Why are we misfits in America? What's the root cause?

[hb2345]

These are insults with no basis. You are here only to troll and trash. You make false statements about me too. Everyone that knows me says I'm the most honest authentic person they know. See these quotes about me here: www.happierabroad.com/FreethinkingAsian.htm

America didn't reject me because I'm a loser. If I'm a loser why do cops always see me as harmless and pay me respect and think I'm a good asian american citizen? I'm rejected because it's the matrix script and I am also a targeted individual. Not targeted by government agencies, but metaphysically by the Notnilc Matrix. That's why I always experience Murphy's Law. For example if I show up at a meeting on time, everyone is late, but if I show up late then everyone is on time. That kind of stuff happens all the time.

Since 1983 there's been a cold wall and curse on me in America. All of a sudden 30 kids in my class were all against me and persecuting me and bullying me. It was traumatizing and came out of nowhere, even though I was kind and gentle and did nothing wrong. It was 100 percent illogical and unjust. Only a curse could explain that. No one has ever explained that logically. It was part of the matrix script. A script is running everything in reality. That's obvious. Just like a script is running the 40 trillion cells in your body, they are not moving around randomly. If the matrix designates you as a misfit or loser, then that's what you experience, that's what will happen. Probably it was my destiny to be happier abroad and start this movement. That's why those things happened. Everything happens for a reason. There is no randomness. Every enlightened person eventually figures that out.

How come average normal people don't complain about a force field around them and people being closed off and antisocial and women being unapproachable? Because we all experience a different reality, and normies are treated different and see things differently. I am in a different reality bubble where what I say is true. Reality is not fixed or linear, it is multidimensional.

The world is not just and innocent people do suffer and there are victims. Why are you gaslighting me and victim blaming me? That's illogical and cruel and unjust and trollish. If you continue to do that, you will have to be banned because you are wasting my time with these trollish insults and contributing nothing useful.

Just a bunch of deluded bullshit not worth commenting on. Are you taking hallucinogens? Quotes about you? Who the f**k are you??? Mao Zedong? Seek psychiatric help.

[hb2345]

I have 10 unique accomplishments remember? See here:
http://www.happierabroad.com/WinstonWu.htm

You don't have any accomplishments. You're a f***ing nobody.

I am definitely not average or like others.

No, you're definitely not average. You're way below average.

I never said I was traveling around looking for p***y. Where do you get that? But sex is a need and real men need sex, even I do. It's natural and normal. Men need food and sex. Why do you have a problem with that? It's nature. Animals need sex too. Without the need for sex, the human race would go extinct. This is common knowledge. What is wrong with that? What are you griping about? Aren't you a man too? Why do you thrive off of hate? It's natural to need sex, but it's not natural to spread lies on a forum about someone like you are doing. I am natural, you are not.

I don't have a problem with sex, you bloviating idiot. I have a problem with assholes who call themselves unique and special while all they do is go around the globe hounding for p***y. Oh, and BTW, moron, human race will go extinct without procreation, not sex. You're shooting blanks into the rubber. You're not saving mankind.

If I am a misfit in some countries, that is not my fault. I can only be who I am. I can only be genuine. Every wise person knows that. So what the heck is your problem?

Narcissistic losers like you are misfits everywhere because of your delusion of grandeur. If it wasn't for your American dollars no one would give you another look no matter where you go, dipshit.

If you hate the truth and honesty, then this forum is not for you.

There's nothing truthful and honest about your countless paragraphs of verbal diarrhea. You're a deluded phony and a liar.

Also if you don't like me, then you should not be here. There is a fine line between love and hate. If you hate something constantly, then deep down you may love it, because if you truly had no interest in something you would ignore it like normal people do. For example I don't like football but I don't waste time bashing it. I just ignore it and never think about it. Simple as that. If you really dislike me you should not give me any attention at all or waste any time on me.

Liars and fakes must be ousted and called out on their bullshit for everyone to see. That's what I did.

[hb2345]

@hb2345

Let's say I'm a loser. Ok then what should I do? Kill myself?

Yes.

Follow BS New Age advice from the self help movement which every smart person here knows is bogus and doesn't work? Loving yourself or thinking positive thoughts isn't gonna accomplish anything or change anything, at least not in this case. The only thing I can do is to go abroad where I am treated better and can be myself and feel comfortable and feel confident and connect with people naturally and have a decent dating/social life, rather than loneliness and alienation and feeling frozen and paralyzed. Very simple.

No one gives a f**k about your problems and what you do to feel better about your worthless persona. All you need is to be quiet and stop shifting blame for your shortcomings on America, women, aliens, and whatever the f**k else you crying about non-stop here. It's YOU who is the problem. If anything America (namely USD and the prospects of immigration) is the only reason they give you the time of day in those third world shit-holes that you visit.

What is your problem and what is your point?

That's exactly what you should ask yourself.

What do you suggest?That I stay in America and thrive and become a winner? If that is not my destiny then it won't happen. It's the fault of the matrix and the universe and God and whatever higher forces put us here. Not our fault. It is what it is. If you don't have a point then please leave. It seems all you want to do is to make others feel bad about themselves. You have no solutions to anything.

Again, I don't give a f**k about you, your life, and what you do with it. I'm just here to call you out on your bullshit and non-stop finger pointing. Buy a f***ing mirror.

At least I can think outside the box and suggest changing location as a solution, whereas everyone else wants you to stay in America and try to fix things and change your thoughts and creating your own reality in your own miserable place that you don't fit into, which doesn't work as we all know. So I deserve kudos for thinking outside the box and having a unique solution, when everyone else in the self help movement, truth movement, and new age movement, cannot see my solution and can only spout BS and useless solutions such as "loving yourself" and "creating your own reality" which doesn't really work. But other people can only think inside the box, not outside the box like me and the passport bros can. Even truthers and freethinkers cannot think outside the box. All they can do is blame the government and talk about useless conspiracies which doesn't change your life or help you in any way and is bad for your mental health and just fear porn ultimately. So that makes me the ultimate freethinker I guess? I don't know.

Good for you. You found the solutions to your problem. Now it's time to acknowledge that the problem is yourself and stop blaming everyone and everything for your own shortcomings. As the saying goes - "In the land of the blind, the one-eyed man is king."

However my message is just basic simple logic. If you are on the Titanic and it is sinking, then the logical solution is to get off the ship, not stay on and try to save it, like everyone else does. It's basic logic. I don't know why everyone is blind to it, including Tucker Carlson and Alex Jones. It seems like a reality breakdown. I could be in a video game where no one is real except me and you are all AI video game characters who can only say what you are programmed to say. Who knows. That can never be ruled out if this is a simulation.

Fine. Put your money where your mouth is. Leave the West for good, renounce your US citizenship, and make a living like the rest of the honest, hardworking Filipino people. That will be some reality check for your deluded ass.

[josephty2]

Guys I think I found an important clue and indicator as to why I am a misfit, not by choice of course. If u take a bunch of pendulum devices and put them on the table, u will find that they gradually move to the same rhythm in sync. There are YouTube videos showing this. It seems that even inanimate objects conform to the same rhythm by nature. It's kind of like how women who live together have the same menstrual cycles. So people don't choose to conform. It's their nature to sync to the same rhythm by nature.

Now the thing is whenever I am in class or group that's moving in sync and step together, like an aerobics class or marching bad or even karate class, everyone seems to be able to move in rhythm with the same steps at the same time. Except for me. No matter how hard I try I can't move in the same steps at the same time as everyone else. If everyone steps the right foot forward, I step the left foot forward or I am a few seconds behind. I've never understood why everyone is able to move in the same rhythm and timing in a group but I cannot at all.

I thought it was because I was just uncoordinated and not athletic or good at sports. But I think it goes deeper than that. Somehow I cannot conform to the same rhythm as others even when I try. This means I may not be human or be on a totally different frequency as everyone else. As though I'm not the same species as others or not in this dimension. How else do u explain this? How come I can't do what normal people can do? Something must be off about me. But what exactly? Plus if even inanimate objects conform to the same rhythm like pendulum devices do, then it could be that I am not even from this same material reality matrix right?

This indicates that I'm really different from others, maybe different species too, and not by choice either. No one wants to be abnormal or a misfit, especially if they are a kid or teen. I certainly didn't. I was forced into it somehow.

Maybe I don't belong to this matrix or I'm not from this reality? The above is a strong physical indicator and proof. What do u think? Do any of you guys experience the same thing? If so how do u explain it? There must be something fundamentally different about me if I can't move in rhythm like normal people can.

Also, normal people can do the waltz or Cha Cha or a ballroom dance and dance in rhythm with their partner too. But I keep stepping on her toes and can't figure out how to move in rhythm with my dance partner. No one knows why. Do you?

Yep.

If you want to learn physics, and you learn physics, perhaps you would get better clarity.

[josephty2]

I just sent this to the host of deep thoughts radio, who is a really cool open minded deep dude that you would love to have a drink with. You can check out his channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@deepthoughtsradio . He has deep talks and rants on a lot of topics and has good analysis skills. He has a deep talk about human interaction and our need for it here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zGfWRG_R8Ws . That's where I posted the comment and question below.


"To the host: I have an unusual question. You've said in your talks that we may all be in different reality bubbles or dimensions. I have thought that for a long time too. It's the only way to explain the following. Since 1983 I've always been ostracized socially in America. I can't get a decent dating or social life. Cliques are never inclusive to me. Americans (especially women) put up this wall to me like cats and dogs put up to each other because they aren't meant to connect. But when I started going abroad to Russia, Europe and Asia, I noticed the opposite. I was able to get an abundant dating and social life, like you see in the movies. Just by going to a foreign culture. The different was mind blowing. I thought I was dreaming. But it was real. I swear. So my question is: How come normal people don't talk about this or report such experiences? The only explanations I can think of are: 1) I am in a different reality bubble or dimension than others, like you postulated. 2) The egregore in America doesn't like me so it gives me bad experiences and it always feels like everything is against me, like I'm always against the flow and grain. Every country has a different egregore governing it. 3) I am too eccentric for America, which is a very conformist country, or I have Asperger's Syndrome or mild autism. America is very conformist so they don't like eccentric people unless they are rich and famous (e.g. Jack Nicholson) but other countries are more forgiving of it and more chill.

A lot of "normal people", you see, they don't consider their clique as a clique. I observed this. They think their clique is open and diverse and welcoming.

What do you think? I've told my friends that the above are the only explanations I can think of, but the first two explanations are too out there for most people. The thing is, you and I are deep thinkers which automatically makes us misfits in America, because Americans tend to be on a very airheadish, degenerate frequency (esp compared to Europeans) so deep thinkers and deep people are automatically misfits and ostracized. You must have noticed this right? Why haven't you mentioned it? Also if you are very sensitive and deep feeling then you won't like America either because America is not for the sensitive. Better you go to somewhere soulful like Spain or Italy or the Philippines where you never feel lonely or disconnected, even when you sit alone in a cafe. That feeling is priceless and much better for your mental health. Have you traveled the world and noticed these things too?"

Most people in America wouldn't mind if you learned all the physics in the world, say you took a introductory physics course in community college and failed. Americans want you to retake that class then enroll in a bunch of physics courses and seminars when you get to 4 year college just so you can understand where not to bother them, Americans can be grumpy in the wrong places. The rest of the world (you went to Russia, Philippines, China, and Taiwan) wouldn't care. Taiwan might care in 2024 and 2025.

[Rygar1]

Fascinating inquiry for sure, Wu! I'm not really sure if you're familiar with mbti theory(look it up) , but you and others, as well as myself, seem like what Jung (and others after him) would call 'intuitives', whereas most people, from what I gather, are 'sensors'. Basically, without getting too deep into it, sensors take in information from the world around them in a literal, concrete way, whereas intuitives are more abstract and look for the deeper meaning behind things. There were, I beleive, four dichotmies consisting of introversion/extraversion, sensing/intuiting, thinking/feeling, and perceiving/judging. As I recall, the first, third, and fourth, and relatively balanced among the general population, but the sensing/intuiting one is something like 70/30 ratio in favor of sensors. Were intuitive thinkers living in a sensing, judging world. I could see how this discrepancy could cause some issues across a number of areas.

[my life is trash]

Fascinating inquiry for sure, Wu! I'm not really sure if you're familiar with mbti theory(look it up) , but you and others, as well as myself, seem like what Jung (and others after him) would call 'intuitives', whereas most people, from what I gather, are 'sensors'. Basically, without getting too deep into it, sensors take in information from the world around them in a literal, concrete way, whereas intuitives are more abstract and look for the deeper meaning behind things. There were, I beleive, four dichotmies consisting of introversion/extraversion, sensing/intuiting, thinking/feeling, and perceiving/judging. As I recall, the first, third, and fourth, and relatively balanced among the general population, but the sensing/intuiting one is something like 70/30 ratio in favor of sensors. Were intuitive thinkers living in a sensing, judging world. I could see how this discrepancy could cause some issues across a number of areas.

Yes, there have been many MBTI surveys conducted over the years, and INTPs and INTJs are consistently the majority of incels. It's quite rare if you are not one of these in fact.

[Rygar1]

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Yes, there have been many MBTI surveys conducted over the years, and INTPs and INTJs are consistently the majority of incels. It's quite rare if you are not one of these in fact.
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I'm actually an ENTP myself, but it's very close to intp. I've had some success, actually, casual sex, blow jobs, etc, over the years, but still well behind my peers, probably due to my mbti type, at least to some extent. Normal, adjusted, well connected people are usually sensors. If it's any consolation, most people aren't getting laid as much as you think, even those in relationships, and it's kinda overrated, but still very fun. Honestly, the social aspect is most troubling.

[Rygar1]

[quote=Rygar1 post_id=420463 time=1744394083

Yes, there have been many MBTI surveys conducted over the years, and INTPs and INTJs are consistently the majority of incels. It's quite rare if you are not one of these in fact.

I would think that INFP would be up there, as well. SP and SJ types get the most ass.