Which races do you resonate most with?
Posted: March 3rd, 2023, 2:29 am
Ranking each race from top to bottom, with the top being the ones you resonate most with, and the bottom being the ones you resonate least with. For me it would be...
Obviously Asians at #1.
Asians are the only group of people I've met who's behavior consistently makes sense to me. I remember when I first started watching anime, and I thought to myself while watching it "if I could write TV shows and movies, this is the kind of stuff I would create." Asians seem to have an amazing attention to detail, as well as consistency and methodological approach that I notice in the stories they create. I also seem to share this kind of need for standardization and consistency with Asians. I also seem to have this similar need to categorize and organize everything. I read this one book about Ancient China and was surprised to find that even in Ancient Times, they insisted on laying out their cities and villages in a very methodical way. Each farm in the village had a very specific square foot designation for its intended purpose. In the cities, there was no mixing of business and residential areas, they wanted all business to happen in one central marketplace and all the people to live in designated areas for their social class. I seem to share a similar need for social organization and really dislike "fluidity" so to speak.
With Asian girls I have been friends with and dated, I have also felt a much stronger spiritual connection to them and a much greater sense of familiarity then I do with each other race of females. Most other races of women, their behavior is so bizarre and confusing to me that I cannot stop scratching my head. Asian girls are some of the only girls out there who's behavior generally makes a lot of sense to me. Asian girls have also never "shit tested me" so to speak. While I've met plenty of Asian girls who are too shy to say what they want, I've never met an Asian girl who actually behaved in a contradictory way to what she wanted. And that's a big difference, because if a girl behaves in a manner that's completely contradictory, I will never figure out what she wants and it pisses me off when a girl just expects me to read their mind. With Asian girls, plenty of them will simply not say what they want, but if you guess enough times, eventually you'll stumble on the right answer and they'll say "yup that's it." There's something about the internal world of a far greater number of Asian people that seems to match my own then is the case with other races.
I also think Asian girls are the most romantic girls in the world. They respond really well to compliments, they love physical affection, they seem to enjoy all the romantic cliches the most too... They love having flowers bought for them, they make sure to send you cute good morning texts every day... Most of all though, Asian girls seem uniquely determined to make the man she loves happy. Nobody, and I mean nobody, is as selfless as an Asian girl in love is. Asian girls in love can be so selfless it is kind of frightening. Asian girls are so empathetic that everything relies on you. And I do mean everything. If the mood is bad, its going to be because of you. An Asian girl in love with you will only feel the way you feel. If your relationship with an Asian girl fails, you need to take a look at what your state of mind was when you dated her. If you were full of negativity for whatever reason, it will effect your relationship with them because of how shockingly empathetic they are.
#2 Arabs
I can't say I've had much experience with Arab women, but I've had a lot of friendships with Arab guys. Once again, I notice the similarities as far as "their inner world" goes. I think there are a lot of similarities when it comes to strong convictions, the passion, and I would also argue spiritual maturity. Arabs just seem to be a much more "mature people" so to speak then Americans do. Maybe it goes back to how old their civilization is compared to ours, but I remember back in college... My Arab friends and I constantly made fun of and couldn't believe how immature and ridiculous the rest of the student body acted. In the Arab world, I get the impression that teenagers are simply expected to act like adults. The Arab world doesn't really tolerate childish and immature behavior from people. Arabs make sure to set goals and have a sense of direction in their life. They can't really tolerate floating around and just kind of living in the moment so to speak. Arabs always kind of seem like they're thinking ten steps ahead.
Even when Arabs behave in a more toxic manner, I can kind of understand why they do it. Their reasoning makes sense, and it is rooted in concepts I can understand. I can understand for example, why so many Arab guys behave badly when they go to Europe and America... I don't agree with it, but I can understand it. Because the social rules of our societies are very weird and contradictory. And Arabs are much more accustomed to a more formal and consistent culture. In this manner, they are kind of similar to Asians in that Asians struggle in environments that are not formal or consistent.
#3 Hispanics
I put Hispanic people in the middle as far as races I resonate with because I do think Hispanic people are some of the most friendly and generally "balanced" people in the world. Hispanic people are not really one for extremes and this makes it so a lot of different kinds of people can at least sort of get along with them. Hispanic culture also seems uniquely good at incorporating people into its culture who aren't necessarily like them. Hispanic people seem to be good at focusing more on what you have in common rather then what you have that's different. I think this could be a big reason why so many people resonate with Hispanic culture is because it is a very "open" culture so to speak. It has room for a lot of different types of people. That being said, I don't truly feel at home among Hispanics. Latina women I feel are very prone to shit testing their men and the gender dynamic between men and women in Hispanic culture tends to shift way too rapidly between positive and negative for my liking.
#4 Whites
With Whites, its kind of weird in that some White people I do get along pretty well with... But with the White people I don't get along with... They are basically aliens to me. I resonate fairly well with Southern Whites, but even then, I don't quite feel a full connection. Its like they kind of get my internal world, but not really. The only White people I find who really seem to completely understand my internal world is other autistic White people. Overall though, a lot of the assumptions that White people make about the world doesn't make sense to me. The internal world of other Whites seems completely mismatched with my own. I also find that White culture is way too socially complex for my liking. There are too many nuances and unspoken expectations that you get punished quite harshly for if you don't understand them. I also find that White culture can become incredibly meticulous about things that don't make any sense. When Asians are meticulous about things, it always makes sense to me and I can understand why they're being meticulous. But White people often seem to become really strict, completely out of the blue, over issues that seem incredibly petty. And those petty issues seem more important to them then other issues which I regard as having much more substance. Asians seem to be meticulous and strict about issues that are more substantive whereas Whites seem to become strict about things that I'm just like "Wtf? That's so stupid?"
The politics is where you really see this show up. You will never see Asian conservatives for example saying that a girl is a "tradthot" if she uses smartphones too often, or insisting that people stop watching television at all. I've also never heard of an Asian conservative who had a problem with masturbation. Whereas I've heard White conservatives before say things like "if you masturbate then you're just as bad as women who've slept with 1,000 guys." It never fails to astonish me how much White people will hyperfocus on and become really angry about insanely petty issues while completely ignoring more substantive problems. Keeping in the same vein, White people get really fixated on these sort of "abstract concepts" when it comes to determining their moral compass rather then looking at visible harm done. This is why so many White people actually seem to believe that racism or sexism is more evil then robbing someone or beating them up. Lots of White people will try and argue for "the other side" when it comes to robbers and other criminals but racists or sexists... Pure f***ing evil in their eyes. White people hold abstract concepts like freedom, equality, and self-determination as so sacred that violating them is seen as more evil then actually hurting people is. And I don't believe any other race thinks this way. Put this moral question for example, is it more immoral to hold someone in captivity but given a pleasant environment, plenty of food, entertainment, and other things to make their life pleasant while in captivity, or is it more immoral to beat somebody up in the streets but then leave afterward and never return? Most White people would probably actually think the first action is more immoral whereas most other races would think the latter is worse. Again, White people have this weird tendency to elevate abstract concepts that are, quite frankly, meaningless to a person's actual quality of life. And this is something that I will never understand about other White people.
#5 Blacks
Oddly enough, I actually think Black people are easier to talk to then a lot of White people are... The problem is that I don't have anything in common with them. I don't share any common interests, any common beliefs, or any common values with them. Their way of interacting with the world is completely alien to me. I can have small talks with a lot of them but when it comes to a deeper understanding of one another, there's always a barrier there because we simply don't have enough in common. There's no mutual understanding to go off of. Don't get me wrong, I can certainly be on friendly basis with plenty of Black people and often am because of working around so many of them. But trying to build relationships with them outside of work is hopeless for me because there isn't anything to build relationships on. With other White people, at least with a lot of them, I can kind of understand them, even if they come out of left-field with something that completely confuses me, but I still mostly understand them. Definitely enough understanding to build relationships with people even if I don't fully feel connected to or understanding of them.
Obviously Asians at #1.
Asians are the only group of people I've met who's behavior consistently makes sense to me. I remember when I first started watching anime, and I thought to myself while watching it "if I could write TV shows and movies, this is the kind of stuff I would create." Asians seem to have an amazing attention to detail, as well as consistency and methodological approach that I notice in the stories they create. I also seem to share this kind of need for standardization and consistency with Asians. I also seem to have this similar need to categorize and organize everything. I read this one book about Ancient China and was surprised to find that even in Ancient Times, they insisted on laying out their cities and villages in a very methodical way. Each farm in the village had a very specific square foot designation for its intended purpose. In the cities, there was no mixing of business and residential areas, they wanted all business to happen in one central marketplace and all the people to live in designated areas for their social class. I seem to share a similar need for social organization and really dislike "fluidity" so to speak.
With Asian girls I have been friends with and dated, I have also felt a much stronger spiritual connection to them and a much greater sense of familiarity then I do with each other race of females. Most other races of women, their behavior is so bizarre and confusing to me that I cannot stop scratching my head. Asian girls are some of the only girls out there who's behavior generally makes a lot of sense to me. Asian girls have also never "shit tested me" so to speak. While I've met plenty of Asian girls who are too shy to say what they want, I've never met an Asian girl who actually behaved in a contradictory way to what she wanted. And that's a big difference, because if a girl behaves in a manner that's completely contradictory, I will never figure out what she wants and it pisses me off when a girl just expects me to read their mind. With Asian girls, plenty of them will simply not say what they want, but if you guess enough times, eventually you'll stumble on the right answer and they'll say "yup that's it." There's something about the internal world of a far greater number of Asian people that seems to match my own then is the case with other races.
I also think Asian girls are the most romantic girls in the world. They respond really well to compliments, they love physical affection, they seem to enjoy all the romantic cliches the most too... They love having flowers bought for them, they make sure to send you cute good morning texts every day... Most of all though, Asian girls seem uniquely determined to make the man she loves happy. Nobody, and I mean nobody, is as selfless as an Asian girl in love is. Asian girls in love can be so selfless it is kind of frightening. Asian girls are so empathetic that everything relies on you. And I do mean everything. If the mood is bad, its going to be because of you. An Asian girl in love with you will only feel the way you feel. If your relationship with an Asian girl fails, you need to take a look at what your state of mind was when you dated her. If you were full of negativity for whatever reason, it will effect your relationship with them because of how shockingly empathetic they are.
#2 Arabs
I can't say I've had much experience with Arab women, but I've had a lot of friendships with Arab guys. Once again, I notice the similarities as far as "their inner world" goes. I think there are a lot of similarities when it comes to strong convictions, the passion, and I would also argue spiritual maturity. Arabs just seem to be a much more "mature people" so to speak then Americans do. Maybe it goes back to how old their civilization is compared to ours, but I remember back in college... My Arab friends and I constantly made fun of and couldn't believe how immature and ridiculous the rest of the student body acted. In the Arab world, I get the impression that teenagers are simply expected to act like adults. The Arab world doesn't really tolerate childish and immature behavior from people. Arabs make sure to set goals and have a sense of direction in their life. They can't really tolerate floating around and just kind of living in the moment so to speak. Arabs always kind of seem like they're thinking ten steps ahead.
Even when Arabs behave in a more toxic manner, I can kind of understand why they do it. Their reasoning makes sense, and it is rooted in concepts I can understand. I can understand for example, why so many Arab guys behave badly when they go to Europe and America... I don't agree with it, but I can understand it. Because the social rules of our societies are very weird and contradictory. And Arabs are much more accustomed to a more formal and consistent culture. In this manner, they are kind of similar to Asians in that Asians struggle in environments that are not formal or consistent.
#3 Hispanics
I put Hispanic people in the middle as far as races I resonate with because I do think Hispanic people are some of the most friendly and generally "balanced" people in the world. Hispanic people are not really one for extremes and this makes it so a lot of different kinds of people can at least sort of get along with them. Hispanic culture also seems uniquely good at incorporating people into its culture who aren't necessarily like them. Hispanic people seem to be good at focusing more on what you have in common rather then what you have that's different. I think this could be a big reason why so many people resonate with Hispanic culture is because it is a very "open" culture so to speak. It has room for a lot of different types of people. That being said, I don't truly feel at home among Hispanics. Latina women I feel are very prone to shit testing their men and the gender dynamic between men and women in Hispanic culture tends to shift way too rapidly between positive and negative for my liking.
#4 Whites
With Whites, its kind of weird in that some White people I do get along pretty well with... But with the White people I don't get along with... They are basically aliens to me. I resonate fairly well with Southern Whites, but even then, I don't quite feel a full connection. Its like they kind of get my internal world, but not really. The only White people I find who really seem to completely understand my internal world is other autistic White people. Overall though, a lot of the assumptions that White people make about the world doesn't make sense to me. The internal world of other Whites seems completely mismatched with my own. I also find that White culture is way too socially complex for my liking. There are too many nuances and unspoken expectations that you get punished quite harshly for if you don't understand them. I also find that White culture can become incredibly meticulous about things that don't make any sense. When Asians are meticulous about things, it always makes sense to me and I can understand why they're being meticulous. But White people often seem to become really strict, completely out of the blue, over issues that seem incredibly petty. And those petty issues seem more important to them then other issues which I regard as having much more substance. Asians seem to be meticulous and strict about issues that are more substantive whereas Whites seem to become strict about things that I'm just like "Wtf? That's so stupid?"
The politics is where you really see this show up. You will never see Asian conservatives for example saying that a girl is a "tradthot" if she uses smartphones too often, or insisting that people stop watching television at all. I've also never heard of an Asian conservative who had a problem with masturbation. Whereas I've heard White conservatives before say things like "if you masturbate then you're just as bad as women who've slept with 1,000 guys." It never fails to astonish me how much White people will hyperfocus on and become really angry about insanely petty issues while completely ignoring more substantive problems. Keeping in the same vein, White people get really fixated on these sort of "abstract concepts" when it comes to determining their moral compass rather then looking at visible harm done. This is why so many White people actually seem to believe that racism or sexism is more evil then robbing someone or beating them up. Lots of White people will try and argue for "the other side" when it comes to robbers and other criminals but racists or sexists... Pure f***ing evil in their eyes. White people hold abstract concepts like freedom, equality, and self-determination as so sacred that violating them is seen as more evil then actually hurting people is. And I don't believe any other race thinks this way. Put this moral question for example, is it more immoral to hold someone in captivity but given a pleasant environment, plenty of food, entertainment, and other things to make their life pleasant while in captivity, or is it more immoral to beat somebody up in the streets but then leave afterward and never return? Most White people would probably actually think the first action is more immoral whereas most other races would think the latter is worse. Again, White people have this weird tendency to elevate abstract concepts that are, quite frankly, meaningless to a person's actual quality of life. And this is something that I will never understand about other White people.
#5 Blacks
Oddly enough, I actually think Black people are easier to talk to then a lot of White people are... The problem is that I don't have anything in common with them. I don't share any common interests, any common beliefs, or any common values with them. Their way of interacting with the world is completely alien to me. I can have small talks with a lot of them but when it comes to a deeper understanding of one another, there's always a barrier there because we simply don't have enough in common. There's no mutual understanding to go off of. Don't get me wrong, I can certainly be on friendly basis with plenty of Black people and often am because of working around so many of them. But trying to build relationships with them outside of work is hopeless for me because there isn't anything to build relationships on. With other White people, at least with a lot of them, I can kind of understand them, even if they come out of left-field with something that completely confuses me, but I still mostly understand them. Definitely enough understanding to build relationships with people even if I don't fully feel connected to or understanding of them.
