Mr S wrote:Winston wrote:Thanks for giving them the chocolate Falcon. I'm sure they loved it. And thanks for the great pictures as well.
Btw, when you see Mr S, tell him that Dianne is a great girl and that it was extremely rude and uncalled for when he ignored her when he saw her and didn't even say hi, simply because he falsely assumed that Dianne was a bad person like all the other Filipinas he knew. That was totally rude and uncalled for, and uncivilized as well. Dianne said that he was the coldest foreigner she ever met. Not to even say hi to a girl when introduced is abhorrent manners, as well as a lack of basic manners. Even Rock and Ladislav agreed.
Here's the uncivilized monster chiming in, I'm not sure if I remember how to write because I'm such a neanderthal and so unsophisticated due to my primitive and backwards thinking process, ugh, ugh, duh, dooody, fart...
Anyways, your looking back at this scenario from your perspective which took place a few years ago. So how you perceive the incident and how I perceived the incident and how an independent bystander would perceive the incident would be entirely different. You're just being over dramatic when nothing of this happenstance you're describing hardly occurred, and only through your perspective if this is the case. Also, if this was such a horrendous insult to you and Diane then why didn't you say anything at the time? If you were so insulted and she was so insulted then say something when the act is occurring, not years later when memories are foggy at best.
Besides the fact, I'm not generally interested in conversing with women just for the hell of it like you may be. So if I did or didn't say a casual hi or it was not perceived correctly, so what and leave it at that? Did I cause you and Diane's world to crumble becuase of my unflattering perceived attitude towards her? You defend women's over emotional responses way too much, women over emotionalize everything, especially when they are younger and have fragile egos. I'm cold? So what, I turn any grace and charm I may have off and on at my whim not hers or yours. Dude I didn't want to talk to Diane, I have zero interest so why would you push her on me to do so when you know I wasn't interested in the first place? Not every guy you meet is interested in talking to women you hang around with. Besides, I generally only talk to women if I feel it's going to get me some putang or something. Women generally don't excite me with their amazing conversation skills. Most women that have any decent conversation skills and have anything to say are the ones that are older, with more life experience and already gone through menopause and don't have dreamed up fantasies that every guy is still trying to get into their pants. Thus, a guy can actually have a conversation with them cause generally there is no physical attraction that impedes the conversation process.
In the true reality of things there is only a small minority of younger women that have much to say in a conversation and most of them are difficult to deal with on a regular basis. So with that said, the combined ones left who would be tolerable are extremely rare and an intellectual freethinking Western male is most likely not going to run into them very often in their lifetime. I'm sure I'm not the only guy who feels like this, Tom Leykis always mentions this type of thinking regularly on his radio show, but he is even more crass. He thinks all women are just walking urinals and has zero interest in casual conversations unless it leads to sex or some other benefit for himself. I am not as extreme as this but I do scrutinize whether having a conversation with a woman is in my best interest or not. Especially when most are emotional or mental basket cases once you get to truly know them. So why bother in a general sense? Pick and choose carefully is the way I handle things, others are completely opposite. Who cares? Stop badgering how others do things and just stick to what you prefer in regards to dealing with women and leave it at that.
What do you mean when you say this: "You're just being over dramatic when nothing of this happenstance you're describing hardly occurred, and only through your perspective if this is the case."
Are you saying that you don't remember that incident? My God. Either you have a bad memory or you are dishonest. Either way, it occurred. Even Dianne remembers it.
Sure you have a right not to talk to someone if you don't want to. But you can ask any guys here, and he will tell you that it is RUDE, COLD and UNCIVIL when introduced to your friend's partner, not to say anything or acknowledge her existence. NO GUY would do that. Only you.
Ask any guy here: If you introduced your partner to your friend, and your friend did not even acknowledge her existence, what would you think of him?
EVERYONE would say that that would be very rude, uncivil and abhorrent in manners. Ask any guy here.
You ask why I didn't say anything about it at the time. Well what good would it have done? I can't force you to say hi to her. No one can force you to do something you don't want to do.
You also make a bad logic fallacy in assuming that Dianne is like all the bad girls you know in the PI, without any basis. How can you judge someone you don't even know like that?
You are definitely way jaded no doubt. It shows in your writings. And you are not playful, charming, sweet or fun in personality. Even Rock said this. Rock and I both observed that the obvious reason why you only attract bad girls that want your money and treat you bad, is because your personality is too cold. Filipinas do not like guys with cold personalities who are not fun, playful, warm or sweet. Any Filipina will tell you that. So obviously a decent normal Filipina is not going to feel comfortable around you, since you are cold and cannot connect with them. Obviously then, you are only going to meet bad girls. That is why you have such negative experiences with Filipinas.
Sorry if that insults you. I know you may contest this. But to a third party person, it's very obvious and crystal clear. Rock and I don't agree on much, but on that we did agree on, because it was very obvious. There's no denying that your cold personality is a MAJOR FACTOR in why your experiences with Filipinas are negative and why normal decent ones can't get along with you, and why you are jaded as well. It's an obvious no-brainer, whether you admit to it or not. There's no question that it's a big factor. It's one of your chief flaws.
A man is known by his actions. And you not even saying hi to a friend's partner was very rude, cold and uncivil. Almost sociopathic. Ask anyone here. No man would do that. Not even a bad man would do that. It's almost inhuman.
Again, ask any guy here: If you introduced your partner to your friend, and your friend did not even acknowledge her existence, what would you think of him?
EVERYONE would say that that would be very rude, uncivil and abhorrent in manners. Ask any guy here.