Tsar wrote:
Do you think it's socially acceptable to approach a girl after mass when she's with her family in church and ask her if she would like to go to lunch sometime after Sunday mass?
What better time to approach? Do you think parents disapprove of their daughter receiving attention? Granted the lunch invite straight out of the blue would be awkward, unless you have the dough to invite the whole family to a burger joint or something. But you could strike up a conversation, using a flimsy excuse. The flimsier the better. You get points for the approach, and for how long you hang in there before getting shot down. Bust a move!
All's fair in love and war!
i was going to jump down PublicDuende's throat for all his premarital-sex crap, but annoying as he is, he is onto something. You do need to learn to flirt. If there are attractive, decent girls, you should be opening conversation and talking to them.
If you're the quiet type, fine. Bring a musical instrument and play it. Or get someone to introduce you. Ask an older woman for help if need be. Or join the youth group.
IMO, in today's bleak, apocalyptic USA, a young man should shop for a church congregation strictly by the presence of desirable eligible girls. Screw the preaching. if there are no virgins who are lookers, move on.
Tsar wrote:
What if the girl was seventeen? It would be a disaster.
When young men say this I just want to smack them. What disaster? You're not RAPING the girl, you're talking to her. Get that age-of-consent BS out of your head.
Chick gets all dolled up, wears a pretty dress, puts on makeup and perfume, wears heels, sits with her family like a nice girl....... then YOU WON'T TALK TO HER, because she MIGHT BE SEVENTEEN.