Yes, I am a native German speaker, from Austria (EU).Archibault wrote: ↑September 3rd, 2021, 10:07 amI think we are talking about two different groups. I'm mostly talking about travellers. For instance, you are German, right? Many German travellers actually did not want to speak German with me. They would switch to English each time I would try to speak to them in German....
In general if you make contact to somebody you will finally after a short time use the language which is easier for both participants to communicate.
We in Continental Europe learn obligatory basic English in school, starting with 8 years old.
Therefore often the English language skill from a German native speaker is better than the German language skill from an English native speaker.
German is not such an easy language due to complicated grammatical rules.
On the other side, often educated people from East Europe are fairly good with German and despite I was working for East Europe for 5 years while still living in Europe I never learnt any East European language... because they could communicate with me in fluent German. -
You are just choosing the language which is easier for BOTH of you.
My Japanese family is not good in foreign languages - I never use any other language than Japanese....
However my former neighbour while living in Tokyo was from Korea, and as my Korean language knowledge is not fluent, but his Japanese was very good, we used Japanese ....
Often English and French are useful as an intermediate language. I cannot speak Khmer and my few Thai words are not enough either and most people in Cambodia cannot speak German, so I try in English or French....
It depends on the situation - on language knowledge of BOTH persons talking to each other. It has nothing to do with boys or girls, not about your race or if you are looking like a local or foreigner etc.