Jeallom wrote: ↑
April 24th, 2020, 2:02 pm
I have 2 children, both girls, one is 3, and the other is 5 years old, I love them more than anything else. Sometimes it's really hard to be a parent but it's really worth it. Don't be afraid to have children, you will be surprised how happy you can be. By the way, I can recommend awesome and very helpful apps for parents, just check out this list https://playmarket.store/android-category/parenting
That's great for you, but don't assume everyone will have the same view of parenthood as you.
Also, when your kids are older and more difficult to control, I doubt you will have the same "happy as can be disposition" about them as you have now. Kids get in trouble, cause problems, and sometimes cause great grief and heartache for parents. If you can't see that now, you're going to be in a world of hurt later on.
Also, stop shaming people about being "afraid" to have children. Some people are just smart enough to know the expense, work, toil, and sacrifice involved in raising them. If you wanted to take that upon yourself, fine. But some of us are just a bit more sagacious than you.