I'll pm you about this,not really something to discuss here but I have a good reason I'm attracted to ladyboys,it's not my fault.It's not something to discuss here.People can be heartless and mean spirited.Don't give in to the bisexual lusts. You realize these are really gay men? Most of them look like it, too.
I'm a sincere person man,believe me.
I also for personal moral reasons,do not sleep with ladyboys anymore.I feel sympathy and empathy for them,because they were emasculated in some way likely when young,Dr.Joseph nicolosi talks about this,he's a homosexual repair therapist pioneer with a therapy to heal homosexuality that works all the time it's properly followed.
I agree,but I don't personally have the need to have a woman have traditional gender roles,for example I'd want my wife to work,and also I can help with cleaning and cooking frequently.America culture does not lend itself to producing good wives, in general. It's supposed to be hip for high school girls to be bi. Girls graduating high school confused about gender roles, and the whole culture has confusion about femininity and female roles. Being a wife and mother is not highly valued.
I am very happy for them!That being said, I raise my kids teaching them the word of God. I have a daughter who just graduated high school. We had her church friends over for a graduation party. We've had some of them over for Bible studies we hosted, and I've been around them a bit when my daughters were hanging out with them. These are really sweet girls. There is a redhead who just graduated, and my wife said something about how she'd like my son to marry a girl like that. The thought had crossed my mind, but she's dating a young man we've had over at a Bible study, and he seems like a good quality young man. They are planning on getting married. Good for them. It looks like both of them have found a good potential partner.
Not to wave the sound of pride,but realistically,I can get any single(UNmarried) woman I want with my face alone,I look like a extremely pretty woman-my sister's twin-but in male form.women that like pretty softer males will like me,I cannot get every woman,but most of them.I don't really need to go that route of finding a sheltered virgin that is positively conditioned to go for God-fearing providers,albeit I do want to have a wife that takes her walk with Christ seriousely.She must at the very least be protestant,I don't believe catholics or orthodox are christians.Most of these were young women that have been raised with good, godly values. Some of them were home schooled. Most of the group of friends she had over were above average to good-looking, too. I wouldn't be surprised if they were all virgins, also. I might be surprised if they volunteered that information though and I found out, of course. It's not something I would need to know, except maybe as a dad if my son wanted to marry. I have that verse in Jeremiah before Israel went into captivity where it says to find wives for your sons and husbands for your daughters. I'm a bit counter-culturally old school in thinking I need to have a hand in that... and a bit Asian-minded as well. My wife is more that way than I am. We pray that our kids will remain virgins and marry virgins.
I know.While American culture may not, in general, produce the best wives, there are subcultures within the US where one can find a good wife. If I were young, single, and looking, I might consider going to a church where home schooling was popular and finding a girl who had been home schooled in a nice family, where the parents didn't let the girls go out and date, driving around and parking in some parked car with a hormone-ridden 17-year-old trying to get notches on his belt. And also, I would be looking for a young woman who had faith, had internalized Christian values for themselves, and had their own conviction. That does exist in America. It is just a minority, maybe even a niche thing.
I agree,and I'm not interested that much in them,so it goes both ways,we all struggle with sin,especially sin induced by something that isn't my fault.As for swapping religions,I know you don't agree that I am influenced by the planets,but disobeying rules and change are two hallmarks of a sagitarrius.Or it could just be my ocd,intrusive thinking and all.The tibetans say ocd is a wind and aether element disorder,wind is change.I would imagine these kind of girls might not be interested in a man who is trying to sleep around with women.... and men... of different ethnicities, who has a thing for lady boys, or who swaps his religion every few months.
I always come back to christ though,in a very short period frame.my personal spiritual experiences have confirmed Christ is real.
Beautiful verse,I would personally be more compatible with the latter than the former.For a young man, a sweet young virgin woman might be the architype for the ideal bride. But even with women who have repented of fornication and settled down, there can be goodness in marriage. Even the guys married to feminists out there experience some benefits. "He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the LORD." (Proverbs 18:22 ESV)
It would be so much more easy if I didn't have cognitive impairments by ocd.Have compassion for me man,I am sincere.At the end of Matthew 6, the Lord Jesus said to seek ye first the kingdom of God and all these things shall be added unto you. He was talking about food, drink, and clothing. But I think the principal applies to other things, like having a wife. You need to focus on God first, really get established in your faith and what you believe. Really be dedicated to the Lord in what you want. 'Make no provision for the flesh, to fulfill the lusts thereof.' Don't look at porn. Don't allow yourself to indulge in fantasies. Spend time in prayer. Study the Bible. Find Christians to fellowship with. If you haven't been baptized into Christ, through faith in the operation of God, who raises the dead, get baptized.
Know what you believe. And pray for a wife. I'd prayed for a wife for years, but wasn't really stable yet, and probably not so serious about getting married. But I spent a Christmas overseas alone and something my mom said made me realize that was kind of sad. I realized if I had my own wife, my own family, this wouldn't be an issue. I started really praying intensely about it for a couple of months. It seemed like the Lord was saying to me I would meet my wife that month. And in February, I met this young woman. We had our first conversation. I went home and prayed if this was the answer to my prayer about finding a wife. I had a sense of it, but still needed to make sure, of course. I found out later that before we had that conversation, my wife perceived the Lord had spoken to her that I was the one. She even wrote a prayer about it in her prayer diary the day we'd met asking for us to be together, which she showed me after I proposed.
Someone said she'd seen a vision of my future wife, and so I prayed to see her, maybe a year before. I had a quick vision, wasn't able to memorize her face, but saw she had a kind of oily face in that vision and focused in on her eyebrows. When I saw an old picture of hers with unplucked eyebrows, I remembered that visions. Also, when we were getting to know each other on the phone, I'd pray and it would seem like the Lord was telling me this was to be my wife in my prayers. One time, she got upset on the phone, and I got this back story as to why in answer to my prayer. We talked later, and she told me the same story.
Even so, it took me months to make up my mind, and I was maybe 95% sure. "He that divorces his wife, except it be for fornication and marries another commits adultery. And he that marries her that is divorced commits adultery." I felt like I needed to be married. At that young age, I felt like I definitely needed the sex that came along with marriage, and all the affection, caring, the life partner, the companionship. I wanted kids, too. I didn't want to choose foolishly and marry a woman that would leave me. I was in Asia, and I found out later that my wife's people-group treated divorce as almost taboo, though it's getting to be a bit more common among them, but still stigmatized and less frequent than in the US. Also, we have common ground when it comes to the word of God. We both know it is wrong to commit adultery or to divorce. We are on the same page on that.
So I took a couple of friend's advice, and in prayer laid out my reasons for marrying my wife, and why I believed it was God's will, and told God that is what I was going to do unless He stopped me or showed me otherwise. I was 100% convinced of it at that point. I had no cold feet about marriage. I had some concerns about how the party was to be arranged and other details, but not about marrying my wife. After I was convinced and had settled my plans with the Lord in prayer, a speaker at a service we went to called us up after the meeting and prophesied about us. I don't recall his saying 'marriage', but talked about us going to many places and ministering to many people, and that part has happened. I would imagine there is much more to come.
It was so good to be married to this wife the Lord gave to me. I remember both as an engaged couple and later as newly weds just talking about how thankful we were that God put the other in our lives. It's touching to see the woman you love with tears coming down her cheeks, expressing thankfulness to God for giving you to her as a husband. And there is something so much deeper to the love than just the sexual release and experiencing her body.
There is so much good in marriage. My wife is really diligent. Proverbs 31 talks about a diligent 'trooper woman.' One of the things the woman did was purchase a field and plant it. I am looking out the window at a garden my wife planted. She's turned our yard into a garden, mostly vegetable, some flowers. We can now harvest squash, greens, and berries, and tomatoes. We also have corn, potatoes, grapes, pears, apples, and a bunch of other stuff planted. We have some watermelons coming in. I did help carry the dirt around for this, but she works on it all the time. She cooks gourmet meals. When I was in grad school, she bore the heavy load in a small business she came up with the idea for. I did some heavy lifting and other work on it. It kept us a float financially.
Of course, she gave birth to all of my children, and she nursed them, changed diapers, and we've raised them together. She's prayed for them, and me.
Relationship wise, feeling-wise, that has gone up and down over the years. We are kind of in something like a newly wed space now for the feelings in our relationship, after 20 plus years of marriage, and I anticipate it will keep going like that or get better.
What was my secret to finding a prize? It's favor from the Lord. Humble yourself before God and receive His favor. Put God first. Seek to strengthen your relationship with God and faith in Christ. Then pray for a wife. Do you think thinking about ladyboys and craving that sort of thing is pleasing to God? What about entertaining some of these other thoughts you've posted on here? Submit to the Lord in all things.
Happy for you my man!I'll pray for you,but also tell your church to pray for Bennie from amsterdam.I'll PM you about my lusts and sexual nature ,it's not something to be discussed here,unsensitive and mean people abound.
My grandma-mi abuelita-she's my role model,a Christ fearing woman that tried to raise me right in the church,I rebelled,but She later found out I'm was autistic and forgave me.
She's in heaven now smiling and praying for me.
she had a blissful big smile on her dead body that even persisted up to her burial,angels took her.
She was half black half choctaw,in a state where those two were marginalized during Jim crow,but Became a strong God fearing woman and converted my whole family to christ,being voodoo and shaman doctors and freemasons before that.
(Or are you operating out of jew york city, LOL?)
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