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Online dating and Facebook alternatives to nightclubs and bars??

Bars and nightclubs are a complete waste of time for men. Women go there to get free drinks and get attention from men.

Men should avoid bars and clubs like the plague!

What other options 100 mil American men have?
Daygame,online dating,social media are even harder places to pull unless you look 'hot' in thier eyes.

But its true that many women go clubs to get a giant dose of self esteem boost and maybe some dick if mood is right

Banano wrote:What other options 100 mil American men have?
Daygame,online dating,social media are even harder places to pull unless you look 'hot' in thier eyes.

But its true that many women go clubs to get a giant dose of self esteem boost and maybe some dick if mood is right

Yep. That's the epitome of western civilization. There is no structure for good guys to get a women. The system of caste was created in India, precisely for these reasons so that few rich, good looking men don't end up with all the women in the world. In the west, its like 10% get 90% of women. Caste system is not the best...it has its own faults but it is the best system for 1: 1 ratio.

The Conquerors of India, totally projected caste system in a different light to the west. Even Kamasutra is just one chapter form a book called KamaKanda which lays down guidelines on how to live with a women. Its not about sex.

Clubs. Bars, Speed Dating, Tinder, Facebook is the option that is available to men in the west....Its so shallow, Its a freaking Joke.....That's the ultimate structure west came up with...finding women in bars or online to be your wife...

Its like America wants good guys to become bad...

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Even though I work in IT..I don't understand, what so great about it, All these super smart MIT, Harvard guys are creating a system...That is bound to FAIL....Can't these "Geniuses" come up a solution to men problems....Tinder really...Thats is the next big thing that is coming from west...

Yes. You are right, what options do 100 million men have ....NOTHING...except go abroad but that's not easy for 100 mil men....Its obvious...America was not created with a view on long term goals...Everything is for short term gain.

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Half of your life will be spend on Uping Your Game, Being more "Confident", Looking More good, Making more money..in the HOPE that you find your women.

starchild5 wrote:Clubs. Bars, Speed Dating, Tinder, Facebook is the option that is available to men in the west....Its so shallow, Its a freaking Joke.....That's the ultimate structure west came up with...finding women in bars or online to be your wife...

Its like America wants good guys to become bad...

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Even though I work in IT..I don't understand, what so great about it, All these super smart MIT, Harvard guys are creating a system...That is bound to FAIL....Can't these "Geniuses" come up a solution to men problems....Tinder really...Thats is the next big thing that is coming from west...

Yes. You are right, what options do 100 million men have ....NOTHING...except go abroad but that's not easy for 100 mil men....Its obvious...America was not created with a view on long term goals...Everything is for short term gain.

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Half of your life will be spend on Uping Your Game, Being more "Confident", Looking More good, Making more money..in the HOPE that you find your women.

I don't want to over crosspost but read my "Columbia University" theory.

viewtopic.php?f=1&t=25683

So at CU, even though there's a 2:1 female to male ratio (once you include the cross-registered Barnard gals), it's a complete abyss, as far as relationships go.

In time, my prediction is 2025, all of the USA will look like Columbia. Men will simply opt out of dating, as women will be too psycho for any normal guy to handle. What IT will provide, however, is surrogate partnership through virtual reality a/o android sex 'bots. That's our future.

S_Parc wrote:In time, my prediction is 2025, all of the USA will look like Columbia. Men will simply opt out of dating, as women will be too psycho for any normal guy to handle. What IT will provide, however, is surrogate partnership through virtual reality a/o android sex 'bots. That's our future.

Sex robots are going to be reality very soon.

The nightclubs in America are garbage....Even in a place like NYC, Las Vegas or Miami....However, nightlife overseas is much much better and natural by comparison....

S_Parc wrote:
. What IT will provide, however, is surrogate partnership through virtual reality a/o android sex 'bots. That's our future.

I must agree with you, Parc. Although that sounds like a real dystopian future to me. If the vast majority of men are porking sexbots in VR, what happens to the future of our species? I expect a massive depopulation to occur. Perhaps the radical environmentalists will finally get what they want?

Bane wrote:

S_Parc wrote:
What IT will provide, however, is surrogate partnership through virtual reality a/o android sex 'bots. That's our future.

I must agree with you, Parc. Although that sounds like a real dystopian future to me. If the vast majority of men are porking sexbots in VR, what happens to the future of our species? I expect a massive depopulation to occur. Perhaps the radical environmentalists will finally get what they want?

Right now, more and more developed economies, like Germany, are having reduced birth rates. This trend isn't abating anytime soon.

When my Columbia University theory goes critical nationwide, I'm predicting 2025, the technology for sex 'bots and VR worlds, will be there for the general population.

Unfortunately, despite the fact that many women claim to want to have a child (w/o a guy around), the truth of the matter is that many women are irresponsible and in reality, don't want to actually raise the offspring. I suspect that some future pharmacological treatment, like women getting some oxytocin derivatives will give them the glandular sensation of having had a child, without actually having them. If so, then yes, as a species, we're done.

The trends of the developed world take a long time to filter down to the developing world. And because of the limitations of energy inputs, the developing world will never completely be able to reach the standard of living of developed countries.

Currently the trend of declining birth rates has hit most of the world, except for Africa and the Middle East. Even India is going way down. But this trend will change over time as the availability of fossil fuels is reduced and people are forced to return to an agrarian way of life. I don't expect it to happen all at once though. More like gradually, over the course of our lifetimes.