Miss Single-Mother-In-Nebraska's Response To My Email

[The_Hero_of_Men]

I am Darth Vader to these bitches and you should be Darth Maul. f**k these stupid tricks and just flee man. Nothing more. Grow strong in the Darkside.

You are correct on that end about leaving her alone. Anyway, what do you know about Star Wars/Darth Vader/Darth Maul??

[ErikHeaven]

I was alive when the first Star Wars was on boy. You werent even hatched yet! What you know about Doctor Who? Its funny when black nerds like ourselves converse.

[The_Hero_of_Men]

I was alive when the first Star Wars was on boy. You werent even hatched yet! What you know about Doctor Who? Its funny when black nerds like ourselves converse.

Hahahaha that was funny. I do not know nor care about "Dr. Who".

[ErikHeaven]

Doctor Who is the greatest Scifi ever!

[Rock]

I finally got a response from her just today. I am posting this here, even though, I have not technically read it yet. You can say that I am kind of chicken shit for not reading it (and I freely admit to being a weenie) because I am expecting the mother of all ball-bustings (no pun intended) from her...


Here is the response I received.


I just checked my email sorry you feel that way but I had already told you my kids come first no matter what. As for games I'm not playing a game with you. DO NOT ever think you are more important than my kids. That's what made me stop talking to you, you always wanted it to be about you well guess what its not. It's no skin off my back if you don't wanna chat but I never played you trust me if I did there would have been more than one man while i was talking to you


She made it seem like I was the bad guy, but then again, oh well. Like someone said on here, I dodged a bullet. I never said I was more important than her kids (read the email that I sent to her that is on this forum), I just said that if I meant so much to her, then she would make a greater effort to make some time for me. That's all. Never mind that I spent almost a full year on here, even though she vanished on me a few times. You can say that I finally ran out of patience with her...

Very simple, good mom, bad girlfriend. So don't reply or look back, just move-on.

Too bad she didn't make things so clear when you first started dating you. Could have saved many months of frustration in your life.

[Grunt]

Never ceases to amaze me how men try to make sense of the senseless.

[djfourmoney]

Never ceases to amaze me how men try to make sense of the senseless.

It amazes me as well. I hope this woman looked good at least. Then again desperation makes men do stupid things...

As I have said before, a Single Mother has to meet rigid requirements because of the massive investment of mind and body -

1) One child only

2) The child must be under school age

3) You either have an excellent relationship with your child's father or he's not involved at all = Drama Free

4) At least as attractive as the most attractive single woman you ever dated (that is if you dated anybody...)

Especially number 2, because one woman I was attempting to date had two sons with about a 4 year age difference. Luckily they came from the same father. The oldest was already having problems in school that are typical of boys raised in fatherless homes (fighting, talking back to teachers, etc). Last thing I want to do with a new relationship is come in and solve deep seeded problems I'm going to be expected to be resolved by the mother. If I were to find a solution to the problem, how grateful would she be? These are all sorts of questions that men don't ask themselves during the dating process.

Single Mothers should not deserve high praise because today women are usually irresponsible, uneducated, low paid, low information. They should not engage in Female Shaming tactics as 90% of the time its a Pot Calling the Kettle Black Moment and not even a comparison of equals. I know, with no job, I'm considered worthless by other men and by most women. I can't get any sort of help from the Government. I get food stamps and some minor job assistance which is a joke because its basically "Do you want this security job, cashier job, warehouse job, etc, etc" Its never about training somebody for a well-paying job.

Since Mother's in America have at MINIMUM -

1) Low Cost or No Cost Child Care courtesy of a middle age to elderly parent(s). If in a welfare to work program, you get money for child care but how many of these women pay their parents? Talk about taking for granted...

2) Heavily Discounted Food. EBT and WIC for newborn children up to 5 years old

3) Heavily Discounted Rent, Telephone (phone is available to anybody however) and Energy (all Energy Companies have programs for the poor)

4) Medicaid, which include prenatal care

5) Direct Cash Assistance

I get NONE OF THAT!

If you think THAT's bad and I've known about this before somebody posted the Man Woman Myth link, but I don't know why a woman would have a child in the US when the UK Government bends over backwards for Single Mothers.

I can't stress enough, a Single Mother should ALMOST kiss your feet that you're willing to be with her long term. Single Mothers spend more time alone or in-dating mode more than in long term relationships for a variety of reason and that's why they tend to give up the ass sooner than childless women.

If your under 30, avoid at all cost unless they meet the guidelines you have set, though I tend to think most men don't have guidelines other than she's Hot...

[The_Hero_of_Men]

Never ceases to amaze me how men try to make sense of the senseless.

It amazes me as well. I hope this woman looked good at least. Then again desperation makes men do stupid things...

As I have said before, a Single Mother has to meet rigid requirements because of the massive investment of mind and body -

1) One child only

2) The child must be under school age

3) You either have an excellent relationship with your child's father or he's not involved at all = Drama Free

4) At least as attractive as the most attractive single woman you ever dated (that is if you dated anybody...)

Especially number 2, because one woman I was attempting to date had two sons with about a 4 year age difference. Luckily they came from the same father. The oldest was already having problems in school that are typical of boys raised in fatherless homes (fighting, talking back to teachers, etc). Last thing I want to do with a new relationship is come in and solve deep seeded problems I'm going to be expected to be resolved by the mother. If I were to find a solution to the problem, how grateful would she be? These are all sorts of questions that men don't ask themselves during the dating process.

Single Mothers should not deserve high praise because today women are usually irresponsible, uneducated, low paid, low information. They should not engage in Female Shaming tactics as 90% of the time its a Pot Calling the Kettle Black Moment and not even a comparison of equals. I know, with no job, I'm considered worthless by other men and by most women. I can't get any sort of help from the Government. I get food stamps and some minor job assistance which is a joke because its basically "Do you want this security job, cashier job, warehouse job, etc, etc" Its never about training somebody for a well-paying job.

Since Mother's in America have at MINIMUM -

1) Low Cost or No Cost Child Care courtesy of a middle age to elderly parent(s). If in a welfare to work program, you get money for child care but how many of these women pay their parents? Talk about taking for granted...

2) Heavily Discounted Food. EBT and WIC for newborn children up to 5 years old

3) Heavily Discounted Rent, Telephone (phone is available to anybody however) and Energy (all Energy Companies have programs for the poor)

4) Medicaid, which include prenatal care

5) Direct Cash Assistance

I get NONE OF THAT!

If you think THAT's bad and I've known about this before somebody posted the Man Woman Myth link, but I don't know why a woman would have a child in the US when the UK Government bends over backwards for Single Mothers.

I can't stress enough, a Single Mother should ALMOST kiss your feet that you're willing to be with her long term. Single Mothers spend more time alone or in-dating mode more than in long term relationships for a variety of reason and that's why they tend to give up the ass sooner than childless women.

If your under 30, avoid at all cost unless they meet the guidelines you have set, though I tend to think most men don't have guidelines other than she's Hot...

I will consider that one. Thatns a lot!

[ssjparris]

yeah man stay away from american girls. i know its very hard right now. because you can't get out of america yet. foreign women are the sweetest, man adoring, kind, gentle, support you always kind of women.

this girl your talking about has ALOT of demands. and she is very selfish. all american women that have kids talk like this. i imagine her speaking this way to me. and i feel weak if i comply.

so i would initially tell her.like this, " I am the one in charge, this family is going to be male dominated. love and attention will be given to the children and to you as well but on my terms. never yours. but you are going to support me, please me, and surrender to me. take it or leave it. "

stay AWAY from these bitches dude. its not worth it. focus on foreign women dating sites in your area. maybe this will help you.

peace link hero of time.

[The_Hero_of_Men]

yeah man stay away from american girls. i know its very hard right now. because you can't get out of america yet. foreign women are the sweetest, man adoring, kind, gentle, support you always kind of women.

this girl your talking about has ALOT of demands. and she is very selfish. all american women that have kids talk like this. i imagine her speaking this way to me. and i feel weak if i comply.

so i would initially tell her.like this, " I am the one in charge, this family is going to be male dominated. love and attention will be given to the children and to you as well but on my terms. never yours. but you are going to support me, please me, and surrender to me. take it or leave it. "

stay AWAY from these bitches dude. its not worth it. focus on foreign women dating sites in your area. maybe this will help you.

peace link hero of time.

Tell me something I dont know... lol but yeah where I am (San Antonio), I would not even begin to know where to find a foreign girl from overseas...

[Grunt]

You could head into Mexico, a few hours drive from you, with $2000 and live like a friggin KING all summer. Up to your EARS in hot young Latina chicks.

[The_Hero_of_Men]

You could head into Mexico, a few hours drive from you, with $2000 and live like a friggin KING all summer. Up to your EARS in hot young Latina chicks.

I will have to consider that. To be honest with you, if I ever went down there, it would be for LOVE and not to just slam every hot little thing with a hole between her legs.

[sushiman]

one day woke up and thought "I will always come in last". So i sat her down and we had other major issues as well, and i told her regretfully that we were over

Thanks for sharing, at least you had the balls to pull the plug.

The kids *didn't* come first. All American women say this meaningless thing of "the kids come first" and so they ruin their families. Yeah that is smart! The primary relationship is between the man and the woman. The man comes first. Follow natural law and the kids end up fine too.

"The kids come first" is how a single mom ended up a single mom in the first place, guys stay away!