Marry a cute virgin or a model non-virgin?

[droid]

You clearly gave me bullshit that's been refuted a million times. You say you know that they are different but you demonstrate your lack of understanding.
Some things are black or white. Sometimes there are no shades of grey.

How many dicks must a woman take before being considered a slut? How many people must a man kill before being considered violent? How many owners must a car have before being considered used?

It always astounds me how many men would accept a used woman as a wife. You wouldn't pay full price for a used car. You wouldn't secure your door with a lock that can opened by many keys. Yet in this all important decision, they'll accept shit.

I think there are shades of gray. I mean, i understand, in mathematical terms there's a big discontinuity between 0 and 1, but there is a progression from there up. Obviously if you have to evaluate, you'd say the the girl with one bang is much, much less of a slut than the one with the 1000-CS, to the point where she might not be considered a "slut", well obviously standards can fall pretty low like nowadays. lol

Same for the murderers, if i'm in prison i'd rather associate with the one with the least body count haha.

Again i mean this from my point of view that virgins are unicorns now. So a guy that is not willing to whack off to porn into old age has to choose from within the continuous part of the curve and evaluate the shades of gray.

[Mr Natural]

Baggage is the keyword here. It's a matter of perspective. How much baggage is "too much baggage"?

Agreed. Every person has some type of "baggage" since none are perfect. It's just a matter of how much and what type. To me the individual person as a whole is more important than some individual strict rule.

[Jonny Law]

Dear Assholes,

Why not just marry a virgin chick who is of model quality in looks????

[fightforlove]

Dear Assholes,

Why not just marry a virgin chick who is of model quality in looks????

[fdiv]

guys guys guys you're gettin WAY to technical here. Why not just find a single mother and ya know, giver a extra one that's yours. I mean you don't have to be cruel about it if you don't want to live with her at least for a while. If you find the right one, she's cool with remittances in your absence. And single mothers with healthy kids already are underrated --- look she's PROVED herself as a fit mother by having healthy offspring already! Perfect spot to deposit your cherished genetic legacy, and all for less than a used car payment. For god sakes its a win-win here.

[MrMan]

Out of curiosity I wanted to ask this question. Would men prefer to marry a cute virgin like 6-7/10 in looks or a beautiful non-virgin who's been with previous men but look like a model? Make up does not count because it enhances the features temporarily. P.S you cannot have both and you can only choose one.

Ancient thread. I'm married so I would so no to both. If I were single and these were my only two options, I'd go with the virgin only if she met my specific criteria and I found her attractive. Probably no on a '6'.

[MrMan]

I have never understood this obsession so many guys have with virgins. Sex with them tends to be terrible and I just don't see the attraction. I suspect a lot of the guys who want them are inadequate in bed themselves and don't want a girl who knows they are.

Virgins are for marriage, a long term commitment. Over time, you train her and she learns what you like.

I wanted a virgin rather than a defiled woman because I did not want a defiled woman. A woman in the repeated throes of pleasure cannot think clearly enough to consider whether her partner is adequate or not.