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Rygar1 wrote: ↑

July 2nd, 2025, 12:22 pm

Man, you can say what you want about that miserable bastard, I miss that SOB. He may not have suited all tastes, but there was just something about that guy I liked. Authentic. Intelligent. Real. Tough. Experienced. Reminds me of my own mother. An angry, miserable loser, but she's tough, ill giver her that. Good critical thinking skills. I didn't agree with everything he said, but he made some very good points pertaining to the purpose of this website such as :

1. Most women tend to be 'nesters'(men hunt women nest) She's hardwired to 'nest' ie, stay in one geographical location and build it, maintain it, grow it. But I think it also means she expects a man to give her sole attention(I'll cook, do laundry, give sex, etc,to keep him from leaving the nest) Girls usually want a relationship, whereas guys like to play the field. She's wired to build a house and hearth, in exchange for security and love. Or something.

2. We often feel fatigued, restless, bored, unmotivated, and stuck in life. But large scale social forces and play a moderate, if not a major role in this. It's difficult to sustain effort and enthusiasm for a very mundane and vanilla existence such as working a shitty job and paying bills, especially when our survival isn't on the line. You feel bored and lost? You may not feel bored and lost when youre spending 90 percent of your waking hours hunting for food and shelter so you stay alive.

3. Deposit overwhelming cultural conditioning, marriage and relationships aren't for everybody. It takes a lot of strength and willpower to be with a woman and or raise kids and it's just simply not a good fit for some guys. Learn to live with it.

Prince of Cups wrote: ↑

July 3rd, 2025, 6:06 am

Rygar1 wrote: ↑

July 2nd, 2025, 12:22 pm

Man, you can say what you want about that miserable bastard, I miss that SOB. He may not have suited all tastes, but there was just something about that guy I liked. Authentic. Intelligent. Real. Tough. Experienced. Reminds me of my own mother. An angry, miserable loser, but she's tough, ill giver her that. Good critical thinking skills. I didn't agree with everything he said, but he made some very good points pertaining to the purpose of this website such as :

1. Most women tend to be 'nesters'(men hunt women nest) She's hardwired to 'nest' ie, stay in one geographical location and build it, maintain it, grow it. But I think it also means she expects a man to give her sole attention(I'll cook, do laundry, give sex, etc,to keep him from leaving the nest) Girls usually want a relationship, whereas guys like to play the field. She's wired to build a house and hearth, in exchange for security and love. Or something.

2. We often feel fatigued, restless, bored, unmotivated, and stuck in life. But large scale social forces and play a moderate, if not a major role in this. It's difficult to sustain effort and enthusiasm for a very mundane and vanilla existence such as working a shitty job and paying bills, especially when our survival isn't on the line. You feel bored and lost? You may not feel bored and lost when youre spending 90 percent of your waking hours hunting for food and shelter so you stay alive.

3. Deposit overwhelming cultural conditioning, marriage and relationships aren't for everybody. It takes a lot of strength and willpower to be with a woman and or raise kids and it's just simply not a good fit for some guys. Learn to live with it.

You must be f***ing joking. From what I saw this guy was a miserable douchebag with an inflated ego and a penchant for behaving like a complete dickhead. He deserved to be banned

yick wrote: ↑

July 3rd, 2025, 8:36 am

Not really, posters come and go. The poster I miss is Marcos Zeitola, when he left a quality poster had gone.

A poster called Kradmelder - he was good value.

We still have good posters on here like Frank, Yohan and one or two others.