unfriendly and it seems like no matter what part of the country you live in, the women are pretty much the same! I hate the bar scene but I may have to go back to doing that if I want to meet any women here in the US. No, I don't expect to find the woman of my dreams at a bar or club but I am not looking for Miss Right, I am looking for Miss Right Now! lol

I admit that I don't have the body of Mr. Universe, but I'm also not the ugliest person in the world. I am friendly and sociable by nature, and that has gotten me nowhere with women in this country. Its sad that respect, supportiveness, and civility isn't cool to them. I'm not going to lose my morals or change who I am just to get myself laid, I want a woman who accepts me for me, flaws and all. Someday (as soon as I have the money saved up) I'm taking advantage of my passport and going abroad.......if the women abroad are truly classy and elegant as many here say they are, maybe I'll meet my future wife! You should go abroad for a woman jamesbond, don't waste your time and money at bars.