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I found this funny picture and I thought it would make for a jimmy rustling thread if I posted it.

http://imgur.com/6r8c5Sz

MarcosZeitola wrote:

Dragon wrote:I found this funny picture and I thought it would make for a jimmy rustling thread if I posted it.

http://imgur.com/6r8c5Sz

My jimmies aren't rustled, sorry to disappoint!



I don't mind not being worshipped, though it would be cool. I don't hate or passively dislike Asian men either as I lived for quite a while among them, and will soon live among them forever. I don't hate white Western women, don't think the world owes me anything and don't care who white women do or do not sleep with.

As for Mr. Rodger, he's probably slept with plenty of white women. Then he married an asian woman, and now he's married to a Maroccan actress. He comes from a rich family and according to his son, he "had a way with women". With his wealth, I don't doubt that for a second.

So, no jimmies have been rustled. But nice try!

And I would have gotten away with it if it wasn't for you meddling MarcosZeitola!

More jimmy rustling in action:

White Male: Capitalizes on the Asian woman’s hatred of Asian men for his own gain, i.e., access to sex, partnership. He ignores virtually all of her negative opinions of Asian men (which, because all generalizations indicate an unhealthy mind, indicates that he is morally irresponsible as well). Either this, or he too believes in the inferiority of the Asian male and tolerates his partner’s biases. Acknowledges his “superiority” over the Asian men while benefiting from the pleasure of accessing Asian female vagina (the latter of which makes many men unaware or ignorant to the terrible qualities in his sex partner). Rationalizes her preference as his natural entitlement to Asian p***y because he is more attractive than Asian men.

https://longingfordeath.wordpress.com/2 ... ationship/

https://longingfordeath.wordpress.com/2 ... e-it-best/

Not totally inaccurate....

Traveler wrote:
https://longingfordeath.wordpress.com/2 ... e-it-best/

Not totally inaccurate....

As an Asian guy, I'm just fascinated with this guy's writings, in a morbid curiosity kind of way. I can relate to most of the things he talks about, but at the same time kind of taken aback by his obsession with this topic.

This is the typical racist feminist BS poster from USA.

It does not refer to women FROM Asia or Western men relocating to Asia, but to mixed race marriage (white man/Asian woman only) in USA.

I do not hate Asian men, I do not hate white women. The word 'hate' is plainly wrong. I don't hate anybody, as 'hate' could be destructive to myself.

Not all families have a son - I do not have a son, my 2 daughters are adults anyway and my Filipina foster daughter looks really very different from me which is no surprise as she is 40+ years younger than me.

I really don't care if white women are sleeping with black men. This would be my last concern.

About my Japanese wife, we are not living in a white society, 96 percent of all people in Japan are pure Japanese, and add 2 percent non-white foreigners from other parts of Asia. Might be in USA Asian women are a minority, but not here in Japan.

https://longingfordeath.wordpress.com/2 ... ationship/

From the text of the blog which created this image:

The Asian woman and the White male is, barring few cases, the single most corrupt, despicable, and illegitimate pairing on the face of the planet – and it is virtually impossible for these thoughts (from one party or both) to not occur within the relationship over the course of its duration.

I don't know who created this racist BS-blog, but I feel sorry for this guy or grrl - who ever it might be...

MarcosZeitola wrote:Maybe the author is a Eurasian guy who, like Elliot Rodger, has been romantically unsuccessful and who takes it out on his ethnic background rather then on society? That's the vibe I'm getting from it.

Actually according to him, he's married to a Chinese woman and lives in Thailand.

Of course the notion that one is always screwed on the dating market just for being Eurasian or Asian is preposterous, but still, it's an interesting subject.

I agree, but not for reasons you might think. I think this is why a lot of Eurasian/Asian dudes have a gripe with non-Asians (not that I have any). They don't understand or are unable to empathize with Asian men's troubles in local dating markets. If you're in many parts of the US or Australia, you will definitely
feel the brunt where your (non-white) ethnicity matters and comes into play a lot. The issues are very real and you only really face them if you're on the bad side of it. God knows I've had my fair share of toxic Asian-American women who shun Asian men. But that's for local dating markets. On a global scale, race doesn't matter. That's the mantra of happier abroad isn't it? If you expand your dating pool globally, there's always a lot of places where men of any creed can do well, as long as they aren't inherently pathetic (looking at you newlife). I know for a fact that in my home country (somewhere in SE Asia) where I was born, a westernized native like me who lived extensively overseas is a very hot commodity. Although I choose not to take advantage of it for personal reasons. I said this before but the world is mind boggling huge, with plenty of women available. You can spend your entire lifetime in one foreign country and not be able to fully explore it all.

The author has a very toxic mindset and refuses to let go of things outside of his control. I think that will probably come to bite him in the ass later on.

MarcosZeitola wrote:...my first thread here, which I think you might find interesting:

viewtopic.php?t=23240

Thank you for bumping that thread, truly thoughtful and interesting.

MarcosZeitola wrote:

Dragon wrote:as long as they aren't inherently pathetic (looking at you newlife).

Don't even bother with him, Rock recently outed him as a Filipino troll, and he's been using a Filipino IP adress ever since signing up apparentlty. Newlife is a sexually frustrated Pinoy guy\girl pretending to be a pathetic American monger, probably to make Americans look bad. Rock also said Winston informed him he matches IP's with the members Ginger and MrBlueLight.

Winston you p***y.


Sell the goddam forum to me, or make Marcos the mod.

You p***y.

PS Jokes on me. How many times did I give NewLife advice????
f**k me.

Elliot Rodger was probably a virgin. He also believe he was entitled to have a blonde girlfriend. Blondes are overrated. Elliot Rodger should have gone to the Philippines where he would have had a higher social status. Most blonde women were never interested in me, since most blondes get way too much attention and worship. When I travel to Latin America, I have no problem hooking up with high status Latinas. So its all about going where you are wanted.

MarkDY wrote:Elliot Rodger was probably a virgin.

I have a theory ... and that theory is that a man should not be a virgin past the age of 18 (max 19).

The reason for this is that one's hormones are running crazy for those years. And thus, if one never dates nor bangs a chick during that epoch, little by little, he develops bizarre idealisms or fantasies about the perfect boink.

Trust me on this, after I'd boinked my first GF, at the age of 18, there was no chance of me ever turning into a Rodger, Holmes, or whomever. The fact of the matter was that the notion of laying with a chick, was not some divine experience. It was simply an experience, a place to get one's rocks off.

I don't know that his age had anything to do with it. Did you read any of Elliot Rodger's writings? It's nice to muse that he could have been saved if some generous lass had dispensed just a bit of nookie to him, but the guy had such severe mental issues that he was bound to go off sooner or later. If not about sex, then about whatever job he ended up getting (even if it didn't suck, it would not be hollywood movie interesting 24/7), whatever neighborhood he ended up in, something, anything. The guy didn't just hate women, he hated literally everybody. He hated anybody that had sex even once because 'they didn't deserve it.' He hated people that didn't have sex 'because they were losers' (see: his previous roommates). He hated women that had sex with other men because they weren't having sex with him. He hated men because they were all brutes and didn't deserve sex. If sex wouldn't have been his hangup, it would have been whatever other goal he had that he didn't obtain as easily as he wanted to.

Not having sex at a 'normal' age does cause 'abnormal' personality quirks, simply because that's the standard deviation from what our society considers normalcy, and people raised without a thing that is expected of them tend to develop differently. Somebody who had everything, but could not drive or ride in an automobile, for instance, is going to be a little 'weird' by our standards of scheduling ("Oh man, I need to leave for my job that's 4 miles away AN HOUR early" whereas I am heading out the door barely 10min before I need to be there). Blind people have weird ways of navigating our very visual landscapes. This stuff doesn't *make* you crazy.

Edit: make no mistake though, I'm all for this 'no guy should be a virgin past 19' idea (assuming the consequence was not 'we shoot them if they are')! Would have saved me a few years and a lot of stress.

Signet wrote:I don't know that his age had anything to do with it. Did you read any of Elliot Rodger's writings? It's nice to muse that he could have been saved if some generous lass had dispensed just a bit of nookie to him, but the guy had such severe mental issues that he was bound to go off sooner or later. If not about sex, then about whatever job he ended up getting (even if it didn't suck, it would not be hollywood movie interesting 24/7), whatever neighborhood he ended up in, something, anything.

I didn't get that feeling. It seems to me that his problem that AW were vile thug-humping sluts was a perfectly legitimate complaint.

Signet wrote:Edit: make no mistake though, I'm all for this 'no guy should be a virgin past 19' idea (assuming the consequence was not 'we shoot them if they are')! Would have saved me a few years and a lot of stress.

Elliot Rodgers was an extreme case but there are others, who're psychologically f'cked as adult, as a result of not getting laid during college times. Rodgers, Holmes, Kaczynski, etc, happen to be at the higher end of the nutcase spectrum.

I also knew of an extreme person, who'd ruined his life later, as a result of his delusions, however, while he was at college age, he was banging a gal. Thus, his point of self-destruction was delayed by a few decades.

MarcosZeitola wrote:I said to Elliot, "In the next few weeks - if you see them they'll likely give you a smile - and you can smile back and eventually turn this into chit-chat."

I got in touch with him a few weeks later and asked if he did it. He said "no". And when asked why not, he said "Why do I have to compliment them? Why don't they compliment me?"

At that stage, I realised he was very troubled.[/i]"

So he's a guy who never so much as talked to a girl or asked them out. He was never denied a date, because he never asked anyone on a date. He was not denied sex either, and you would be a fool to believe that a semi-handsome guy with rich parents who wore designer shades and drove a BMW could not have gotten laid easily had he put some effort into it. But he didn't.

Getting laid was the vocal point of his life, and yet he never actually tried.

You would be surprised at how many ppl have the above issue. The difference between Elliot and these other self-deluded ppl, who live with cats & goldfish, is that the latter crew are happy believing that they're the undiscovered Mozart a/o James Dean.

For example, one was a woman who'd thought that if a guy said anything to her, that he was secretly planning on molesting her. Hence, she never had a boyfriend. BTW, I'd stopped talking to this person because she'd thought that I was a sexual predator and threatened to call the police on me. She was a '5', who thought that she was Cindy Crawford. I told her to get a clue and that was the end of that. I believe she was a 33 year old virgin at the time.