Last thing you want to do is make a big mistake. I'd say most of us here have tried the traveling thing before making any permanent plans.
I would try different areas(but not limited to), like a 2nd-4th tier Chinese city, different areas of the PH, hell, even Vietnam if you wanted lol. Also consider the quality of perspective mates in the regions you'll be traveling, if that's real important to you. And don't forget that if you do plan to reside permanently, that you will need to learn the language.
Sooooo, if your not happy, save some moolah and move your ass. All your doing is wasting your life away according to what you've stated yourself. Even if it doesn't pan out, these kind of life experiences are really something and they'll stay with you for the rest of your life
