Feeling Lonely After Seeing Couples

[Cornfed]

You still don't get it, dude. In this marketplace, you're a beggar, not a chooser!!.

We all get that things are difficult for non-scum men these days, but that doesn't mean men like Tsar should abandon all self-respect and plan to marry a worthless burnt-out slut like everyone else. I agree that he should f**k a few hoes though.

[The]

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[publicduende]

You still don't get it, dude. In this marketplace, you're a beggar, not a chooser!!.

We all get that things are difficult for non-scum men these days, but that doesn't mean men like Tsar should abandon all self-respect and plan to marry a worthless burnt-out slut like everyone else. I agree that he should f**k a few hoes though.

He can marry whoever he wants, once he has gained the knowledge, discernment and inner balance to know what he wants from life, and from women. Heck, for what I know he's so clueless, bitter and sex starved that he might end up swearing eternal love to the first Filipina who flirts with him at the Manila airport.

[S_Parc]

If you don't act now, you'll be stuck in your fantasies for the rest of your life. Marcos, lots of other members and I cannot be all wrong, don't you think.

Act. Now.

It's already happening.

I see the ages of 13, 17, 24, & finally 29-32, as major transit points in a man's life. Thus, being at the first age gateway at such an advanced age is a problem.

If you recall, many of the global fans of the Titanic movie were 13 year old girls. Until I'd heard of Elliot Rodger, I didn't know a single guy who was a big fan of the flick, aside from those who're into disaster movies

You may well be in the top 1% but as long as you remain anchored to your ideas and in your US town basement, nobody will ever know. Show what you're made of, and one (or more) girls will be bound to notice you. And then you might well turn the tables and become a chooser.

My dad was also a Mr Know-It-All but at least he had my mother completely under his thumb, before going off on his delusional rants. I'm pretty sure that he was technically sane, when he'd met my mother, but went slowly nuts afterwards.

Thus, unless the OP's setup in some Amish town in central PA, where someone will accept such a subjugation, as a sort of luddite extremism, then he's out of luck.

[Cornfed]

Honor, dishonor, who gives a f**k?

You don't live in the 18th century. Nobody cares about that shit.

Codes of honor are a practical way of surviving and building a cooperative society. In the same way that there are right and wrong ways to build a house, there are right and wrong ways to comport yourself. Unfortunately the system currently shields people from the consequences of their dishonorable behavior, causing them to become complete scumbags. However, you should consider this a temporary situation.

[Cornfed]

Codes of honor mean nothing if they are upheld only by him. If no one else in society gives a crap about his ideas of honor and dishonor, it will only set him back.

Indeed, we should be looking to move to or create enclaves where men are not dishonorable scumbags.

For him to consider sex with a non-virgin somehow detrimental to his personal honor is absolutely preposterous.

I agree. It is only females that should be virgins when they are married. There is nothing wrong with men nailing hoes before and during marriage.

[Tsar]

I am one year older than you. I am not the most outgoing man but I am one of the most attractive. I'm in the top 25% or top 20% when it comes to my physical attractiveness. There are guys less attractive with many girlfriends. I'm not interested in American girls and wasn't for a long time. I'm also not interested in being with any woman.

If I remember correctly, you are short, correct? Maybe around my height (5'6).

Well, unfortunately, if you are that short you are not in the Top 20% of physical attractiveness for men, as height plays a HUGE role in that. I have a face that has been compared favorably to James Franco, I have a personality that people (and many women) seem to like, and I have a good job.

But I am short. So I consider myself to be average (50% range) at best (maybe a little below average if we're just talking physical attractiveness).

Sorry, man, but height is one of the most important overall traits to women and, by far, the most important physical trait. I don't see that changing anywhere in the world. These hot 16 year old virgins may consider this as well.

Not saying this to get you down, but I think it's a good idea to stay grounded and be realistic.

Doug Hutcinson was 5'6". The former President of Russia, Dmitry Medvedev was 5'4" and he was one of the most powerful men in the world.

Height is more of a feature. It plays into the desirability rating but not necessarily attractive. There is a Desirability and then there is Attractiveness and both play a role into being accepted. An attractive guy that's shorter might not be the most desired guy. But the shorter guy could have a better appearance and better face than a taller guy.

I say a guy that was 5'4" and he was about 20. I am sure he has had several girls in the past and at least an above average attractive girlfriend.

[Cornfed]

We could just take over a village in the Philippines, you know. We all marry rural girls and have large families, effectively colonizing the area. Would be pretty fun to see how it would expand and flourish over the years as so many other places in the world turn to absolute shit.

Yes, that would be a viable strategy.

[Tsar]

If you don't act now, you'll be stuck in your fantasies for the rest of your life. Marcos, lots of other members and I cannot be all wrong, don't you think.

Act. Now.

It's already happening.

I see the ages of 13, 17, 24, & finally 29-32, as major transit points in a man's life. Thus, being at the first age gateway at such an advanced age is a problem.

What exactly is suppose to happen at those transition points?

[Tsar]

You still don't get it, dude. In this marketplace, you're a beggar, not a chooser!!.

We all get that things are difficult for non-scum men these days, but that doesn't mean men like Tsar should abandon all self-respect and plan to marry a worthless burnt-out slut like everyone else. I agree that he should f**k a few hoes though.

There is always a choice.

For him to consider sex with a non-virgin somehow detrimental to his personal honor is absolutely preposterous.

I agree. It is only females that should be virgins when they are married. There is nothing wrong with men nailing hoes before and during marriage.

It's not about nailing hoes. It's about paying to lose my virginity to a hoe or to be second or "last" when it's my first time. That is one reason why I would be dishonored and ruin my pride. A man that lost his virginity to a virgin girl and nails hoes is just banging whores. There isn't any shame for a man to bang a whore. But a virgin man like me to be with a whore for his first time would be shameful.

[Cornfed]

It's not about nailing hoes. It's about paying to lose my virginity to a hoe or to be second or "last" when it's my first time. That is one reason why I would be dishonored and ruin my pride. A man that lost his virginity to a virgin girl and nails hoes is just banging whores. There isn't any shame for a man to bang a whore. But a virgin man like me to be with a whore for his first time would be shameful.

That is not the traditional belief. Indeed in sane societies it is normal for men/boys to lose their virginity to hoes. That way they can become sexually experienced without deflowering virgins they don't intend to marry.

[S_Parc]

What exactly is suppose to happen at those transition points?

It would probably be best explained by illustrative examples.

At 13, childhood comes to an end. The world of phantasmagorical things, like believing that the Star Wars universe is actually happening outside of cinema or perhaps, a prophecy of some distant future/parallel universe, starts to unwind. What's real is real and what's in the mind's eye is imagination (or prophetic if one's third eye is open, but that's another story for another day). What was clear to me was that I needed to start to deal with situations and not run into some dream-like vision-quest state that they weren't happening.

17 is the start of one's early adulthood. I'd left home that year, never to return. Clearly, I had to carve my own path and couldn't stand my father or sister. I also vehemently broke out of being shy and started talking to just about everyone out there.

Then, 24 is the first reflection pool period of that early adulthood. I'd made a career change/shift that year and in terms of my inner/outer relationships with others, I'd gone cold turkey on American women and started going abroad to date FWs. It was a dramatic shift from prior times.

And then, that 29+ era is classically known as the Saturn Return, if you read that astrology gobbledygook. But what it signifies is whether or not one's on the right path and whether or not one needs serious modification. That's somewhat when I'd realized that I didn't fit into the whole Catholic large family thing of Rio; my illusions about that were beginning to unwind. I was generally an outgoing introvert (which isn't a contradiction) and started to learn things like Qigong, Meditation, and so forth, looking for happiness from within w/o outside validation. This is where Public and I have departed ways.

Today, I can be completely alone and happy or with a group of people and feel the same way, provided that they're not a bunch of a-holes. And likewise, with Mel, I now have a new family with whom I can get to know and form relationships.

[Tsar]

Here's a recent study that was done this year.

http://www.themoscowtimes.com/news/arti ... 00938.html

40% of Russian girls lose their virginity before age 15. Assuming that statistic is accurate and it is mainly towards the major cities like Moscow and St. Petersberg and the related suburban districts then there are still very good odds for me to get a 16 year old virgin girl in a smaller city or a medium-large town.

[Maverick]

Doug Hutcinson was 5'6". The former President of Russia, Dmitry Medvedev was 5'4" and he was one of the most powerful men in the world.

I never said that a man can't be rich and powerful if he is short. He certainly can be. What I said is that a lack of height is unattractive to women. At worst, it's a dealbreaker. At best, it's neutral. But it's never a good thing or a desired trait.

Just the way it is.

Height is more of a feature. It plays into the desirability rating but not necessarily attractive. There is a Desirability and then there is Attractiveness and both play a role into being accepted. An attractive guy that's shorter might not be the most desired guy. But the shorter guy could have a better appearance and better face than a taller guy.

Well, yes, a short guy can certainly have a better face than taller guys. It still doesn't change the fact that he's short. I've generally found (just by observation) that women will give more leeway to a guy that's taller with an ugly face than to a guy that's shorter with a nice face. Also, looks can be variable. Some women may prefer one look to another. However, none of them would prefer a short guy over a tall guy.

So, in your quest to find an extremely good-looking 16 year old virgin, if you are lucky enough to find one, there is a reasonable possibility that she will be turned off by your height. If she is THAT good-looking, the chances are good that she has a suitor that is similar to your looks, but of a much greater height.

I say a guy that was 5'4" and he was about 20. I am sure he has had several girls in the past and at least an above average attractive girlfriend.

As I've said in multiple posts before, I'm 5'6 and have dated attractive women in the US. It definitely CAN be done. But it's foolish to believe that your height will not hold you back (even if it's a little bit), ESPECIALLY because you're looking for a unicorn that may or may not even exist.

[Maverick]

Here's a recent study that was done this year.

http://www.themoscowtimes.com/news/arti ... 00938.html

40% of Russian girls lose their virginity before age 15. Assuming that statistic is accurate and it is mainly towards the major cities like Moscow and St. Petersberg and the related suburban districts then there are still very good odds for me to get a 16 year old virgin girl in a smaller city or a medium-large town.

Interesting theory.

When will you be heading out to Russia to test it?