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Tsar is better to stay where he's at, sort out his health problems then choose a better country with a more rational mind.

I arrived in Mexico. No Murphy's Law...at least not yet.

Much better experience compared to what happened in the EU.

I went through the line where all my luggage was screened and actually expected to need to open them but they told me to go and I was fine.

I have seen many nice looking girls at the airport and sitting outside at night.

Tsar, where are you located? A big city or costal town?

Do you have medical appointments lined up? Keep us posted.

Voyager1 wrote: ↑

July 20th, 2021, 9:17 pm

Tsar, where are you located? A big city or costal town?

Do you have medical appointments lined up? Keep us posted.

Mexico City. I wanted to learn the things, be near a park for the summer, get experience, and see an infectious disease doctor before I line up anything else. I always figure the capital will be easy beginner level for learning then I can go other places.

I might eventually go to Monterrey or Puerto Vallarta, or somewhere else for more serious tests if I really need them but this summer was always suppose to be 100% about me getting a girl before my Murphy's Law. So the summer is when I get a girl. If I like her, I will see her very often even if I go somewhere else.

I arrived about 9:00pm-10:00pm after I got out of customs. So I got a sim card and I exchanged all my dollars which wasn't many.

If I am lucky, I will have a date this weekend with a girl.

My plans for tomorrow are ATM again, pharmacy, groceries, and walk the park. Maybe buy a backup sim card.

I read that Cornfed is a kiwi. If he’s still in NZ, it will probably be at least another year before he’ll be traveling overseas and even then if they follow Australia’s exit plan, he’ll need to be vaccinated and hold a covid passport.

@Tsar I'm glad that you chose Mexico City and not one of the smaller coastal towns because if you cold approach teen girls there yo gonna get yo a$$ beat. Mexicans don't like gringos messing with their women let alone teen girls.

4 or 5 of them would surround you and beat you. Mexicans are vicious and fight dirty. They would knock you to the ground then viciously kick you. They might not kill you but they would put you in the hospital.

I suggest you loosen your age restriction (till 22). It's good to have a female friend, even just to talk to. It would be good for you to have a female friend 28-32.

I don't think that you would be able to cold approach because you speak no Spanish.

I'm hoping to travel fairly soon, but the covaids restrictions make it difficult. It is not that travel is illegal. It is just extremely difficult to comply with the regulations.

Voyager1 wrote: ↑

July 21st, 2021, 6:03 am

@Tsar I'm glad that you chose Mexico City and not one of the smaller coastal towns because if you cold approach teen girls there yo gonna get yo a$$ beat. Mexicans don't like gringos messing with their women let alone teen girls.

4 or 5 of them would surround you and beat you. Mexicans are vicious and fight dirty. They would knock you to the ground then viciously kick you. They might not kill you but they would put you in the hospital.

I suggest you loosen your age restriction (till 22). It's good to have a female friend, even just to talk to. It would be good for you to have a female friend 28-32.

I don't think that you would be able to cold approach because you speak no Spanish.

Does this guy look like a Gringo? He is Italian and I am really similar to him.



Secondly, people think I am young. I went to update a license and someone thought that I was getting my permit. I really don't look anywhere close to being even 24...

In the past two years people in the US thought I was 14-17, 16-17, under 21, and even in Bulgaria someone asked if I had family to pay rent when I did a showing and someone else asked me if I was 18.

Someone like me might be 30-32 but I look 18-22.

I speak some. Enough for an introduction and basics. More than Russian. Knowing some Italian and Latin helps me figure out Spanish really easy. I know the phonetics and most of the pronunciations.

I go up to a girl and start with...

Hola, bueno dias. Como estas?
(Wait for answer)
I then decide on pickup A, B, or C depending on the girl. I figure something short and fun is best because girls have short attention spans unless they're doing something fun and if a guy is able to do a fun, neat trick then they'll want to know more.

I know online dating won't work for me but I will try Tinder for fun too just in case I can get a slut. The amount of girls on Tinder that are sexy or hot or cute or worth banging is much higher than Bulgaria.

You are just wasting your time in Mexico Tsar. Fortunately you can just return home any time.

Did you get any medical appointments lined up?

Voyager1 wrote: ↑

July 21st, 2021, 5:46 pm

You are just wasting your time in Mexico Tsar. Fortunately you can just return home any time.

Did you get any medical appointments lined up?

Yes, I do, next week is my first consultation.

How exactly am I wasting my time in Mexico?

This is all about getting girls, practicing cold approaching, and medical tourism. You don't know I will strike out. I will probably be victorious this week. Next week I should have a date.

I brought condoms, Viagra, a sex toy, male perfume for men, and I am doing nothing except girls and medical tourism.

I have cool clothes.

I will easily get a Princess.

You are wasting your time and money in Mexico seeking medical treatment.

You are not going to get a Quinceañera Princess. That is reserved for Mexican young guys. Do you think they are just going to let some gringo come in and sweep up their princesses? No, they will beat yo a$$ first.

But, I think you should get a seaside resort hotel or apartment. You don't need to spend that much. Then you should get some good tequila. I have read that moderate alcohol use can kill blood born parasites which you have. Don't waste your money on doctors. They are not going to be able to do some operation to dig out the parasites. They have to be killed either by alcohol or medication.

Voyager1 wrote: ↑

July 22nd, 2021, 2:18 am

I have read that moderate alcohol use can kill blood born parasites which you have. Don't waste your money on doctors. They are not going to be able to do some operation to dig out the parasites. They have to be killed either by alcohol or medication.

All that is false.

1. Some parasites like dirofilaria, Onchocerca species, and sometimes other filarial things must be surgically removed. Sparganosis, parasitic cysts, etc also must be surgically removed. So does some other parasites.

Maybe microscopic blood parasites can be killed with medication but not works.

I don't know. I worry about you Tsar. I worry that some unscrupulous Mexican doctor with a "miracle cure" is going to promise you the stars but deliver very little. They are like that there because they are so poor.

If you can self medicate it would be better. If you know the right prescription go into a pharmacy and get that. It will save you a lot of money compared to the U.S.

I think a lot of it is stress that you bring upon yourself by worrying. You are in Mexico. Go to some seaside resort and enjoy yourself. You don't need to go to an expensive hotel. There are plenty of cheap options including hostels where you can party and meet young women. I think that's what you need.

Voyager1 wrote: ↑

July 22nd, 2021, 7:57 am

I don't know. I worry about you Tsar. I worry that some unscrupulous Mexican doctor with a "miracle cure" is going to promise you the stars but deliver very little. They are like that there because they are so poor.

If you can self medicate it would be better. If you know the right prescription go into a pharmacy and get that. It will save you a lot of money compared to the U.S.

I think a lot of it is stress that you bring upon yourself by worrying. You are in Mexico. Go to some seaside resort and enjoy yourself. You don't need to go to an expensive hotel. There are plenty of cheap options including hostels where you can party and meet young women. I think that's what you need.

It is not worrying, early last month I got worse...I only have one hand and one arm that work for the most part...