travelsouth wrote:If you look decent, have a good job, and act like a jackass you can get women in the USA (also helps if you are tall). You do not need to be a gangster. I went overseas because I like the culture and the look of the women better in Latin America. So first lets not be like a gringa and assume guys that go overseas can't get women in the USA. We just want a better quality in many cases.
5'4, 20 lbs or more overweight, fake blonde, 20s, does have big breasts, has some tats, etc has an online profile. You start messaging them just for fun and you realize how f***ed up they are.
She wants a guy over 6 foot. She steps around it carefully but is looking for a pretty above average income, while she's overweight she doesn't want an overweight guy. I just enjoy understanding the mental side of what they are looking for. And the more you put them down the more they come back for more. So basically I eventually write back and list all of her prereqs, and she essentially responds in the affirmative. I note that I meet all of that, but what does she provide in return that lines up with all that. You start to figure how many are well above average in height, income, etc and meet all of that BS. And then why would they put up with her? It explains why she (like so many) are still single and have been passed around so much.
You're not going to find a decent woman online. Online you are going to find beasts. I have first hand experience with this. When AOL first came out, I was on there 24/7 looking for women. Guess what? Normal women will never look for a man in that way.
That is a subset of really psychologically screwed up women, and I can see how people will think that all women are screwed up based on the interactions they've had with unreasonable women online.
Online dating is more or less about fantasy. These women are busted. They are short and fat with multiple children. Maybe once or twice they got to have sex with a guy who had rock hard abs, but they couldnt keep him. Now they think they are only worthy of men with rockhard abs, when that was one time event, and it will never be repeated for them. They are delusional women because they will not be able to keep the caliber of man they want. And the type of man they want would not want them long term, because he can command the presence of women of better quality than her.
Believe me. I have heard it all from women. Busted women who want men with perfect bodies, green eyes and movie star looks, when they have none of those. Like I said though, these are delusional women who think their fantasies can come true.
The truth is they are psychologically screwed up. No one is good enough for them, but that is a lie they tell themselves. In truth, they are afraid that real men will not want them. So they make up some ridiculous requirements that no man can satisfy. When no man can live up to those standards, they say to everyone, "See, none of these losers are good enough for me."
There are plenty of good men available. It is just that they are afraid good men would not ever want them, and they'd be right. Because they know they are screwed up, they know that a decent person who knows what decency is would never want to be with them. That's why they make those laundry lists of requirements.
A woman who actually wants to be with a man knows she needs to be willing to compromise. Those are the inflexible women. And they will die alone with their cats and illegitimate children.
The real women who realize that men are real human beings do not troll dating sites. They use real life, the way life was meant to take place. Real women understand that men are real, and that not every man is a rock star with big bucks. That is any women with a real job realizes that money does not grow on trees. I would bet that most of those women who insist upon rich men are on the borderline of poverty, and they desperately need someone to rescue them. Just they are too stupid to be compromising about it, which is probably indicative of how they got into that position in the first place.
Those women you see online probably are unemployed or near unemployment, or they are the over achieving women but very unattractive. Very few of those women are normal individuals. Like the men, they have a problem with the opposite sex.
Don't mess with online women unless you are really willing to deal with absolute pieces of filth.