Do women have the same inner pain and suffering that men do?
Posted: January 15th, 2018, 3:16 pm
Below me and my Venetian friend Alex discuss whether women experience the same inner psychological pains and suffering that men do or not. What do you all think?
[1/13, 10:55 PM] Alex From Venice: BTW, you said women have different struggles than men but still have, like childbirth, menstruations, volatile mood due to their hormones etc...
[1/13, 11:19 PM] Alex From Venice: anyway I think such suffer is mainly physical, derived from body, which is a quite different thing and not comparable with the struggle that man have due to the sexual issue, which is about desire and the feel of something missing, it's an all inside mind struggle, and the effects and consequences are totally different from a physical suffer, even if repeated like menstruation
[1/13, 11:19 PM] Alex From Venice: men can be affected by physical pain and struggle too, but women aren't affected by the same struggle that hits the majority of men
[1/13, 11:19 PM] Alex From Venice: physical suffer can be overcome with medicines, but there's no medicine for the wish of having sex and love that can't be found
[1/14, 2:11 PM] Winston: Yes i agree. Women do not struggle with emptiness from lack of sex or love or meaning. But they have psychological suffering too. They feel inadequate or unwanted if no man notices them. Because to a woman her youth and beauty are everything. She cant use her physical strength and intelligence to get through life like men can. So she must use her looks to get things in life, because she knows she's the weaker sex. She knows if shes ugly or fat or old she will lose all her power. So shes under a lot of pressure too. It's a lot of pressure after all if everything hinges on your youth and beauty. Imagine that. They have nothing else to fall back on. So they are under pressure to snatch a good man to marry early in life, at least according to their natural instinct, which explains probably why feminists don't look happy. Women also assume that men have an easier life, just as men think women have an easier life.
[1/13, 10:55 PM] Alex From Venice: BTW, you said women have different struggles than men but still have, like childbirth, menstruations, volatile mood due to their hormones etc...
[1/13, 11:19 PM] Alex From Venice: anyway I think such suffer is mainly physical, derived from body, which is a quite different thing and not comparable with the struggle that man have due to the sexual issue, which is about desire and the feel of something missing, it's an all inside mind struggle, and the effects and consequences are totally different from a physical suffer, even if repeated like menstruation
[1/13, 11:19 PM] Alex From Venice: men can be affected by physical pain and struggle too, but women aren't affected by the same struggle that hits the majority of men
[1/13, 11:19 PM] Alex From Venice: physical suffer can be overcome with medicines, but there's no medicine for the wish of having sex and love that can't be found
[1/14, 2:11 PM] Winston: Yes i agree. Women do not struggle with emptiness from lack of sex or love or meaning. But they have psychological suffering too. They feel inadequate or unwanted if no man notices them. Because to a woman her youth and beauty are everything. She cant use her physical strength and intelligence to get through life like men can. So she must use her looks to get things in life, because she knows she's the weaker sex. She knows if shes ugly or fat or old she will lose all her power. So shes under a lot of pressure too. It's a lot of pressure after all if everything hinges on your youth and beauty. Imagine that. They have nothing else to fall back on. So they are under pressure to snatch a good man to marry early in life, at least according to their natural instinct, which explains probably why feminists don't look happy. Women also assume that men have an easier life, just as men think women have an easier life.